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Kissing on the 1st date

nab12

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Of course the goal is usually going to get laid on the first date...but thats not going to happen everytime....

so my questions would be for the ladies...if you actually like the guy on the 1st date and WANT to go on a 2nd date with him...is there ever a reason you wouldnt kiss him at the end of the 1st date? I'm not talking about WILLING to go back out with him because you didn't have anything better to do...or going to go back out with him for the free meal. If you like him..would you ever not kiss him if he tried??
 
Depending on the vibe I wouldn't even go for the kiss on a first date. The hug and setting up date two is usually fine. That being said, if the mood is right and she seems into it then it's makeout city.
 
not every girl is going to sleep with you at the end of the first date. some will, but girls that are conservative won't. No matter how hard you try or how smooth you are it may not happen with certain girls. no worries, you build rapport and go at it on the 2nd or 3rd date

but if you have to wait till the end of the date to kiss a girl you have zero game or balls. The first kiss should always come in a moment of laughter/connection or whatever in the middle of the date. and once you establish that sexual tone, the rest is sooo easy.
anytime both of you are having fun and in the moment is when you should make that move. don't be a pussy and wait till the end when it becomes so contrived

i actually give my dates a heads up now by saying something before i kiss them, and i swear...it works EVERY single time. Something like
"I can't lie, your lips are so kissable right now"
"Close your eyes, i have a surprise for you"
"What would your friends think if i kissed you right now?" (if they were with their friends)
"it's so obvious, you want to make out with me right now" <---that's only if we established a cocky but playful tone from the start

I have a million variations of those depending on the context, but it works everytime. as long as you have build up the rapport and comfort level, its literally them just waiting for you to go and get it. i wish i wasnt such a dumbass when i was younger and realized how easy it really was. I did very well, but i would have been exponentially better if i knew the key to kiss closing
 
oh, and fuck that bullshit "look into their eyes" and know when to expect it. i've had horrible luck with that because girls are not prepared. i say something that obviously means im going to kiss them and follow through. makes for a legit kiss as opposed to an awkard "i dont know whats going to happen" kiss. it's literally like magic. i can't make any other comparison
 
Kissing means everything to me

Bed stuff only will work if kissing does


most guys are too dumb to know how to kiss
 
nab12 said:
Of course the goal is usually going to get laid on the first date...but thats not going to happen everytime....

so my questions would be for the ladies...if you actually like the guy on the 1st date and WANT to go on a 2nd date with him...is there ever a reason you wouldnt kiss him at the end of the 1st date? I'm not talking about WILLING to go back out with him because you didn't have anything better to do...or going to go back out with him for the free meal. If you like him..would you ever not kiss him if he tried??
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The more I liked a guy, the less touch he would get.

I am old-school like that. If a guy was like an octopus no matter how much I liked him, the attraction was instantly over.

Now if we had a well-established cyber-relationship (several weeks+) then it would be up to what I felt like after we met in the flesh. But even then, if he made the first move, we were done.

Just me... I am wierd like that. I liked to be treated like a lady and always feel in total control.
 
We had a thread about tossing the salad on the first date, now its kissing. I don't think she would kiss me after my tougue been around her ass.
 
hurricane said:
+1 and internet friendships should count to
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Absolutely! If I'd been chatting/emailing and on the phone with a guy for enough time to establish a connection/some sort of relationship and that connection was really felt once we met in person then naughtiness was not far behind.

I think that my husband and I were together for maybe four hours tops before he got his fancy tickled. LOL .... or should I say, before he quite properly tickled mine! :qt:
 
Seriously you and ol' grump seem like great people but could you please stop giving us mental images of a gray haired ass poundin the pooo nani :P

BIKINIMOM said:
Absolutely! If I'd been chatting/emailing and on the phone with a guy for enough time to establish a connection/some sort of relationship and that connection was really felt once we met in person then naughtiness was not far behind.

I think that my husband and I were together for maybe four hours tops before he got his fancy tickled. LOL .... or should I say, before he quite properly tickled mine! :qt:
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BIKINIMOM said:
Absolutely! If I'd been chatting/emailing and on the phone with a guy for enough time to establish a connection/some sort of relationship and that connection was really felt once we met in person then naughtiness was not far behind.

I think that my husband and I were together for maybe four hours tops before he got his fancy tickled. LOL .... or should I say, before he quite properly tickled mine! :qt:
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nice .. more proof that sex on the 1st offical date doesnt alway ruin things
 
NEO1 said:
Seriously you and ol' grump seem like great people but could you please stop giving us mental images of a gray haired ass poundin the pooo nani :P
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LOL if you don't die tomorrow (not that I would wish that, 'cause I don't) your ass will be old and grey... but will it be poundin some quality ass? :lmao:

Oh yea... and BTW the Old Grump has very little body hair, matter of fact his old ass is a smoove as a baby's! ;)
 
hurricane said:
nice .. more proof that sex on the 1st offical date doesnt alway ruin things
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In the US where most of the population lives and dies by the sword of the double standard I wouldn't recommend this type of behavior as the rule, but rather the exception.

When a couple "e-meets" there can be quite a lengthy and in depth courting process where the two can get to know nearly every aspect of the other intimately sans physical touch. So if BOTH have represented themselves in an honest fashion and the chemistry is amplified once they actually do meet "in the flesh" then as adults (I was 39 and my husband 55) there really is no reason to "play coy". Were we much younger speaking for myself personally there is NO WAY that I would have gotten so physically intimate so quickly.

In other words - we were honest and we are old so WTF would we "save ourselves for"?! :lmao:
 
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