Alright I need help with my chick, HELP! Women and men please.

[concordsize]

First let me give you alittle insight about myself. I am fairly young 22 am in college and am training for my first body building show which is comming up in july. Also I am fortunate to have my own house and I drive a new mercedes...

I have been dating a girl now for alittle over 2 weeks. She is very hot and I find her intresting to say the least. Since these 2 weeks have passed I have gotten her a new job a ruth chris which is unheard but I know the mannager and he was able to pull some strings. We have went out of several dates and she introduced me to her mom (scary)! My problem with this girl is that she does not seem to wanna get close with me. We have kissed manny times but it is weird. We dont hold eachother and she seems very stand off ish. Two nights ago she made me dinner at my house and then watched amovie. Things were ok but she does not lay in my lap or anything. Finaly I told her that she needs to be closer to me and she layed closser to me while i put my arm around her.

Durring the move we had several conversations and one was that she wanted me to change the way that I dressed. I found this very upsetting BUT i joked with her about it. I am 245lbs right now down from 275 and im sorry but I can not fit into that abercrombe bull shit!

Anyhow since her and I are buissy and i kinda feel ofended by her statments I have not called her and she has not called me. I am unsure what I should do. Should I keep this girl and try and make it work by calling her all the time and stuff of what?? Also I feel like she is alittle money hungry because she is always talking and showing me these Juicy suits or some shit?!!!

Ladies and gents help please

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[Barak]

Settle the matter of dress with her in a nice but forthright manner, as for the other I spent 8 months dating a girl who never received affection as a child and had problems showing it, she showed passion before affection always and when I found out the cause I was slow and patient and she came around. We are quits now but we had been friends before and are still good friends and she stills shows me a great deal of affection when we are together, but always hesitantly at first. Hope this helps.

 

[SoKlueles]

I dated a guy that was not a lovable person, he didnt want to hold hands, and when we went to bed, he stayed on his side of the bed, He was attentive tho. He just wasnt a touchy feely person. I think probably it was how she was brought up...and I wouldnt take that personally...it was kinda weird at first with him but I got used to it...It was just his way

 

[Spartacus]

dump..pronto..I know my sh*t about this stuff..cut bait

 

[Gymgurl]

Sounds like to me that she might not be interested....with the not getting close to you and she hasn't called you either....this is just my guess

 

[Spartacus]

I'm not guessing

 

[Mr.HeavyDuty]

get rid of her. move on bro.

 

[Pamela]

I believe if she wants you to change the way you dress;
it will not end there.


Move on and find someone who likes you for you.

 

[Gymgurl]

RUN RUN RUN far away......she will be changing everything soon!

 

[concordsize]

lol you guys are the best. She called me last night and im going to call her back today Ill tell youall how it went.


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