Why doesn't everyone just back off of Heather!?
She is right, the moaning that goes on here about women (girls) does grow tiresome at times but after a while it's like yes, OK that's just how some guys process what they feel and the rest well, like there are women that don't respect men there are men that don't respect women.
We all should start to get that - women and men - both guilty of being assholes to the opposite sex (and sometimes even worse to their own sex) it's just the way life is and it's my personal opinion that being aware is probably the best way not to be guilty of such behavior (or try not to at any rate).
You think you know all about being treated poorly or abused because "it's been done to you" - that's not true at all...