Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[heatherrae]

Self glorification at its best here folks.

Woe is me syndrome hard at work!

You're going to speak about self glorification after the infamous "sheath the beast" post?

You probably shouldn't go there.

 

[digimon7068]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

You know what I find to be MOST amusing about this thread?

If a woman states a preference for a casual date then she = easy or stupid/low class.

If a woman states a preference for more formal dating situations then she is arrogant and a gold digger/mooch.

LMFAO

Methinks *some* of the men should just save everybody trouble and keep their hands in their pockets where they can hold tight to their pennies and play with themselves in every social setting and not worry too much about offending anyone's delicate sensibilities.

my wife and i had a hell of a lot more "wings and beers" dates than lobster dates. . .she hates to see hard-earned money spent on shit like that. . .

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

You know what I find to be MOST amusing about this thread?

If a woman states a preference for a casual date then she = easy or stupid/low class.

If a woman states a preference for more formal dating situations then she is arrogant and a gold digger/mooch.

LMFAO

Methinks *some* of the men should just save everybody trouble and keep their hands in their pockets where they can hold tight to their pennies and play with themselves in every social setting and not worry too much about offending anyone's delicate sensibilities.

It doesn't matter what a woman says on ef, the boys will come out of the woodwork to criticize no matter what it is.

My bet is that 99% of these guys pay on the first date. They just want to bitch about something.

 

[javaguru]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

You know what I find to be MOST amusing about this thread?

If a woman states a preference for a casual date then she = easy or stupid/low class.

If a woman states a preference for more formal dating situations then she is arrogant and a gold digger/mooch.

LMFAO

Methinks *some* of the men should just save everybody trouble and keep their hands in their pockets where they can hold tight to their pennies and play with themselves in every social setting and not worry too much about offending anyone's delicate sensibilities.

I prefer low maintenance, I look for it. Pretentious people annoy me...I'm a simple country boy.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I prefer low maintenance, I look for it. Pretentious people annoy me...I'm a simple country boy.

So, you never want to dress up and go to a nice dinner with wine and fine food? Ever?

I like both the casual and the nice ones.

Just because I like good food and a night out on the town doesn't make me pretentious.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

my wife and i had a hell of a lot more "wings and beers" dates than lobster dates. . .she hates to see hard-earned money spent on shit like that. . .

Wings make me sick (my stomach can't take that type of fare anymore) and I dont like beer OR lobsters.

Both my husband and I LOVE great food (He was trained as a chef) so if the food isn't better than we could cook ourselves, then we stay home and cook. But if we go out and we pay, then it had better be GREAT.

I hate to overpay for ANYTHING but if the food and drink are wonderful then I dont mind dropping a few dollars for excellent service and treating myself to something that I can not get at home.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I prefer low maintenance, I look for it. Pretentious people annoy me...I'm a simple country boy.

As they do me.

My husband and I can go ANYWHERE with ANY ONE and feel comfortable.

I like to get dressed up and doing nice things on occasion and other times we are chilling with bikers....

I HATE people at fancy places that kiss ass because they *think* they will get a bigger tip. <----THAT SUCKS.

 

[jd_uk]

Actually if you re read my posts - money has NOTHING to do with a man's measure.

I supported myself, four children and a gaggle of lawyers fighting for the right to maintain a SEMBLENCE of custody nearly 6+ years BY MYSELF. Yea I got up at 3:30AM to be at work by 5AM with four children in tow for the whopping salary of 8$ p/hr till 9AM then the pay got dropped to 7 dollars. I paid my bills - ME.

So what were you saying again?

Then why keep going on about money and masculinity at the same time? You're the only one mentioning it. Sorry BM but you aren't very convincing. I remember you and your husband telling me how you believed that being successful WAS being wealthy. Now unless you've drastically changed your views...

 

[velvett]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I prefer low maintenance, I look for it. Pretentious people annoy me...I'm a simple country boy.

Hmmm see that could be complicated.

Low maintenance is not necessarily the direct opposite of "high maintenance" - you may very well get a girl that sleeps til two in the afternoon, showers every few days and sniffs her clothes to see if they're clean enough to keep wearing.

If you think that the opposite of "country" is pretentious - I assure you - you have not truly experience pretentious.

I like and I live a very simple life and yet on occasion I like to get dressed up and socialize with new people, people I don't know and probably will only ever run into again at another function. I am happy at a beach BBQ or a black tie cocktail party or dinner (I am most happy at home in my jammies surrounded by my books and magazines) - it's whether or not I feel like being around people or not that will determine my going not the type of function.

You can be and do both.

I think everyone needs to think out of their confined ways of thinking.

1 + 1 doesn't always equal 2

And black in never the opposite of white.

 

[patsfan1379]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

Hmmm see that could be complicated.

Low maintenance is not necessarily the direct opposite of "high maintenance" - you may very well get a girl that sleeps til two in the afternoon, showers every few days and sniffs her clothes to see if they're clean enough to keep wearing.

If you think that the opposite of "country" is pretentious - I assure you - you have not truly experience pretentious.

I like and I live a very simple life and yet on occasion I like to get dressed up and socialize with new people, people I don't know and probably will only ever run into again at another function. I am happy at a beach BBQ or a black tie cocktail party or dinner (I am most happy at home in my jammies surrounded by my books and magazines) - it's whether or not I feel like being around people or not that will determine my going not the type of function.

You can be and do both.

I think everyone needs to think out of their confined ways of thinking.

1 + 1 doesn't always equal 2

And black in never the opposite of white.

OMG marry me.