Alright I need help with my chick, HELP! Women and men please.

[concordsize]

First let me give you alittle insight about myself. I am fairly young 22 am in college and am training for my first body building show which is comming up in july. Also I am fortunate to have my own house and I drive a new mercedes...

I have been dating a girl now for alittle over 2 weeks. She is very hot and I find her intresting to say the least. Since these 2 weeks have passed I have gotten her a new job a ruth chris which is unheard but I know the mannager and he was able to pull some strings. We have went out of several dates and she introduced me to her mom (scary)! My problem with this girl is that she does not seem to wanna get close with me. We have kissed manny times but it is weird. We dont hold eachother and she seems very stand off ish. Two nights ago she made me dinner at my house and then watched amovie. Things were ok but she does not lay in my lap or anything. Finaly I told her that she needs to be closer to me and she layed closser to me while i put my arm around her.

Durring the move we had several conversations and one was that she wanted me to change the way that I dressed. I found this very upsetting BUT i joked with her about it. I am 245lbs right now down from 275 and im sorry but I can not fit into that abercrombe bull shit!

Anyhow since her and I are buissy and i kinda feel ofended by her statments I have not called her and she has not called me. I am unsure what I should do. Should I keep this girl and try and make it work by calling her all the time and stuff of what?? Also I feel like she is alittle money hungry because she is always talking and showing me these Juicy suits or some shit?!!!

Ladies and gents help please

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[Barak]

Settle the matter of dress with her in a nice but forthright manner, as for the other I spent 8 months dating a girl who never received affection as a child and had problems showing it, she showed passion before affection always and when I found out the cause I was slow and patient and she came around. We are quits now but we had been friends before and are still good friends and she stills shows me a great deal of affection when we are together, but always hesitantly at first. Hope this helps.

 

[SoKlueles]

I dated a guy that was not a lovable person, he didnt want to hold hands, and when we went to bed, he stayed on his side of the bed, He was attentive tho. He just wasnt a touchy feely person. I think probably it was how she was brought up...and I wouldnt take that personally...it was kinda weird at first with him but I got used to it...It was just his way

 

[Spartacus]

dump..pronto..I know my sh*t about this stuff..cut bait

 

[Gymgurl]

Sounds like to me that she might not be interested....with the not getting close to you and she hasn't called you either....this is just my guess

 

[Spartacus]

I'm not guessing

 

[Mr.HeavyDuty]

get rid of her. move on bro.

 

[Pamela]

I believe if she wants you to change the way you dress;
it will not end there.


Move on and find someone who likes you for you.

 

[Gymgurl]

RUN RUN RUN far away......she will be changing everything soon!

 

[concordsize]

lol you guys are the best. She called me last night and im going to call her back today Ill tell youall how it went.


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[Spartacus]

you fool..down here in alabama we have a sayin'...we don't get "pussy whipped",instead we whip pussy

 

[milo hobgoblin]

You're insane if you stay with this girl.. it sounds like you have a lot to offer.. and the fact that you say you are "fortunate" to have all that you do tells me that you at least appreciate it.

ANY woman that wants to change you after 2 fucking weeks has a problem...

Dont cal;l her.. move on to someone more passionate about you... just dont get suckered.. at 22 Im sure you "may" still be a little `naive about women.. and there are A LOT of women out there who will see you as nothing more than a meal ticket...

good luck bro... sounds like you have a good life. Dont stress some bimbo.

 

[concordsize]

well guys Im a pushover what can I say?!!!(damn) We talked and I believe we got things worked out. I told her about the clothes and she said she was kidding with me. lol yeah right but just dont let it happen again is what I said to myself!!! About her not getting touchy feely with me she said that she had her heart broken alittle while ago and she wants to take it slow till she get to know me.....

After our phone chat she said she would come over my house and have lunch. I said sure and she got dressed in a little outfit which was hot, and I layed down a big smouch and we had a good talk. All was well and were going to go out tomm night.

Ill keep everyone informed.

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[hamstershaver]

if she has not given you a bj by now then its time to dump her

 

[concordsize]

tell me about it bro.lol Im currently on a bunch of drugs for my contest and the diet that I am on makes me a miserable prick and I feel very out of tough without someone carring about me at the moment, I know this seems screwed up but when you diet and do all this shit trust me if fucks with you. Plus she Seems like a good girl and she is hot so what am I gonna do????

 

[dzulboy]

move on nuff said she had her chance and she blew it...women are a dime a dozen then challenge is finding one worh a dime

 

[Puddles]

A couple of weeks isn't long enough to know someone. If there's a good attraction, you might as well stick with it for a while to find out what she's about. It's fun getting to know people, even if you don't stay with them forever.

 

[jubei]

move on nuff said she had her chance and she blew it...women are a dime a dozen then challenge is finding one worh a dime

Good advice. I used to talk shit off women all the time trying to be nice. You'll just explodewhen you've had enough anyways and it will be over that way. I don't know the whole situation but it kinda sounds like she is using you.
Fuck it. Fuck her, every time I go out I get hit on. Dime a dozen at the very least.

 

[liftshard]

Never get a chick a job who you've known for a couple of weeks.

Save those markers for the important ones. Don't waste shit on someone that you hardly know.

It is a BIG red flag when a chick comes out of the gate trying to change your clothes. I ran into that a week or two ago and I said "self, once you fuck this chick, you're outta here." I dress in Brioni and stuff, so if a chick doesn't like my clothes, 1) she has no taste, and, 2) she's a control freak.

 

[concordsize]

Well things are going BETTER. I told her that one more comment about my max muscle clothing and thats it!! So it has not been brought up again. Basically I know this sounds cruel but im pretty much keeping her around because it is easy at the moment due to my contest. She cooks me food, when we go out other guys envy me, and she is some fun to be around. As far as sex goes i have had better, but hey!

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[jubei]

Hahahaha, funny how that works. Best kiss I've ever had was from this girl I met at the bar last friday. She turned out to be a crack head though, so I had to ditch her fast.