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Approaching Chicks in the gym

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Before anyone asks what a gym is...do a google search.

anyway. I see this girl in the gym a lot. We are both aware of each other's presence and I was wondering how I could approach her without infringing on gym etiquette.

She really intrigues me because she's short, blonde, cute, and a damn hard worker. I was doing pec dec flyes(finishing off my chest routine) and she was nearby on the leg extensions and I could see the struggle in her face...damn it was sexy.

So any of you geniuses have a good idea of how to go about talking to her?
 
I'm not sure. I've wondered the same thing. I know it can happen, because a couple that I am friends with met in the gym. I'm usually a sweaty socially inept mess in the gym so I'm not at my best, but still, there are many a chick I'd like to "get to know" I see in the gym.
 
saying hi and smiling normally goes a long way. if shes a member there, you have a long time to work on her, so warm her up with a few hellos and then do your thing, i dont see the difficulty
 
GoldenDelicious said:
saying hi and smiling normally goes a long way. if shes a member there, you have a long time to work on her, so warm her up with a few hellos and then do your thing, i dont see the difficulty
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^^^GoldenApples is correct.

Don't do anything special, smiling and saying hi, being genuine really do go along way to endearing you to females in the gym. Be courteous and offer help whenever necessary. Go about your business and you'll be STR8.

You guys who see this as "difficult" are overthinking it......just take the shit as it comes and you be in there like swimwear.....


Hope this helps.



DIV

:chomp:
 
I get in a zone in the gym and act a little weird apparently.

Yeah, I'll stop overthinking this thing.
 
Start off with just smiling some ppl don't want to be bothered
 
GoldenDelicious said:
saying hi and smiling normally goes a long way. if shes a member there, you have a long time to work on her, so warm her up with a few hellos and then do your thing, i dont see the difficulty
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Listen to the guy, he knows a lot about women. Most gay guys do
 
DIVISION said:
Don't do anything special, smiling and saying hi, being genuine really do go along way to endearing you to females in the gym. Be courteous and offer help whenever necessary. Go about your business and you'll be STR8.

You guys who see this as "difficult" are overthinking it......just take the shit as it comes and you be in there like swimwear.....
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Er, this is pretty much how I approach girls anywhere. Just smile, be polite and be yourself.

In a gym in your particular situation, since she is a hard woker in the gym I'd probably just walk by her after one of her sets, smile and say "good job", making sure to keep eye contact as I say it. Her reaction will let you know if you have a chance or not. You'll know within the first three seconds if she is even remotely interested.
 
JerseyArt said:
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Listen to the guy, he knows a lot about women. Most gay guys do
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LMAO ;) that was quite funny jersey, thanks for the laugh

the truth is that, even if i had the pick up artistry of fyxgel, my looks would still get me laid ;)
 
Try saying: "You done hoggin' that machine with that pussy-ass weight !?!"
Works like a charm. They don't say anything and walk away with disgust, but....wait, what's the question?
 
When you walk by her, stop, turn to her, and give her the Shooter McGavin double fisted gun, shot from the hips. It works everytime.
 
"Hi, I hate to interupt your workout, so I`ll just say can I take you out for coffee or something?"

If she says "no", run away and never go back to that gym.

or work.


and disown your family.

and sell your car.
 
sawastea said:
When you walk by her, stop, turn to her, and give her the Shooter McGavin double fisted gun, shot from the hips. It works everytime.
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:lmao: Theres an old guy at my gym that does that... seriously :worried:

Darlin, just ask her to work in a set ;)
 
ask if you can work in and then make bullshit small talk in between sets. I've found myself in conversations with at least 2 girls I DIDN'T want to talk to just by virtue that we wanted the same machine

that or do what golden said
 
thanks for the advice everyone.

Gone lifting, that was an awesome suggestion.
 
If you see her heading for the water fountain or a machine, quickly make a bee-line for it and beat her to it. Then say, "oh, go ahead" (with eye contact of course). And let her go first. If a guy did that for me I might let him take me out once.
 
JUst don't do it during her routine.........catch her on her way in or out but in the gym itself is a big time fopa............+ it just pisses off most chicks........
 
JKurz1 said:
JUst don't do it during her routine.........catch her on her way in or out but in the gym itself is a big time fopa............+ it just pisses off most chicks........
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Couldn't agree with you more. I can't stand when people interrupt me in the middle of my routine.

Whatever you do, don't memorize her routine and the following week bring her the bar she uses for her seated back rows, and her weights. :worried:
 
i've had girls come up to me in the gym and start chatting, and talked to a few outside of the gym.....but i never initiate anything in the gym.....i dunno, just seems tactless

and that's faux pas there bro....not fopa
 
Don't listen to these chicks bor, you'll never get laid

You have to frighten and intimidate her. Make her scred to say no. That always works for me.

Just tell her to hand over her purse outside when her back is turned and shes trying to get back into her car. Check inside to get an identification with an address, and tell her you will be by to pick her up later that night and to be ready.

Good luck man
 
JerseyArt said:
Don't listen to these chicks bor, you'll never get laid

You have to frighten and intimidate her. Make her scred to say no. That always works for me.

Just tell her to hand over her purse outside when her back is turned and shes trying to get back into her car. Check inside to get an identification with an address, and tell her you will be by to pick her up later that night and to be ready.

Good luck man
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lol why doesn't he just hit her over the head and drag her out of the gym and to his place.... I'm sure that has worked for a few guys. :rolleyes:
 
pinkisacolor said:
If you see her heading for the water fountain or a machine, quickly make a bee-line for it and beat her to it. Then say, "oh, go ahead" (with eye contact of course). And let her go first. If a guy did that for me I might let him take me out once.
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:xeye: surely, you can't be serious?


Brother, if you are good looking, have a solid physique, have a big dick and she notices it through your pants, and you have some major bank, then just straight up ask her out. If you are famous, it will help too. Most likely she will say yes.
 
sawastea said:
When you walk by her, stop, turn to her, and give her the Shooter McGavin double fisted gun, shot from the hips. It works everytime.
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you keep forgetting to mention the shoulder pump at the end.
 
UA_Iron said:
Before anyone asks what a gym is...do a google search.

anyway. I see this girl in the gym a lot. We are both aware of each other's presence and I was wondering how I could approach her without infringing on gym etiquette.

She really intrigues me because she's short, blonde, cute, and a damn hard worker. I was doing pec dec flyes(finishing off my chest routine) and she was nearby on the leg extensions and I could see the struggle in her face...damn it was sexy.

So any of you geniuses have a good idea of how to go about talking to her?
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if seeing struggle on her face turns you on then rape her
 
Miss24k said:
lol why doesn't he just hit her over the head and drag her out of the gym and to his place.... I'm sure that has worked for a few guys. :rolleyes:
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Tried it...:rolleyes:
The bitch bit through the rope before I got back to my car :lmao:
 
Miss24k said:
lol why doesn't he just hit her over the head and drag her out of the gym and to his place.... I'm sure that has worked for a few guys. :rolleyes:
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You apparently dont know my ex gf's. They not only like it, its a requirement :chomp:
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
Tried it...:rolleyes:
The bitch bit through the rope before I got back to my car :lmao:
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Maybe next time you should make sure she's out cold, that way she won't bite through the rope. :worried:
 
In the gym I usually hate being botherd, I don't even look at people who I think might be looking at me for fear that they might want ot start a conversation. I'm not snotty, I just have time constraints sometimes. However, you say that she has noticed you, a simple hello would do, try to catch her when you're both on the way out.




*Division - you're avatar ROCKS! I <3 Rose
 
Miss24k said:
lol why doesn't he just hit her over the head and drag her out of the gym and to his place.... I'm sure that has worked for a few guys. :rolleyes:
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^^^I like this. It's kind of like rolling back civilization to caveman dayz......the dayz of wayback when women were taken, not asked......now that's evolution at it's finest........:lmao:

Find it + Fuck it + Forget it + Forever....

I knew you women would come to your senses...... ;)



DIV

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ThatGirl said:
*Division - you're avatar ROCKS! I <3 Rose
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I don't :heart: Rose McGowan.......

Simply put, the smooth ivory skin and tight features that she displays give me throbbing rockhard redwood. As I exclaim with prominence so eloquently in my location.......ROSE ROCKS DEEZ NUTZ.....

she does.




DIV

:chomp:
 
jerkbox said:
and that's faux pas there bro....not fopa
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Faux Pas, indeed Mr. JerkyBoy.....

You've finally shown some class and intelligence.....holmes.

I praise you, sir.




DIV

:chomp:
 
let me guess, she’s short and you're over 6 feet correct?

10 to 1 it's all in your head dude....there will be a hot chick in the gym and every single guy in there will think she giving em "the eye" or wants their cocker. i laugh at the shit i hear around the gym.

if you approach her do it casually. "hey how are you" as you walk by, or wait to ask her for a spot when no one else is around and start small talk....this is why they started making gyms just for women, so they can actually workout without 50 pairs of eyes staring at their crotches as there doing the thigh machine.








UA_Iron said:
Before anyone asks what a gym is...do a google search.

anyway. I see this girl in the gym a lot. We are both aware of each other's presence and I was wondering how I could approach her without infringing on gym etiquette.

She really intrigues me because she's short, blonde, cute, and a damn hard worker. I was doing pec dec flyes(finishing off my chest routine) and she was nearby on the leg extensions and I could see the struggle in her face...damn it was sexy.

So any of you geniuses have a good idea of how to go about talking to her?
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UA_Iron said:
. I was doing pec dec flyes(finishing off my chest routine) and she was nearby on the leg extensions and I could see the struggle in her face...damn it was sexy.

So any of you geniuses have a good idea of how to go about talking to her?
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Why not approach her and say 'Hi, have you got any tips on chest exercises other than pec-dec..........i know it's a nancy exercise but i don't know what else to do'.
 
big_bad_buff said:
let me guess, she’s short and you're over 6 feet correct?

10 to 1 it's all in your head dude....there will be a hot chick in the gym and every single guy in there will think she giving em "the eye" or wants their cocker. i laugh at the shit i hear around the gym.

if you approach her do it casually. "hey how are you" as you walk by, or wait to ask her for a spot when no one else is around and start small talk....this is why they started making gyms just for women, so they can actually workout without 50 pairs of eyes staring at their crotches as there doing the thigh machine.
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I'm 5'8" dude, height is not on my side unfortunately. She's like 5'3" or 5'2" I think, possibly shorter...thats fine with me though, makes me feel taller.
 
vinylgroover said:
Why not approach her and say 'Hi, have you got any tips on chest exercises other than pec-dec..........i know it's a nancy exercise but i don't know what else to do'.
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Hahaha yeah, UA could use the help in that area. :artist:
 
chaos mage said:
You really meant FUPA, right?
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Actually, ChaosNugga...

I was referring to: FUBU......you know, the urban gear....

FUCK WHAT YA' THOUGHT!!!!!!

:lmao:




DIV

:chomp:
 
jerkbox said:
that's the last you'll see of that....i'm gonna go start 5 scat threads now
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Better yet.........go start 10 BikiniMom = Werd threads........what we like to call "Pile-On" threads.....

:lmao:



DIV

:chomp:
 
Don't bother, I joined a new gym a few months ago.....anyway I started to talk to a few women. Usually I don't talk to no one because I want to train and not be one of these gay asses following a girl around or talking to her while she's on the cardio machine for 45 minutes ever time they come in.....but this time I went out with some of the women from the gym, the biggest mistake.....I slept with some of them. Know ever time I go there they go out of there way to talk to me and now I have to see them all the time, another thing as soon as they see me that night they will call me to do something with them.....because this was getting annoying I joined another gym and lost a one year membership at that one. Just forget about, but unless you are planning to stay with her go for it. But if its a in and out thing make sure your membership is ending in a week or so.
 
Sorry go to the gym to work out.. not to pik up... Wait til she leaves at least so she can work out.. unless she is jsut one of those chicks that is there for show
 
lol bro !!!.. look just make eye contact with her a couple times over the weeks and if she seems to follow your eyes then it's 50% done .. the other 50% are in the bed, are you up to it SERIOUSLY ?

peace out <>
 
If you either go to LA fitness or Ballys you shouldnt worry about picking up women at the gym, they are other places and times for that. You go there to work out and so does women majority of women I have talked to hate but hate when guys come up to them to when they are working out, but if something works for you good luck!!!
 
gonelifting said:
"Hi, I hate to interupt your workout, so I`ll just say can I take you out for coffee or something?"
If she says "no", run away and never go back to that gym.
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LMAO.

Seriously,
Girls can become intimidated in the gym.
Be nice, small talk bs and maybe a little advice on what to do, nutrition. Take down her bitch shield and then she will make suggestions that she likes you. Do some kino down the road to make her hot. Ask her out............
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
How about when they work the counter?
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Ask them if they are hiring any part-time help. Either way after that you can keep talking her......"how long have you been working here?" "Do you like it?"

etc etc etc
 
If she works at the counter?

If the counter is girl hot (a 8 or above, I would only put moves on a hb, btw) she is probably being banged by the owner or one of the pts. At this point you have to have the BEST body in the gym (better then her bf) or illustrate you have cash. Or best, BOTH.

Strategy:

1) Lift heavier then anyone in the gym (don't make stupid ass grunt noises). Illustrate your physique to her but IMPORTANTLY, make it look like you do not notice her. Make it look like you are not trying to impress her (like everyone else). IGNORE HER but let her overhear info about you, your life. This will piss her off. Weeks later, once you establish your place (as the Alpha), then you can start talking to her in a casual way (see #3)

2) Coming and Going: Dress sophisticated and hip. Wear cool jewelry (gold and diamonds) and smell the best. Don't say anything to her. Make her know you are the best, your job, your lifestyle, etc.........She will want you.


3) Weeks later, after you have ignored her and illustrated your worth. Make small talk. I would not ask her anything personal like "how long have you been working here?"
#1 But more like, "Look at that fat dude on that machine, ha...ha....." Make her laugh.


The hotter she is, the greater the competition. You can fake it. But eventially she will see through you.


Key: be the best and you get the best.
 
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It's simple.

If you're trying to get somewhere with a girl that's in the gym, wait till she goes to the water fountain or when she's done her workout, and just say "Hey, I keep seeing you around here and I just wanted to introduce myself." Something like that. Then see where it goes from there.

If the girl's working the counter I like to ask if she like's working there or something along those lines. That usually will workout alright if she's up for a conversation.

And, like Stallion said, try not to mess around too much with the girls at the gym. I've dated a few and it's a pain in the ass when you see them around the gym. So just be smart about it
 
Forge said:
Er, this is pretty much how I approach girls anywhere. Just smile, be polite and be yourself.

In a gym in your particular situation, since she is a hard woker in the gym I'd probably just walk by her after one of her sets, smile and say "good job", making sure to keep eye contact as I say it. Her reaction will let you know if you have a chance or not. You'll know within the first three seconds if she is even remotely interested.
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exactly ! never hit on a woman at the gym. be friendly , and you'll be able to tell if there will ever be anything more.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
saying hi and smiling normally goes a long way. if shes a member there, you have a long time to work on her, so warm her up with a few hellos and then do your thing, i dont see the difficulty
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I agree to this but having a long time to work on her is unknown.....she is fair game as far as you know, for now at least, but if some cock block gets in the way, she may become out of your reach. Go for it now. We all smile and say hi to chicks at the gym, but if you want this one to be more than just a "hi" or a "bye" then make conversation w/ her ask her name, ask her open ended questions. Ask her where she partys at, what club; you may run into her there. You're buzzed, she's buzzed, one thing leads to another and then BOOM! If she is interested you'll know. She can probably already tell you like her and if you don't make a move now and wait too long she may notice signs of weakness. They are like snakes that smell fear so make your move before somebody else does.
 
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Sta11ion said:
Don't bother, I joined a new gym a few months ago.....anyway I started to talk to a few women. Usually I don't talk to no one because I want to train and not be one of these gay asses following a girl around or talking to her while she's on the cardio machine for 45 minutes ever time they come in.....but this time I went out with some of the women from the gym, the biggest mistake.....I slept with some of them. Know ever time I go there they go out of there way to talk to me and now I have to see them all the time, another thing as soon as they see me that night they will call me to do something with them.....because this was getting annoying I joined another gym and lost a one year membership at that one. Just forget about, but unless you are planning to stay with her go for it. But if its a in and out thing make sure your membership is ending in a week or so.
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LMAO

I want to give you props for the success that you've had. I would probably end up sticking around with the girl, so maybe I should try this out the next time I'm at the gym.
 
Why is the Gym any different than anywhere else, only thing i can see is don't bother a girl while she is working out except maybe to smile or say hello as passing by. If the girl is interested she will discreetly make herself available for an oppertuinty for you to start conversation when neither of you are busy, have to respect anyone working out alot of people do not want to be bothered during there workout....
 
so what if she keeps coming over asking u to spot her, and her clevage is right there, and u feel the untammed monster start to move from his sleep, and i said oh shit-she smeels "good", but anyways she is always trying to talk and i am married "but" if she keeps the hint going, i might have to tap that ass :chomp: supa
 
No just walk up behind her Smack that ass then yell "Who's Yo daddy" then call a bail bondsman of course because your probably going to Jail LOL :p
 
A smile and a compliment go a long way.
I met my girlfriend at the gym I work at.
Now we are expecting our first child in November. :D

Just have to be confident in yourself and be positive.
 
First of all, try to find out :

* If she's in the gym to work out or meet guys (if it's the former be tactful)

* If the big mofo who squat 800 lbs is not her boyfriend (in such a case you may want a strategic move to another chick)
 
MsBeverlyHills said:
go up to her, lift your shirt & say " hey you got a needle & thread"
her- "why what happened"
You- "becuase my abs are ripped"

than flex abs :)
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LOL....well if hes gonna go that far why not go:

Him: Hey, do you have bandages?? I need bandages!

Her: (in a panic) WHY???

Him: (flexing his triceps) For my cuts......
 
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