Met with the attorney today

[lartinos]

That's great man!
Just got some good legal news myself,
Feels fucking great...
What is retarded is I bet that if you were a female and she was the guy in this situation the woman would automatically get money out of the deal.
If woman want total equality they can have it! I am not a lawyer so I could be totally wrong about that, seems like that is the case though.

 

[jnevin]

That's great man!
Just got some good legal news myself,
Feels fucking great...
What is retarded is I bet that if you were a female and she was the guy in this situation the woman would automatically get money out of the deal.
If woman want total equality they can have it! I am not a lawyer so I could be totally wrong about that, seems like that is the case though.

If it goes in my favor I'd be entitled to support. It wouldn't do my daughter any good if her mom was struggling more than she is just to pay me. I'm literally poor right now and can barely make ends meet, but things are still being taken care of, I'm in school, she's in daycare/ preschool at my school, and we're doing ok. My kid would be worse off while with her mom if she paid me and that doesn't make any sense to me.

 

[ceo]

good luck bor.

 

[smurf2]

good luck!

 

[smurf2]

first!
Why not full custody bro?

that's what it is.
Sole custody is an arrangement whereby only one parent has physical and legal custody of a child.

 

[jackangel]

If you're referring to joose, no. She's never known about that and it shouldn't come up.

well, that, and your general faggotry.

 

[mrplunkey]

Good luck!

Also, keep in mind that some states treat time and custody as two separate issues. You may be able to sell the idea of joint decision-making, but award you with 14 out of 14 days. I'd consider language that allows for visitation upon request and even state that visitation will not be unreasonably withheld. I know it wusses-down the ultimate order, but it might also get it resolved quickly.

Also, if the parenting time is nebulous, it might not make her feel trapped into fighting for time. If she's locked into a 0/14 deal, I'm sure her attorney will explain to her that you may come back at a later time and insist on financial support.

 

[shirlene29]

what plunkey is suggesting is really the easiest Ive found...

Ive always had shared legal but primary residence of my oldest..the joint legal was more for in the event an emergency situation arose we could make legal/medical decisions independent of each other if need be
ie: me and the kid were ina wreck but Im unconscious and she doesn't need emergent care but still urgent care..he could make a decision about her care without me
or if I died she automatically went to him
and we had very loose language for visitation "reasonable rights of visitation"

 

[jnevin]

Good luck!

Also, keep in mind that some states treat time and custody as two separate issues. You may be able to sell the idea of joint decision-making, but award you with 14 out of 14 days. I'd consider language that allows for visitation upon request and even state that visitation will not be unreasonably withheld. I know it wusses-down the ultimate order, but it might also get it resolved quickly.

Also, if the parenting time is nebulous, it might not make her feel trapped into fighting for time. If she's locked into a 0/14 deal, I'm sure her attorney will explain to her that you may come back at a later time and insist on financial support.

I've never denied her time with my daughter and as pissed at her as I've been at times, I always consult her before making any Q related decisions. She does not consult. I have my daughter 6 days per week and pay for her daycare while I'm in class 3 days per week. I also have her 6 nights overnight per week and have for close to 2 years now. She only has one overnight visit, Wednesday, and watches her while I work.

I've let her slowly hang herself, but this being Utah I could still get screwed if the wrong person handles my case. I just need to do this right.

 

[mrplunkey]

I've never denied her time with my daughter and as pissed at her as I've been at times, I always consult her before making any Q related decisions. She does not consult. I have my daughter 6 days per week and pay for her daycare while I'm in class 3 days per week. I also have her 6 nights overnight per week and have for close to 2 years now. She only has one overnight visit, Wednesday, and watches her while I work.

I've let her slowly hang herself, but this being Utah I could still get screwed if the wrong person handles my case. I just need to do this right.

You are already soooo close. Good luck!