Your all kidding yourselves if you think someone's sexual past doesn't matter!!!

[milo hobgoblin]

LOL

Some of you are some uptight fuckers.

Who cares..... Id prefer a girl with some experience and an open attitude about sex... and DEFINITELY one who enjoys it.

Hell Id marry a porn star if she was beautiful and loved me.

 

[niloticus]

I'd marry Jenna jameson in a heartbeat if she loved me. Can you imagine the nights of pure bliss with a woman like that.

No one likes to imagine their love with someone else, but to trash a relationship because of it is pretty pathetic.

But I also agree in a perfect world(read dream) it would be nice if everyone had only 1 relationship and it always worked out. BUT some need time to grow and develop into great people and mistakes are made along the way. Only go by the present the past is Gooooooone.

 

[dzuljas]

i usually dont ask about the others sexual past.........as long as they dont have any diseases or anything im good to go

 

[Generic MALE]

I am not sure numbers matter as much as the situation behind the numbers. A girl who has done things like wave to a random guy in a car while driving down the road, and end up having sex with him without ever knowing his name is likely to do impulsive junk like that again. A girl that cheated multiple times on a previous boyfriend is probably more likely to do that with you.

Due to my current situation I get to be around ALOT of pregnant girls including seeing their vaginas in all sorts of situations. Although it is not 100% true, I think more often than not the better looking the girl the more likely she is to put out. The more she puts out the more loose and stretched out she is. I would not have believed this before, thinking that a vagina is stretchy and will resume its previous shape - although having a baby loosens it up a bit - but now I have to say its not true - if the girl is getting alot of action, even if she has not had a baby yet, she will stretch way out. You can often park a semi truck in the 19 year old girls with very extensive sexual histories.

Almost invariably, if the girl is a real looker her medical history will show 5 or 6 TAB's (therapuetic abortions) plus many instances of chlamydia, syphillus etc. I don't know if it is because more guys hit on the better looking girls or if the better looking girls spend alot of effort looking good so that guys will hit on them..... but I think the best odds of getting laid (for the young guys) is with the good looking girls. WIth young girls - hit on the lookers as she is most likely the easiest - although loosest snatch.

Past can matter - if they have impulse sex in the past, or have a tendency towards self destructive behavior they will probably do it in the future too. And if they have been very very sexually active they can be as loose as a woman who has had 4 or 5 kids.

I met one girl not too long ago - GREAT looking. Told me how when she was 18-19 she and her roomate use to sneak into bars and have contests on who could get laid. I told her that was the stupidest thing I hade ever heard - it was like (to borrow from Chris Rock) like playing basketball with a retard and then bragging about how you won. I find it so funny that such a beautiful girl would need to prove to her ego that she is attractive by going out of her way to get some drunk guy in a bar to take her home to have sex. A girl like that will always be easy prey - luckily for drunk ugly guys everywhere. But if you got into a relationship with her and were not constantly feeding her ego, she might sleep with any guy who massaged her ego a little bit just to make herself feel attractive.

 

[-SD-]

I am not sure numbers matter as much as the situation behind the numbers. A girl who has done things like wave to a random guy in a car while driving down the road, and end up having sex with him without ever knowing his name is likely to do impulsive junk like that again. A girl that cheated multiple times on a previous boyfriend is probably more likely to do that with you.

Due to my current situation I get to be around ALOT of pregnant girls including seeing their vaginas in all sorts of situations. Although it is not 100% true, I think more often than not the better looking the girl the more likely she is to put out. The more she puts out the more loose and stretched out she is. I would not have believed this before, thinking that a vagina is stretchy and will resume its previous shape - although having a baby loosens it up a bit - but now I have to say its not true - if the girl is getting alot of action, even if she has not had a baby yet, she will stretch way out. You can often park a semi truck in the 19 year old girls with very extensive sexual histories.

Almost invariably, if the girl is a real looker her medical history will show 5 or 6 TAB's (therapuetic abortions) plus many instances of chlamydia, syphillus etc. I don't know if it is because more guys hit on the better looking girls or if the better looking girls spend alot of effort looking good so that guys will hit on them..... but I think the best odds of getting laid (for the young guys) is with the good looking girls. WIth young girls - hit on the lookers as she is most likely the easiest - although loosest snatch.

Past can matter - if they have impulse sex in the past, or have a tendency towards self destructive behavior they will probably do it in the future too. And if they have been very very sexually active they can be as loose as a woman who has had 4 or 5 kids.

I met one girl not too long ago - GREAT looking. Told me how when she was 18-19 she and her roomate use to sneak into bars and have contests on who could get laid. I told her that was the stupidest thing I hade ever heard - it was like (to borrow from Chris Rock) like playing basketball with a retard and then bragging about how you won. I find it so funny that such a beautiful girl would need to prove to her ego that she is attractive by going out of her way to get some drunk guy in a bar to take her home to have sex. A girl like that will always be easy prey - luckily for drunk ugly guys everywhere. But if you got into a relationship with her and were not constantly feeding her ego, she might sleep with any guy who massaged her ego a little bit just to make herself feel attractive.

Are you an OB/GYN or work in the medical field?
Good post by the way

 

[Generic MALE]

I don't like to reveal too much about myself, but you can say I shadow OB/GYN's alot. I am just finishing 380 clinical hours with some OB's.

Loosest snatch I ever saw - a 22 year old having her 6 child. The OB put the thumb and index finger of both hands in her vagina. Then spread his fingers 3-4 inches wide and then spread his hands about 5 inches apart - so there was a gaping opening maybe 3X5" or 4X6 inches - and he was not stretching her so tight that the skin was blanching. You could have probably dropped a softball in there and 3 of the 4 sides probably would have not touched vagina but have an air pocket around them. I have literally seen him put his arm into a vagina (he does not lift and he probably has 14 inch biceps) until the labia are touching his elbow. Some women with lots of children or who are getting hammered all the time can be very very very loose. On the other hand I have seen women who have 4 children who its tight getting 4 fingers into.

 

[SOUPERMAN]

LOL at BFOLD.
here is my advice and a little fact. Don't ask don't tell. They're all whores but mom.

 

[niloticus]

ridiculous

he post above about women strethcing out from sex is the worst ever on this board. It is so false as to be ridiculous. The vagina is a muscle, it has nothing at all to do with how much or how many sex partners you have. If that was the case a girl with one partner could have had sex 1,000,1100 times and I can tell you that's simpl crap. My wife who I had sex with 1000000000 times was tighter after years of marriage due to her exercise than before.

Anybody who believes otherwise is pretty freaking clueless.

Ask any reputable doctor.

Besides the entire logic of this post is wrong, it states a lady with 6 kids was loose, but later a lady with 4 was tight. It's genetic just like in guys as to size. The 'tightness' comes from level of fitness.

What medical school are you from? Any good doctor or gynecologist can tell you this, call them. 2003 and so much ignorance. I am in the medical field and if I was your superior and give you an 'F' immediately for obviously mistating and carrying on ridiculous myths. How do you know the girls who were 'looser' were not bigger to begin with? Did you premeasure? How funny.

 

[Heahy Minister]

THE SEXUAL PAST OF YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER ONLY MATTERS AS MUCH AS YOU LET IT MATTER.

FOR ME PERSONALLY, I'D RATHER TRAVEL THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED BUT SOMETIMES THAT ISNT THE CASE.

I agree! It only matters as much as you let it because people DO change!

Originally posted by Casavant

I try not to ask the "how many" question when I'm dating someone. I just don't want to know about it, really, and there is no way to know if they're telling the truth anyway.

But yeah, a really freaky sexual past would matter to me. I'd be lying to myself if I said anything different.

That's not to say that I have some certain limit on how many guys a girl can sleep with before she gets with me. But yeah, sexual past is going to matter to anyone- at least a little- I would think.

Agreed as well! If you don't want to hear the answer, don't ask the question! I try not to ask because I know if I heard a wacky answer it would weigh heavily on my mind. Of course I would definitely be curious as to know, but I would try not to ask the 'how many' question.

People have the capacity to change. The way someone acted at 18 is not necessarily the way they are or will be at 35, etc. Though I know this sounds all to cliche, ultimately what SHOULD matter is how the person is with YOU!

 

[geoboy]

Past Behaviour is always a good indication of Future Behaviour.

It's correct in almost 95% of cases.

-= nav =-

correct. whatever pathology drove the person to act out sexually (sexual compulsion, sex addition, etc) will always be there until dealt with via lots and lots of therapy.