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Ditto on the fat thing. 36"!? That is probably what my waist is now and I am a girl. My husband has a 42 inch waist and is 300lbs and I think he's dreamy.
You are SO not fat. That whole androgenous man-boy thing is not sexy, it's creepy. Men should be men. I want someone who's strong and masculine, not someone who'll show me his ripped serratus. Over obsessing about body fat is for girls (not that i think that's ok either but...). You will find a girl who thinks you are great, and until then do NOt settle for anything less.
You are SO not fat. That whole androgenous man-boy thing is not sexy, it's creepy. Men should be men. I want someone who's strong and masculine, not someone who'll show me his ripped serratus. Over obsessing about body fat is for girls (not that i think that's ok either but...). You will find a girl who thinks you are great, and until then do NOt settle for anything less.
