Anyone know somebody (>18yrs) who's still a virgin?

[Nathan]

I'm all ears brother. If your story is good i will upgrade you from triangle to cymbals when our band starts out.

I'm 24 and a virgin. I don't expect to lose my virginity anytime soon, i would honestly be suprised if i lose it before i'm 30.

Reasons:

I'm introverted

Don't know how to meet women. i have no social network to pick women from and hitting on strangers is not something i want to do. I'm not willing to spend $20 a month to get email addresses on match.com. I also have little/no experience with this and i have no friends i can pick up women with.

I don't have the 'i have to get laid' mentality most guys do. I want women to like me and i want to meet them and date them, but i really, honestly have no real desire for sex with them. probably because i dont know what im missing.

You are so screwed now pal. I have ammo. Just kidding.

I was a late bloomer as well and still feel like I'm just getting started. For me, I had sex at around 13 for the first time and I think it really made a big difference for me in making me introverted with girls for a long time after that. That was also the only time I've had sober sex. I felt very guilty about having done it for years afterwards since looking back on it I can't tell if maybe I talked her into it and that creeps me the fuck out. I just don't want to be that guy. I think it still affects me in the self-confidence department since if I get any indication a girl may not be interested I back off immediately and lose interest. I refuse to be aggressive.
Anyways, the next time I had sex after that was when I was almost 20 (or maybe just turned) and I've had periods of a couple years since then wherein I had zero sex. For me it's an anxiety thing as well but sometimes it's just way more trouble than it's worth for me to put up with emotionally. I can totally understand why some people end up virgins well into their twenties. For some people there are huge mental barriers or obstacles that need to be dealt with first and that can take years. Some people never figure it out. Depression, OCD, anxiety, ADD, ADHD, etc. can make simply living a semi-normal life almost impossible and it definitely carries over into dating/sex.

 

[Paulo]

I am 38 years old and still a virgin.

 

[fyxgel2]

I'm a virgin but it doesnt bother me. I'm 20. Religion plays a large factor, but if it werent for that I think I still would be, just cuz I think its better to limit your sexual partners. regardless of how much fun clubbing and one night stands may be.

Other factors might include that I: Am a pussy sometimes when it comes to talking to girls, and dont really invest the time into relationships with girls.

I just want to cuddle with a girl, and kiss her, stuff like that. a girlfriend. But I will have to work at taking more initiative in that area of my life.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

I am 38 years old and still a virgin.

for real?

 

[SupraHero]

You are so screwed now pal. I have ammo. Just kidding.

I was a late bloomer as well and still feel like I'm just getting started. For me, I had sex at around 13 for the first time and I think it really made a big difference for me in making me introverted with girls for a long time after that. That was also the only time I've had sober sex. I felt very guilty about having done it for years afterwards since looking back on it I can't tell if maybe I talked her into it and that creeps me the fuck out. I just don't want to be that guy. I think it still affects me in the self-confidence department since if I get any indication a girl may not be interested I back off immediately and lose interest. I refuse to be aggressive.
Anyways, the next time I had sex after that was when I was almost 20 (or maybe just turned) and I've had periods of a couple years since then wherein I had zero sex. For me it's an anxiety thing as well but sometimes it's just way more trouble than it's worth for me to put up with emotionally. I can totally understand why some people end up virgins well into their twenties. For some people there are huge mental barriers or obstacles that need to be dealt with first and that can take years. Some people never figure it out. Depression, OCD, anxiety, ADD, ADHD, etc. can make simply living a semi-normal life almost impossible and it definitely carries over into dating/sex.

Great post man!!

 

[Sigmund Roid]

I know 3 women who are virgin, one of 27, 31 and 37, the latter 2 are moslims and the first one talks SO much that every guy runs away (some people offer her money to shut up, but even that does not help).

BTW, our prime minister got his first (and I guess last) girlfriend at age 36. No wonder he walks and talks as if he has euro coins up his ass.

 

[Robert Jan]

I know an 18 year old girl who has never had a boyfriend. She's actually very smart, pretty and slim and nice, but very shy, and not really looking for it.

Needless to say, I sometimes wake up at night visualising giving her a facial.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

I know an 18 year old girl who has never had a boyfriend. She's actually very smart, pretty and slim and nice, but very shy, and not really looking for it.

Needless to say, I sometimes wake up at night visualising giving her a facial.

no you dont, liar.

 

[Robert Jan]

I thought of shagging her all the time while in Chemistry class. which is perhaps why I failed that class and why I have to make the exam again the 23rd.

Therefor also why I should not even be here right now, I should be revising

 

[strongsmartsexy]

for real?

No, he's NOT 38!