Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[jd_uk]

If a Woman has the 100% expectation that they are going to be treated to a meal etc simply because they are a Woman and he is the Man..

Don't bitch if he treats you like property later on..

Exactly. Load of bs. Were i to go on a date now i would probably offer to pay but that is just the way i am generally with anyone. If a woman expected me to pay then chances are i wouldn't be impressed. Like i said, i laugh at 'ladies' like this. Nobody should expect anything.

 

[jd_uk]

That ain't antiquated - that is just how it is. No man will EVER appreciate a woman that *threw herself at him* (and I am NOT talking about sex) or immasculated him by not allowing him to be the man.

Yeah? Well think again.

My gf is just as giving as me and i love and appreciate that so much more than i would of a woman who expected to be paid for. lol at 'immasculated'.

 

[heatherrae]

If I asked my father out for lunch, I wouldn't make him pay for it.

If I asked my grandma to go out for a movie, I would pay.

Is that any different?

If asked the man out on the date, I would pay.

I just don't ask men out on dates...lol.

 

[Faizakafez]

If I asked my father out for lunch, I wouldn't make him pay for it.

If I asked my grandma to go out for a movie, I would pay.

Is that any different?

If asked the man out on the date, I would pay.

I just don't ask men out on dates...lol.

oh really?

 

[rudeboyja]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

If I asked my father out for lunch, I wouldn't make him pay for it.

If I asked my grandma to go out for a movie, I would pay.

Is that any different?

If asked the man out on the date, I would pay.

I just don't ask men out on dates...lol.

You're right about that as much as I hate to say it. If someone extends the invite it should be on their tab.

If you ask a girl out you should take care of everything.

 

[heatherrae]

oh really?

Yeah, that would get expensive...lol.

 

[RottenWillow]

Regarding of sex or sexual orientation, I think it's an implied social contract that the asker pays for a romantic date. If/when the relationship becomes a steady thing though, I think the askee needs to start kicking in with the fundage. In the case of my fiance and I, I started paying at least part of my way after about 3 months when I realized this was something special.

 

[heatherrae]

Regarding of sex or sexual orientation, I think it's an implied social contract that the asker pays for a romantic date. If/when the relationship becomes a steady thing though, I think the askee needs to start kicking in with the fundage. In the case of my fiance and I, I started paying at least part of my way after about 3 months when I realized this was something special.

Yeah, I would agree with that.

 

[jnevin]

Regarding of sex or sexual orientation, I think it's an implied social contract that the asker pays for a romantic date. If/when the relationship becomes a steady thing though, I think the askee needs to start kicking in with the fundage. In the case of my fiance and I, I started paying at least part of my way after about 3 months when I realized this was something special.

That's about how long it'd take me to accept it.

 

[needtogetaas]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

I saw this article today on the net: http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/Investing/HomeMortgageSavings/WhoPays.aspx#pageTopAchor

Personally, if a guy does not pay on the first date, he is history with me. I've actually never had that happen, but I had close to it once.

I went out on a first date with a guy. He asked me to "dinner and drinks" so I wore a nice dress. He shows up in jeans and a sloppy looking shirt. STRIKE ONE.

So, he asks what is around where I live. I took him to the square where there was a nice Italian restaraunt, indian restaraunt, etc. He points to Johnny Rockets (a 50's burger diner) and asks about it. I tell him and he says he would love a burger. So, I'm a good sport, even though I look like a fool in this burger diner wearing a $500 BCBG dress and nice heels. STRIKE TWO.

When the check comes, he said "I'll get it this time, and you can get it next time." STRIKE THREE. YOU'RE OUT!

If a guy wants to go dutch, I take it as a personal insult, like I'm not worthy in his eyes of being treated like gf material. Srew that.

I thought you did not live in the 60's...you want all the perks of the old days but nothing to do with being a women like women used to be...thats some funny fucking shit...lmfao