Blondes

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Women usually annoy the shit outta me.

I think they've gotten outta control lately - I blame it on men not being men and letting them walk over them etc.

You!? Don't get me started. They annoy you? You have NO idea what they do to me. LOL I can't even have a decent conversation with one before I start to roll my eyes and get seriously pissed off by the things they do and say. Just plain dumb. No logic whatsoever. It is a species that truly behaves like a child. Relying simply on emotions. No reason...no logic. I like them for sex. That's it! Nothing more...nothing less. Argue amongst yourselves! Piss off!

The only ones that I do happen to "enjoy" having a conversation with are usually beefed up women due to high levels of androgens. But seriously...now they're physical beauty has gone to trash!

 

[just...v]

Is just...v a guy or a girl?

And the V doesn't stand for any of those BTW

 

[nefertiti]

You!? Don't get me started. They annoy you? You have NO idea what they do to me. LOL I can't even have a decent conversation with one before I start to roll my eyes and get seriously pissed off by the things they do and say. Just plain dumb. No logic whatsoever. It is a species that truly behaves like a child. Relying simply on emotions. No reason...no logic. I like them for sex. That's it! Nothing more...nothing less. Argue amongst yourselves! Piss off!

The only ones that I do happen to "enjoy" having a conversation with are usually beefed up women due to high levels of androgens. But seriously...now they're physical beauty has gone to trash!

Please, just....hush lol. I could rant for ages about all the man children I've encountered.

yes, women are driven by more emotion, but there is a biological need for that balance. There is a palce for logical thinking and there is a place for emotion, whimsy, empathy, compassion. It's all about balance and the world wouldn't go 'round without either side (or we wouldn't have been built that way)

 

[just...v]

Well, all my guy friends will try to bang me if they get drunk enough. I don't consider that the basis of a real friendship lol. The guys I'm pals with I def have more in common with as far as hobbies and interests and I love hanging out with them, but I'm keeping a very significant part of myself tucked away at all times and I never confide about the things in my life that are hurting me or worrying me unless it's directly relevant to them somehow. I've let a select few know about the outpatient thing I'm doing right now but beyond passing along the information, I've never brought it up again. Friend zoned, but not girlfriendzoned if that makes sense lol.

But my girls...they are the one I tell when I am struggling, or heartbroken, or stressing relationship stuff. All of them are enough like me that I can bounce something off of them and they can help me wade through the bullshit. Aside from that I spend so much time acting like a man with woman parts as I joked recently, it's nice to be able to, from time to time, do stupid girl stuff like watch a reality show about women looking for wedding dresses that I never would have watched if one friend didn't have it on (she's recently engaged, and her head is everything wedding), or gossip about the men in our lives, people watch together, play on the stupid fair style rides by the beach and eat a gross chilidog that leaves you feeling "fat and happy (just rattling off some of my recent girl time activities).

Guys, as a rule, just don't really like talking about what's really going on in their ticker and I don't like pushing them to go against that grain (what guy doesn't hate hearing "What are you thinking about?"). I can't talk about something real with someone if I'm going to have to guess what they are thinking, so chances are at any point in any time being around my dude friends I'm going to be holding something back. My girls, I can let the craziest thing fly and they roll with it. It's relaxing as hell to be around that.

I've had some of my best conversations with the guys in my life. But yea, when they get drunk they definitely try to sleep with you, that sucks. I find that I can be more myself with men. I'm a little rough around the edges and they seem to accept me that way. I find that women judge for this. They assume that because of the way I talk or that I have several guy friends that I am I must get around.

 

[UA_Iron]

And the V doesn't stand for any of those BTW

Does it stand for something of the female anatomy? Cause that was really my first thought to be honest

 

[nefertiti]

I've had some of my best conversations with the guys in my life. But yea, when they get drunk they definitely try to sleep with you, that sucks. I find that I can be more myself with men. I'm a little rough around the edges and they seem to accept me that way. I find that women judge for this. They assume that because of the way I talk or that I have several guy friends that I am I must get around.

Ah, see, I understand this too....but my close group, it's not like that at all. And I've had some great conversations with guy friends, but it's a rare treat lol. I don't seek it out, but sometimes I stumble on it. Heck, I had a really solid conversation about relationships in general with one of the guys on the boat I was working last week the first day we all met up. Then he spent the rest of the week trying to get in my pants and making jokes about how I needed to offer my bathing suit top to the ocean gods for luck. Lol. Men.

 

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Please, just....hush lol. I could rant for ages about all the man children I've encountered.

yes, women are driven by more emotion, but there is a biological need for that balance. There is a palce for logical thinking and there is a place for emotion, whimsy, empathy, compassion. It's all about balance and the world wouldn't go 'round without either side (or we wouldn't have been built that way)

Agree.

 

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I've had some of my best conversations with the guys in my life. But yea, when they get drunk they definitely try to sleep with you, that sucks. I find that I can be more myself with men. I'm a little rough around the edges and they seem to accept me that way. I find that women judge for this. They assume that because of the way I talk or that I have several guy friends that I am I must get around.

You have several guy friends because it's YOU that gets them drunk in the hopes that they fuck you! BWAHAHAHAHAAAAA

 

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In all honesty...guys are more attracted to chics that act like DUDES! So Nef and V. If guys are trying to fuck you. Its usually not because of your looks (well yeah that too but..) mostly because of your down to earth "dude like" personality. They can get along with that. And don't find you to be motherfucking ANNOYING like all women are! To me! LOL

 

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Guys...whats more hotter? A hot chic just standing there. Or a hot chic working on a car?