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THeMaCHinE said:
Machine, I would suggest not going unless you want to be following the link in your signature. It sounds good in theory but in reality it's two different things.
THeMaCHinE
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Devastation said:
lol ... excellent point, I appreciate the words.
If we were to go, it wouldn't be to hook up; it'd be as flies on the wall -- don't really see us as the sharing type, maybe watch/be watched a little though. Hell, we probably won't ever get around to it. No big deal either way.
THeMaCHinE
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Oh, and trust me, been all through the site in my sig. The information there is better than gold. I would never put my marriage and family in jeaporady for a little piece of strange.
my view
this is my first post, so i guess im obliged to make noticeable first impression, so i thought i should post my views on this topic.
first, im english, univesity educated, and 33 years old, male.
i started experimenting with my g/f with 3-somes and swingers clubs a few years ago (about 5).
i did this because my previous EX girlfriend cheated on me, and when i was having sex with her (for the short time we were trying to "make up") i would fantasise about her screwing this other bloke and get really turned on (this is about my previous EX).
so when i was with my current g/f, and i still had these emotions, i was TERRIFIED>
i just had to find out if this would destroy me or whether it was a real part of my sexuality (ie, another man involved in my sexual contact with my loved one).
long story short (and its a hellebva long and thrillling tale), i got involved in it, and NEVER looked back.
any man, who has not experienced the IMMENSE sexual plerasure of multiple people sex, including sex with other people, INCLUDING SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER AND OTHER MALES, has never experienced the real pleasure of sex.
quite simply, with a great deal of open minded experimentation, i have come to the educated point of view, that sex should be enjoyed in a group environment, for the real thrillls.
i love my girlfriend and she loves me. we have been together for 7 years and i have NEVER been unfaithfuil, and i honestly believe she is always and always has been faithfil to me.
we go "swinging:" a coupla times a month. its totally amazing and neither of us would give it up... its just makes us closer.. we have reached a point where we can enjoy a sexual experience and know we are total;ly committed.
just one other point. we NEVER do ANYTHING sexual apart, always and ONLY in a swinging environment where we BOTH enjoy it.
thats the trust we have.
i love my girl so much.
i could NEVER be with anyone else, unless our relationship failed because of something i cant imagine now.
swinging is NOT evil, its NOT unfaithfil... its accepting we are human beings who enjoy physical pleasure.
no offence to non swingers..
you should really open your minds.. try it... but not if you dont love your partner equally and dont trust each other 10000000000000%%%%%
lecture friom the new english guy, over!!
thanks
this is my first post, so i guess im obliged to make noticeable first impression, so i thought i should post my views on this topic.
first, im english, univesity educated, and 33 years old, male.
i started experimenting with my g/f with 3-somes and swingers clubs a few years ago (about 5).
i did this because my previous EX girlfriend cheated on me, and when i was having sex with her (for the short time we were trying to "make up") i would fantasise about her screwing this other bloke and get really turned on (this is about my previous EX).
so when i was with my current g/f, and i still had these emotions, i was TERRIFIED>
i just had to find out if this would destroy me or whether it was a real part of my sexuality (ie, another man involved in my sexual contact with my loved one).
long story short (and its a hellebva long and thrillling tale), i got involved in it, and NEVER looked back.
any man, who has not experienced the IMMENSE sexual plerasure of multiple people sex, including sex with other people, INCLUDING SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER AND OTHER MALES, has never experienced the real pleasure of sex.
quite simply, with a great deal of open minded experimentation, i have come to the educated point of view, that sex should be enjoyed in a group environment, for the real thrillls.
i love my girlfriend and she loves me. we have been together for 7 years and i have NEVER been unfaithfuil, and i honestly believe she is always and always has been faithfil to me.
we go "swinging:" a coupla times a month. its totally amazing and neither of us would give it up... its just makes us closer.. we have reached a point where we can enjoy a sexual experience and know we are total;ly committed.
just one other point. we NEVER do ANYTHING sexual apart, always and ONLY in a swinging environment where we BOTH enjoy it.
thats the trust we have.
i love my girl so much.
i could NEVER be with anyone else, unless our relationship failed because of something i cant imagine now.
swinging is NOT evil, its NOT unfaithfil... its accepting we are human beings who enjoy physical pleasure.
no offence to non swingers..
you should really open your minds.. try it... but not if you dont love your partner equally and dont trust each other 10000000000000%%%%%
lecture friom the new english guy, over!!
thanks
Alkybanshee
Active member
UPDATE:::
We went to an off-premise swingers club this past weekend. It was not quite what I expected, heres why. If I didn't know what it was (swingers club) I wouldn't have known, it was like a regular nightclub with a few exeptions.
1. Age difference. Most clubs don't have such a varity, young crowd or old crowd, ect. My GF and I are both 24, the ages in there were 21-60.
2. Girl on Girl dancing. There was quite a bit more of this than at usual clubs. Usually you have a couple of attention whores who freak on each other just so everyone will gawk, but here there were quite a few FF couples (which is cool).
3. Not a sausage fest. They don't allow single guys in so there was not the usual 5 to 1 ratio of guys to chicks. (I never really realized how off balanced it is a normal clubs until you eliminate the single guys).
4. More couples kissing freaking on each other and general making out on the dance floor than a normal club.
We did enjoy the experience and will probably go back, but now I am on the quest for an on premise club. We have already talked about it and we're definatly not into a full swap, but the idea of watching or being watched is a definate turn on.
End update::::
We went to an off-premise swingers club this past weekend. It was not quite what I expected, heres why. If I didn't know what it was (swingers club) I wouldn't have known, it was like a regular nightclub with a few exeptions.
1. Age difference. Most clubs don't have such a varity, young crowd or old crowd, ect. My GF and I are both 24, the ages in there were 21-60.
2. Girl on Girl dancing. There was quite a bit more of this than at usual clubs. Usually you have a couple of attention whores who freak on each other just so everyone will gawk, but here there were quite a few FF couples (which is cool).
3. Not a sausage fest. They don't allow single guys in so there was not the usual 5 to 1 ratio of guys to chicks. (I never really realized how off balanced it is a normal clubs until you eliminate the single guys).
4. More couples kissing freaking on each other and general making out on the dance floor than a normal club.
We did enjoy the experience and will probably go back, but now I am on the quest for an on premise club. We have already talked about it and we're definatly not into a full swap, but the idea of watching or being watched is a definate turn on.
End update::::
birdstang80
New member
I want to have a 3sum with my gf to. She doesnt get mad at me for asking but she just isnt in to it. Any suggestions
The Whole F/N Show
New member
Have the 3some and then you can talk about with the next girlfriend you have after you and your current one break up.
Listen my man, if you want a 3 some get 2 chicks bneither of whom you are attached to...having a 3 some with your soon to be wife is bad business...Something will happen, someone's feelings will get hurt, you'll put your dick in the wrong hole and when it's over whoo boy, let hte wierdness begin...example your wife after it's all over: did you like so and so, did you want to fuck her you rotten prick, oh yeah. If you value what you have, get freaky but keep it with her
