buy him flowers and write him love poem about how much you like him now. Treat him to dinner at nice place too or fancy nanroast, just to make he gets the point and stuff.lol
Oh, it doesn't happen all the time, once in a very rare blue moon ... more so when I was younger. Hubby and I used to get ourselves into some very, ummm, odd situations (have an affair for four years, it's gonna happen). And I agree with you about joy and laughter but like I said, could be endorphins too. I also occasionally burst into tears after orgasms (sorry if it's TMI). Overwhelming emotions, that's why I chalked it up to endorphins.
Granted, I'm probably quite a bit older than you. One of the [very few] nice things about getting older is you do lighten up, relax and are more comfortable. I can honestly say that sex at 47, for me, is waaaaayyyy better (excluding physical issues, creaky joints) than it was almost 20 years ago. A lot of that has to do with being more able to discuss needs, wants, likes, dislikes without stressing over shit that seemed so important when I was in my 20s or so Yeah, I was kind of a neurotic young woman ... most of us are *sigh*