Approaching a girl that is already talking to other guy/s

[JoNeS]

Alot of times when I'm out at a bar, club, or where ever, The girl that I find attractive is already being talked to by other guys.

Do any of you approach girls if they are already being hit on / talked to. How do you do it? My thoughts are some girls may like if you approach them while their being talked to, and think you have balls. My other thoughts are some girls may think that you are rude.

The easy answer would be to wait and approach them when they are alone. But because clubs and bars are so crowded, the odds of me seeing that same girl again (and her even being alone) are fairly slim.

So guys & girls, how do you approach members of the opposite sex that are already being talked to by their respected opposite sex.

 

[Bebe Girl]

Go for it!! Approach her.. what do you have to lose?? NOTHING..

If she turns you down oh well.. atleast you can say you tried!

If she feels you .. EVEN BETTER! =)

 

[jestros]

On the other hand, you could get decked by the chicks boyfriend

 

[JoNeS]

Go for it!! Approach her.. what do you have to lose?? NOTHING..

If she turns you down oh well.. atleast you can say you tried!

If she feels you .. EVEN BETTER! =)

Yea I hear ya, I just feel kinda awkward/rude. So I don't do it. But maybe I just need to cowboy up and start doing it.

 

[Imnotdutch]

On the other hand, you could get decked by the chicks boyfriend

Exactly.......

Dont be a dick.......if she is talking to somebody else then leave well alone.

 

[jestros]

If I was on a first date, or with my wife, or even trying to score with a drunk hoe, I wouldnt be happy if some chump came up and started hitting on her.

 

[Bebe Girl]

Yea I hear ya, I just feel kinda awkward/rude. So I don't do it. But maybe I just need to cowboy up and start doing it.

You should!! I mean feel it out if its her BF than I wouldnt! lol

But if its some random dude .. GO FOR IT!

 

[jestros]

You should!! I mean feel it out if its her BF than I wouldnt! lol

But if its some random dude .. GO FOR IT!

And how is he supposed to know if it's her BF or just some guy?

In unrelated news, what does bebe girl do after sex?

 

[Bebe Girl]

And how is he supposed to know if it's her BF or just some guy?

In unrelated news, what does bebe girl do after sex?

You can tell!

After sex? do it again!

 

[jestros]

Pulls her pants up, and leaves the bathroom stall to go back to the club!!