I agree, but therein lies the problem. I feel that when I do get married the woman is going to have to be a slut in order for me to be happy in and out of the bedroom and for our sex life not to get old and stale. However, if she is like that, I will probably resent her for being a slut and call her names like "pig" and "walking, talking vagina" when we fight. It's a double-edge sword.
High libido and slutty are different things in my opinion. My wife has a very strong sex drive, but she only shares it with me. In 8 years I've never seen nor heard her flirting with someone, even in a joking manner. Not her nature I guess. I on the other hand am a bad man...