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the.gladiator1987 said:
LOL this thread is funny

i think this taught me that she is too young, thank god for me, but also i need to do what i want in life. go to college, get ajob, meet a girl that actually has the same interests as me. cant wait to be 23 pullin girls from 20-30
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Sonny, you still have no clue. If you had a grasp on the English language or could even read you would have read here that these people are giving you a viewpoint you could never get, ever, at all and not never. You have read (not understood) anything that was written here.

All your pee brain can think of is pullin girls. There is your life, all the women that you CAN pull will be as if not more damaged than you. I pity them because you will wonder through your life not having a job, not being able to comprehend the most simple of thoughts and sadly enough those that you "pull down" will probably be more damaged being around you than before you piulled them down.

Damn can anyone be that vacuous? The answer is, yup.
 
he was a great man BM.

the little things make the difference between a GREAT man and a good man.
-me

"time ain't movin' were in the now!"

Made the second one up when on mushrooms at 18.
basically states that in life you are always in the moment.
there is no past, future, only a NOW. and were in the NOW now. lol
 
i have swine flu
 
get that job bro.

grump - we are all kind of immature at our early twenties. i know for sure i am.

but glad, i think what grump is trying to stress is that life is not all about "You".

it's about having positive impact on other people and helping others.

about striving to do your best, following your dreams and completing your goals.

its also about helping people out when you don't even feel like it. giving them the shirt off of your back.

and dedication and loving your friends in family. Even Don Corleone from the film "the godfather" stressed that what makes a man

is spending time with his family. So take care of the people you love before yourself bro. it will help you more in the end.

Godspeed

iggy
 
iggy said:
he was a great man BM.

the little things make the difference between a GREAT man and a good man.
-me

"time ain't movin' were in the now!"

Made the second one up when on mushrooms at 18.
basically states that in life you are always in the moment.
there is no past, future, only a NOW. and were in the NOW now. lol
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My brother,

I live in now as well, the problem now always turns into yesterday.

So live today as if you will always have an "awesome" tomorrow because soon enough all the tomorrows are also be yesterday.

I BBQ'd some mushrooms Sunday. They didn't say much...

You are awesome, so Stefka won't bomb me.
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
LOL at pwnd for not spelling intelligent right dumbass

And im just a 20 y/o guy, nothing too extreme like you are saying. I actually have a lot of shit together and im smart, i dont feel the need to show it on this site.
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typo dickweed.

And i should be a big "I" same for "I'm"

And you can't show what ya ain't got.
 
everyone needs to chill out.

watch the cavs game.

they are about to make history and sweep the hawks.
 
must have missed something, but this kid seems fine, aside from his retarded notion of getting married at that age. doesn't seem like the typical 20 year-old asshole know-it-all. if he's focused, or TRYING to focus, on pussy, that's fine too. what do you expect from him? i'm a douche, almost everyone is a fucking douche in this world (love all of you so much, though). all things considered, what is this kid doing wrong that he needs an overreaction from strangers on the 'net who are completely awesome themselves?
 
jackangel said:
must have missed something, but this kid seems fine, aside from his retarded notion of getting married at that age. doesn't seem like the typical 20 year-old asshole know-it-all. if he's focused, or TRYING to focus, on pussy, that's fine too. what do you expect from him? i'm a douche, almost everyone is a fucking douche in this world (love all of you so much, though). all things considered, what is this kid doing wrong that he needs an overreaction from strangers on the 'net who are completely awesome themselves?
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Spill-over effect from nonsense he typed on other forums.
 
Wootooom said:
who cares whats wrong wih pullin girls???? jesus fuck whats the problem
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It's sorta like what Miss California did, picked up the "I'm a heaven-going Christian while the rest of you non-believers are going to hell because I said so" flag then goes and posts up bragging that he is going to massacre some pussy because his faincee's parents talked her out of marrying him for good reason.

:)

If you are going to be waving the flag of christ in the face of non-believers on the religion/philosophy forum then you had better be waving it in the chat forum as well.... no?

What would Jesus do?
 
jackangel said:
must have missed something, but this kid seems fine, aside from his retarded notion of getting married at that age. doesn't seem like the typical 20 year-old asshole know-it-all. if he's focused, or TRYING to focus, on pussy, that's fine too. what do you expect from him? i'm a douche, almost everyone is a fucking douche in this world (love all of you so much, though). all things considered, what is this kid doing wrong that he needs an overreaction from strangers on the 'net who are completely awesome themselves?
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TITCR

Don't get me wrong though, I'm bored and the e-drama / fighting is giving me a semi.
 
So she was most likely like your first gf and you wanted to marry this girl without even enjoying life and trying a few others ? Dude she just made you a favor, seriously...
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Spill-over effect from nonsense he typed on other forums.
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Bingo. The whole "I'm saved because I've accepted Jesus in my heart but that doesn't mean I have to change how I live, in fact, so what if I do wrong? We're all sinners, but you're going to hell" hypocrisy.
 
stosstruppe said:
TITCR

Don't get me wrong though, I'm bored and the e-drama / fighting is giving me a semi.
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Meh, this was tame compared to the utter bunk he posted on the religion/philosophy forum. The irony of him posting this thread HERE was just too much for those of us who interacted over there to pass on without comment.

That's all. Nothing more and nothing less.
 
bikinimom and MM i am a sinner. please accept that. For me to tell you where you are going is probably wrong and i understand how someone would feel.

Thats what God says not me, so get mad at him. I am always trying to be a better man by having God in my life 24/7, but that doesnt mean im perfect. So just because I want pussy doesnt mean my whole faith goes to bunk. No I am just being selfish, NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS. If i was perfect i would not want that, but im not perfect. I am not trying very hard to be either, not at this point in my life.

That doesnt mean i dont believe in my faith though. Shit, just let it go already lol
 
A) what are you doing getting married at 20? you have absolutely no conception of who you truly are in this world and neither does some little 19 year old.

B) this is what you get for dating what seems like a fundamentalist girl from a fundamentalist family. She will never have any conception as to who she is as a woman because she will always be rankled and addled by her religious affiliation.

fundamentalist ANYTHING never produces anything worth a damn. THis is OBVIOUSLY for the best for both of you even though it doesn't seem that way right now. You averted a HUGE MISTAKE. Love in this world takes years for MATURE people to discern. I feel sorry for teens in this world because they are buried under a mountain of drama and materialism that this culture/society heaps on them. I thought it was bad when I was in high school, it's way worse now. Get yourself out of it bro and start REALLY and HONESTLY looking at who are in all facets of your life. Than act according to what your soul wants and not what you "think" society or your immediate family wants. I come from a fundamentalist background and the best thing I ever did was toss it away and start discovering who I am.




the.gladiator1987 said:
Ok So Im 20, shes 19. We dated for 4 1/2 years until we decided to get married. I proposed to her about a week ago but we were planning the wedding for June for the last couple months.

A couple days ago, we went into a counseling meeting and her parents were there. All of a sudden they say whats the rush, and my ex is saying that she feels that God is convicting her to not get married, and it would go against his will to get married. WTF? Then the counselors ask how im supporting her, and I said i had a job lined up, but everyone already knew I didnt have a job right away and we went on with the planning for the wedding.

Just kinda venting here, but a week after I propose and she says yes, she leaves me, kicks me out of her house, and doesnt talk to me. I know were done but any tips on how I can just not even think of her or get sad to think about her. I want to move on now and I know im young so everything is good, just what she did really hurt. Thanks everyone heres a pic of us

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a316/hehateme00000/meandgirlsexy.jpghttp://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a316/hehateme00000/meandgirlsexy.jpg
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redsamurai said:
A) what are you doing getting married at 20? you have absolutely no conception of who you truly are in this world and neither does some little 19 year old.

B) this is what you get for dating what seems like a fundamentalist girl from a fundamentalist family. She will never have any conception as to who she is as a woman because she will always be rankled and addled by her religious affiliation.

fundamentalist ANYTHING never produces anything worth a damn. THis is OBVIOUSLY for the best for both of you even though it doesn't seem that way right now. You averted a HUGE MISTAKE. Love in this world takes years for MATURE people to discern. I feel sorry for teens in this world because they are buried under a mountain of drama and materialism that this culture/society heaps on them. I thought it was bad when I was in high school, it's way worse now. Get yourself out of it bro and start REALLY and HONESTLY looking at who are in all facets of your life. Than act according to what your soul wants and not what you "think" society or your immediate family wants. I come from a fundamentalist background and the best thing I ever did was toss it away and start discovering who I am.
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As always a great post. I just have a problem with someone that has so many faces. Other than that you did good here.

Praise be to you.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Meh, this was tame compared to the utter bunk he posted on the religion/philosophy forum. The irony of him posting this thread HERE was just too much for those of us who interacted over there to pass on without comment.

That's all. Nothing more and nothing less.
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Are these threads still up for my viewing pleasure?
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
bikinimom and MM i am a sinner. please accept that. For me to tell you where you are going is probably wrong and i understand how someone would feel.

Thats what God says not me, so get mad at him. I am always trying to be a better man by having God in my life 24/7, but that doesnt mean im perfect. So just because I want pussy doesnt mean my whole faith goes to bunk. No I am just being selfish, NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS. If i was perfect i would not want that, but im not perfect. I am not trying very hard to be either, not at this point in my life.

That doesnt mean i dont believe in my faith though. Shit, just let it go already lol
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Pussy > God

learn it, live it, love it
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
your ridiculous. if my many faces is such a problem then fuckin do something about it, if not then shut the fuck up!
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Do you not get anything that anyone has said around here? Just look at yourself, right there ^

DaBuff gave me flack about my language in the Religion forum and gave me heat about blaspheming his god. I can't blaspheme his god because I don't worship his god, but that's neither here nor there. Y'know what, maybe he was right, maybe he was wrong, but neither he nor BBkingpin have ever used vulgar language to make their points.

It's about integrity. I realize some of these touchy feely Christian say "Well you don't have to do anything to be a Christian, just accept Christ in your heart and all will be well," and I'm telling you that's the largest cop out I've ever heard. You gotta work it a little. You cannot go out, score an ounce of coke and pick up a couple of hookers on and party all night and still sit there and say "Well, I'm a christian, I'm just a sinning christian." Where is the personal integrity? What ever happened to walking the walk and talking the talk?

In my coven, we hold our members to a high standard. It has been told to us, time and again, that every one of us is the public face of our coven, our tradition, and pagans and wiccans everywhere. I don't know that anyone who is meeting me for the first time has ever met another pagan, or ever will meet another pagan, and I feel I have a responsibility to present my spirituality in the best possible light.

You, gladiator, in putting your religion out on these boards as a Christian represent the face of all Christians for some people. Do you realize the embarassing message you are presenting?

Finally, if you hold a great master in deep reverence and claim to follow his teachings, it's generally expected that one will do their best to shape their life after that teacher. I'm gonna quote you from your own book again: Matthew 15:18-20 "But the things that proceed out of the mouth come from the heart, and those defile the man. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders."
 
iggy said:
Then what's the path to the light side?
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I don't have the foggiest...........I'll clue you in if I ever figure out a fraction of it. Constantly chasing pussy though is old......it gives women waaaayyyy too much stroke in your existence. And if you just go around hitting it and quitting it, chances are eventually one of em's gonna ring you up for either an STD or kid. Neither one is really my idea of good time right now. But KB is the sith lord of pussy........him and wulfgar are two of my favorite posters here.
 
musclemom said:
Do you not get anything that anyone has said around here? Just look at yourself, right there ^

DaBuff gave me flack about my language in the Religion forum and gave me heat about blaspheming his god. I can't blaspheme his god because I don't worship his god, but that's neither here nor there. Y'know what, maybe he was right, maybe he was wrong, but neither he nor BBkingpin have ever used vulgar language to make their points.

It's about integrity. I realize some of these touchy feely Christian say "Well you don't have to do anything to be a Christian, just accept Christ in your heart and all will be well," and I'm telling you that's the largest cop out I've ever heard. You gotta work it a little. You cannot go out, score an ounce of coke and pick up a couple of hookers on and party all night and still sit there and say "Well, I'm a christian, I'm just a sinning christian." Where is the personal integrity? What ever happened to walking the walk and talking the talk?

In my coven, we hold our members to a high standard. It has been told to us, time and again, that every one of us is the public face of our coven, our tradition, and pagans and wiccans everywhere. I don't know that anyone who is meeting me for the first time has ever met another pagan, or ever will meet another pagan, and I feel I have a responsibility to present my spirituality in the best possible light.

You, gladiator, in putting your religion out on these boards as a Christian represent the face of all Christians for some people. Do you realize the embarassing message you are presenting?

Finally, if you hold a great master in deep reverence and claim to follow his teachings, it's generally expected that one will do their best to shape their life after that teacher. I'm gonna quote you from your own book again: Matthew 15:18-20 "But the things that proceed out of the mouth come from the heart, and those defile the man. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders."
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LOL im not at the point in my life where I want to follow him in my cussing, sorry. I swear, a lot of people do. Its a habit.

And why do you care so much about my integrity? We should all work on ourselves before working on others. Take the log out of your own eye before taking the speck out of my eye.

And if christians read this and they are a strong christian, they would not get embarrassed. They would maybe pray for me and let it go.

Its like i said i was christian, so i have to be perfect on this site? Is that what you are saying? Since you seem to be flaming me for everything i do that is bad like cussing, or saying I want pussy.

I am a sinner first, which makes me want to be christian. Not the other way around. I am a 21 y/o in society where girls want the cawk and im here to give it to them, but I also have my viewpoints about God. In the Bible it also says Isaiah 53:6 "All of us like sheep have gone astray, Each of us has turned to his own way; But the LORD has caused the iniquity of us all To fall on Him."
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
LOL im not at the point in my life where I want to follow him in my cussing, sorry. I swear, a lot of people do. Its a habit.

And why do you care so much about my integrity? We should all work on ourselves before working on others. Take the log out of your own eye before taking the speck out of my eye ...
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I surrender, my head hurts too much to argue with this much stupid.

Why don't you just get a new user name and don't tell us who you are, only this time, stay out of the religion forum, and don't mention that you're a christian and talk about fucking all the young bitches you want and nobody will blink.
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
bikinimom and MM i am a sinner. please accept that. For me to tell you where you are going is probably wrong and i understand how someone would feel.

Thats what God says not me, so get mad at him. I am always trying to be a better man by having God in my life 24/7, but that doesnt mean im perfect. So just because I want pussy doesnt mean my whole faith goes to bunk. No I am just being selfish, NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS. If i was perfect i would not want that, but im not perfect. I am not trying very hard to be either, not at this point in my life.

That doesnt mean i dont believe in my faith though. Shit, just let it go already lol
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"Saying" you are a sinner but accepting ZERO PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR BEHAVIOR does not = christian values or "following the word of god" - that is according to YOUR TEACHINGS not mine.

As for what "god says" - you are confusing "god's words" with your own.

^^Cogitate on that for a moment, please.

As for me hating, where did you see that? I don't hate you. Heck, I don't even know you. I am somewhat amused by you but mainly I am confused. You profess to believe one thing but then LIVE something totally different.

You are the very antithesis of what christian values are.

And as for what I do or do not believe, you can not pass judgment one way or another for the simple fact that you don't know what I do/do not believe.

Simple... shmimple.
 
I dont live something totally different. Do you know I read the Bible every day? Do you know I pray 3x a day? Do you know the only music I listen to is christian music? Do you know that I wrote out all my goals to start accepting responsibility since God calls us to do that?

You dont know anything except for the FUCKING fact that i cuss. Big fucking deal, i should have a better attitude about it but I dont right now. So what? We all have problems
 
LOL...

Did you hear me say anything about you cussing? Son, I have forgotten the cuss words you've never heard of... but that won't "get me into heaven any faster... will it?"

To say that you DESIRE pussy isn't a sin in and of itself. (Though there are MANY bible-thumpers who would disagre with me on that.) Hell, if you didn't DESIRE it then I would say that you were either:

1. LYING

2. GAY

But having no shame purporting that you will set out to MASSACRE it.... now that sorta negates the praying and all the other christian fronting, don't it? I mean you sound like those priests that would diddle the young boys in the parish. Hell, I am SURE "god forgives them because they felt really REALLY badly when they were doing it."

^^An extreme analogy, but one that is quite effective. Don't you agree?
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
God is a loving God, so loving that he actually does forgive anyone of anything if they ask for forgiveness. But me saying I want to massacre pussy just means I want girls.

I know I can be hypocritical, everyone is.
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Perhaps your choice of words was poor then? And you wouldn't ever BEHAVE that way on purpose would you?

I am very well aware of the christian concepts of sin and forgiveness. It is as a child will do wrong, a parent will correct and guide them in a loving fashion - right? But you are telling me that your parents will keep a connection with you even though you continually kept robbing them, beating them, etc just because you knew they would keep forgiving you because they love you?

^^^ Does that make ANY sense to you?

And you are incoreect when you say that EVERYONE IS hypocritical. Can EVERYONE BE hypocritical? YES, but that is not the same as justifying YOUR BEHAVIOR by saying that EVERYONE ELSE IS.

Sorta like justifying being a liar because YOU THINK that EVERYONE ELSE DOES.

Personal responsibility goes a lot further than hiding behind "what you think everyone else does/does not do" or ANY religious belief.

Just be a man and own up to a mistake. :) (PS - part of owning up to a mistake is learning from it and trying your damnest not to do it again)

Again, no religion involved here, just trying to help a brother out by passing on some life experience. Nothing more and nothing less.
 
gladiator, just go have fun......but do us all a favor and skip the proseletization in future discussions. Go out and slay that vag, you're fucking 20 for gods sake. But keep your own spiritual journey to yourself unless someone specifically asks.
 
ill do whatever i choose samurai but thanks

and bikini god is so loving, hes not like your wordly dad, hes our heavenly father.

ive seen many mistakes in what you guys tell me but im not telling youn to own up to it, especially on EF LOL its a fuckin website i can say whateevr i want not because thats who I am but because its EF chat forum
 
That's fine but you must realzie you're heading for a bombing with that pious little snot attitude you roll with sometimes. That's where you're getting all this shit from son. Having opinions is fine, but you come here and condescend to people twice your age who have actually done a bit of living. You've got a bit of a two way going on when it comes to your convictions and that what you actually do. Do what you like. Anyway, I feel for you having lost your fiance. I just hope you realize that god doesn't have your soulmate tucked away in a bag to drop on you once it's deemed you've said enough prayers. You'll find congruency with another soul ONLY once you've fully discovered who and what you are. But to do that you have to follow your own path, whatever that may be. Just realize that your path is your own, not anyone elses'. So when someone is on a different spiritual path, it's no better or no worse than what you're on. I realize that's a difficult concept for you at times because I was raised in a similiar environment and I understand the so called "spiritual superiority" that get's ingrained at a young age. But it's not valid and I hope someday everyone can come to that conclusion about themselves.






Peace.




the.gladiator1987 said:
ill do whatever i choose samurai but thanks

and bikini god is so loving, hes not like your wordly dad, hes our heavenly father.

ive seen many mistakes in what you guys tell me but im not telling youn to own up to it, especially on EF LOL its a fuckin website i can say whateevr i want not because thats who I am but because its EF chat forum
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the.gladiator1987 said:
ill do whatever i choose samurai but thanks

and bikini god is so loving, hes not like your wordly dad, hes our heavenly father.

ive seen many mistakes in what you guys tell me but im not telling youn to own up to it, especially on EF LOL its a fuckin website i can say whateevr i want not because thats who I am but because its EF chat forum
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You were missing the point of the analogy I made regarding the relationship between earthly parents and *heavenly* parents so I won't belabor the point.

As for what you say on a chat forum online, you get out of it what you put into it like everything else in life.

"The pen is mightier than the sword".

Do you realize that when the jews were wandering around in the desert for all of those years "telling stories" NOT ONE OF THEM REALIZED that someone else would someday put it to paper, compile those writings (that were re-re-re-re written, translated over and over again and the re-re-re-re written a couple thousand more times) and call them "The Bible." .... Do you?

Based on what I (and everyone else) have seen from you on elite, not so much I'm thinkin...
 
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That's fine but you must realzie you're heading for a bombing with that pious little snot attitude you roll with sometimes. That's where you're getting all this shit from son. Having opinions is fine, but you come here and condescend to people twice your age who have actually done a bit of living. You've got a bit of a two way going on when it comes to your convictions and that what you actually do. Do what you like. Anyway, I feel for you having lost your fiance. I just hope you realize that god doesn't have your soulmate tucked away in a bag to drop on you once it's deemed you've said enough prayers. You'll find congruency with another soul ONLY once you've fully discovered who and what you are. But to do that you have to follow your own path, whatever that may be. Just realize that your path is your own, not anyone elses'. So when someone is on a different spiritual path, it's no better or no worse than what you're on. I realize that's a difficult concept for you at times because I was raised in a similiar environment and I understand the so called "spiritual superiority" that get's ingrained at a young age. But it's not valid and I hope someday everyone can come to that conclusion about themselves.






Peace.
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Well said.
 
glad iam sorry about your fiance, but let me give a last 2 cents attempt to end all this fighting.

my dad (when he was 19) had just gotten out of Vietnam and saw a ton of shit. he got married at 21. married for three years then his wife and him realized they didn't love each other and she took him for all he had. he hasn't been married since. I never took ANY thing he tried to teach me serious until a few years ago.

but you will learn in time that as time goes by your dad keeps getting smarter, and smarter, and smarter. BM, MM, and grump don't wish you anything bad. they are just trying to tell you their own experiences so you don't make the same mistakes many other people have.

that's why i wouldn't get married until i am at least thirty no matter how in love i might be.
and as for Christianity, it's not my religion anymore. I was born into it, raised into a catholic family, catholic preschool, grade school, j.r. high, and high school.

The one flaw I've seen with Christianity in my experience all life with it is that it puts people under the illusion that they know everything about God. I believe that God is mysterious and we don't know anything about him, or a higher power if he exists. I acknowledge that something is out there, but you can't possibly know everything about God as a human.

I've learned that Christians stress that you should strive to be like Jesus Christ everyday. Help others and look out for everyone else. To not hurt your enemies but help them, and strive to be a great, respectful, faithful person who cares about not only human emotions, but everything in the world. Acting like jesus doesn't mean flaming people on the internet, even if they flame you. that's something i for one would never do unless i was just joking around.

One good fact i learned from philosophy, is don't you think that an all-powerful, all-good, all-knowledgeable God would respect a human being that did good one his own and helped tons of people rather then a person who does evil who is afraid of burning and going to hell but goes to church and prays everyday.

That's how iam. i act good towards people just to do it. that's my morality. no matter what cards life gives you, you gotta roll with it.
 
i respect that iggy, i still believe my faith but i respect that.

bikini and mm just get on my nerves. I bet they get on a lot of pother peoples nerves too, actually i know they do. But i wouldnt flame you in reality, this is the internet. I say what i want because i can, its funny. I laugh at people that get pissed and send me bad karma lol. Thats just me though, everyone is different.

One thing about God is that he doesnt want you to understand everything, thats why i believe in heaven. Because once your in heaven and you know everything, you seriously are so amazed at his holiness and just Him that you want to get on your kness and just praise him. I believe that will happen. I need to work on getting there though because I dont show it a lot. I dont take this site too seriously though
 
iggy said:
No, jesus loves you superdave!

how's that screenplay coming along?
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just got an outline so far, no big deal. really need to get the software so i wont have to do anything all over again in the software.
 
thats sucks but going of GUT instinct she wants to Live it up BEFORE she gets married

just a feeling I get
 
SpyWizard said:
Not to be flipant.. but .. bang her sister..

I always advise guys to not get married until they are 30yrs old, there are a lot of reasons for that..

You are young, your life before you, live and experience it. You got off lucky, you could have gotten her prego, and then kicked you but taking 30% of your pay for the next 18 yrs..

There's no figuring it out man.. The problem is for the last 4 yrs she is all you have had your life wrapped around.. let it be a lesson, let your schooling, or your job or something else other than a person be your center, that way you can have some sense of control and decisions on what your life is like...

Good luck, congrats and condolences.
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OMEGA said:
thats sucks but going of GUT instinct she wants to Live it up BEFORE she gets married

just a feeling I get
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shes not even that kind of girl tho

she has barely any friends because she works 40 hours a week and goes to school fulltime. She has her AA and shes 18. Makes me pissed just talking about her

a month ago she was sayin when we got in a fight that shes gonna start hanging out with her friends more, i never told her not to but she told me like she was going against what i wanted lol.

she cut herself back in the day and did it again 2 months ago. She also doesnt know how to communicate obviously since she left me and hasnt talked since. Im glad this all happened though

can anyone talk shit about her so i can laugh at her instead of get pissed that shes doing better than me financially and everytime i think of her i think shes doing something i wouldnt like so i get more pissed. ahhhh i need a job
 
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Amazing how love can turn a d00d dead blind.... We all make mistakes caused by either pussies or money so it's all good. Now it's up to you to grow up and learn from your mistake. You barely have any life experience so far so get out and get some. Meet some girls, all kind, so slowly you'll get a clear picture about what the "girl of your dreams" should be made of.

And and leave this thread cause you're making a fool of yourself.
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
your ridiculous. if my many faces is such a problem then fuckin do something about it, if not then shut the fuck up!
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Ok, go sit in the corner, close your eyes and take a time out sonny.

I will wash out your mouth with soap later and allow you to practice your reading. god doesn't like ugly and angry.
 
nimbus said:
lolllllllerz @ bm and grump going off on a 20 year old. busy day :D
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That wasn't going off my brother. You should read some of his posts on the religion forum, precious, just precious.

I do drive bys during the day when I have a couple seconds, I already have a job so I can't post all day and BM is a hand full as it is. I think he is kinda challenged, but, he has possibilities.
 
the.gladiator1987 said:
me or youngguns?

anyway thx for the help about my fiance everyone seems unreal but it is real even tho she probably regrets it, i cant look back and take her back
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She asked you to take her back?

PS - She DID give you the ring back, right? If she broke off the engagement then she is bound by law to give it back, unless you flat out told her to keep it after she offered it back.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
She asked you to take her back?

PS - She DID give you the ring back, right? If she broke off the engagement then she is bound by law to give it back, unless you flat out told her to keep it after she offered it back.
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Wow... didn't know about this..... :o
 
no she didnt ask me to take her back, i just know her and i know that she will want me back in a month. We have had our breakups in the past and i know this one seems real but every other one she always comes crawling back. Im pretty much done tho, i havent texted her back to all the texts saying pay me back and how dissapointed she is that i threw a aprty in our house when i got kicked out

oh and we had to get the ring resized so wihle it was getting resized she broke it off, i had to go in and pay 150 for the cost of resizing it but i have it back :D
 
nangiggles said:
Wow... didn't know about this..... :o
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An engagement ring (regardless of what stone/metal) is a physical sign of a verbal contract to get married. If the man who gives the ring is the one to break it off the woman is not legally bound to return it. However, if it is the woman that breaks off the engagement then she is bound BY LAW to return the ring. Unless she can prove, in court, that he said that she could keep it regardless without any hope of marriage EVER or if she can prove that the ring was a gift that was NOT a sign of a contract to marry.

For example if he gives her the ring on Christmas or her birthday and she can prove that the ring was *just a gift* and not a promise to become his wife then she does NOT HAVE TO GIVE THE RING BACK. But if she leads him to believe that by her acceptance the gift that she would indeed marry him then she HAS TO GIVE IT BACK.

The whole purpose of an engagement ring is a way for the man to offer something of value (ie = future security) to the woman in exchange for her fidelity and promise to legally become his wife.

'Course then there goofballs like me who actually go and GET MARRIED without such a ring. :lmao:
 
BIKINIMOM said:
An engagement ring (regardless of what stone/metal) is a physical sign of a verbal contract to get married. If the man who gives the ring is the one to break it off the woman is not legally bound to return it. However, if it is the woman that breaks off the engagement then she is bound BY LAW to return the ring. Unless she can prove, in court, that he said that she could keep it regardless without any hope of marriage EVER or if she can prove that the ring was a gift that was NOT a sign of a contract to marry.

For example if he gives her the ring on Christmas or her birthday and she can prove that the ring was *just a gift* and not a promise to become his wife then she does NOT HAVE TO GIVE THE RING BACK. But if she leads him to believe that by her acceptance the gift that she would indeed marry him then she HAS TO GIVE IT BACK.

The whole purpose of an engagement ring is a way for the man to offer something of value (ie = future security) to the woman in exchange for her fidelity and promise to legally become his wife.


'Course then there goofballs like me who actually go and GET MARRIED without such a ring. :lmao:
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I'm practically married but never got a ring :evil: :)

An ex BF (the dramatic crazy one) proposed with a watch instead of a ring.... his father owned a jewelry store... I turned it down, it was a gold rolex with a diamond on it.... I was like 19 WTF! I din't want to get married and I did want an expensive watch just screamming mug me mug me!!!
 
nangiggles said:
I'm practically married but never got a ring :evil: :)

An ex BF (the dramatic crazy one) proposed with a watch instead of a ring.... his father owned a jewelry store... I turned it down, it was a gold rolex with a diamond on it.... I was like 19 WTF! I din't want to get married and I did want an expensive watch just screamming mug me mug me!!!
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LOL

So should I have paid the 150 to get it resized? We turned it into the store when we planned on getting married, she left while it was still at the store, when I got it I had to pay 150 because of the resizing but should she have paid it?

I owe her 100 because she I took it out of her account the day she left me, but I lost about 500 profit on the ring
 
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