abortion: need help please

[wootoom]

abortion is wrong no matter what the decision is though imo

 

[stilleto]

abortion is wrong no matter what the decision is though imo

that's your opinion, as you said.
he shouldn't be asking anyone for it, since its nobody elses decision or opinion that matters other than his and more importantly- his girlfriend.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

When the condom broke why didn't she go for the morning after pill? For future refernce if the condom breaks she has 72 hours to take the morning after pill.

Also is it just me or don't most people have the what if talk with there partners. I have always been upfront about the fact that at this time in my life childern are just not in the cards and will take all precautions to make that so.

 

[-SD-]

Ive had to do this twice years apart already. I dont regret talking her into terminating either time. If you both have a bright future in front of you independent of each other then talk her into terminating at all costs. I did and Ive had years to reflect and I can tell you now that I have no regrets because my life wouldnt be near as great as it is today if i had a couple kids.
This is reality.

But first find out if shes pregnant in the first place by buying a piss test from the grocery store.

 

[cboogsrun]

tough one bro. I'm not sure about abortion being used as a contraceptive device, but I would definately think you should assess the situation for a while before making that kind of decision. good luck

 

[katdav]

When the condom broke why didn't she go for the morning after pill? For future refernce if the condom breaks she has 72 hours to take the morning after pill.

Also is it just me or don't most people have the what if talk with there partners. I have always been upfront about the fact that at this time in my life childern are just not in the cards and will take all precautions to make that so.

Yep...morning after pill is a life saver....

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

Whoa, talk about the conservative spin from some people.

You're not a bad person for considering your options. Dont let some backwards conservative try to convince you you're killing a human life. It's your decision, and someone else's slippery grip on a relative morality make the decision for you.

 

[juiceddreadlocks]

Some of these posters could have been the producers of kirsten dunst's movie ''pregnant at 15'' or whatever it was.

 

[HiDnGoD]

I've been close to people on both sides of this. If I had my druthers, single parenting or teen pregnancy wouldn't have the stigma it does, & abortion would be illegal, adoption would be easier.
Allow me to mount my soapbox for a minute. Every body thinks of teens mothers as sluts, but every one of us that banged a teen in H.S. was this>< close to being in the same boat. If these girls had better access to family planning material, half of them wouldn't be in that situation. And of those that did get pregnant, if they had more support, & a viable option to go to term & put up for adoption, they wouldn't be so quick to abort. We have created, or allowed to flourish, the society that makes abortion seem necessary

 

[wootoom]

at least adoption is saving a baby, im out of this thread im gonna start gettin fuckin mad