Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second date?

[H_T_]

women are bitches!

 

[cindylou]

what the fuck retarded question is that? a guy pays for the first and the rest of the dates. he pays until the day he dies. forbid a woman did something for a guy these days. the world might come to an end.

u are right

I dont demand the type of equality and fairness that lots of women demand these days.

I dont mind being taken care of and even being submissive if the guy is the right guy.

so a guy paying on the first date is a good sign to me. Him asking me to pay would raise my eyebrows about him not filling the tradtional role that I like in a man.

But if I was one of those gals who was hell bent on equality and likes to run the show, well then hell yeah, she should pay and not expect the guy to pay.

Totally understand a guy not wanting to be expected to pay just as I dont want to be expected to do his laundry.

 

[yonkers weights]

I hope I am the right guy....
LOL

u are right

I dont demand the type of equality and fairness that lots of women demand these days.

I dont mind being taken care of and even being submissive if the guy is the right guy.

so a guy paying on the first date is a good sign to me. Him asking me to pay would raise my eyebrows about him not filling the tradtional role that I like in a man.

But if I was one of those gals who was hell bent on equality and likes to run the show, well then hell yeah, she should pay and not expect the guy to pay.

Totally understand a guy not wanting to be expected to pay just as I dont want to be expected to do his laundry.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

A walk at the park and ice cream from Mr. Freeze has been my recent first date material.

you probably never heard from her again. good date though.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I guess all the feminist rhetoric about equality goes out the door when a chick can get something for free.

You will NEVER hear me say that the sexes are equal. They are not now nor will they ever be. But they are designe (I believe) to work together side by side, synergistically. Who plays what role though, for the most part should be left up to the individuals in the relationship.

Any guy who chose to ask me out always knew what was up so there were no surprizes later on. As I said, time is our most precious commodity. I don't like to have my time wasted so why should I not respect other peoples' time in kind?

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

ummm, no! I would not want a man to expect to pay. I don't want the guy to think I owe him from the first date, I would pay my share until I knew this would be a guy I would want to date again.
Mind you, Cmarc paid for my drinks when we first went out. But that could be b/c he wanted to get me drunk ;-)

Silly woman... But can you loan me a few bucks for the bus, I left my wallet at home...... Women should NEVER pay anything... Just sayin. Do I have to learn you everything?


Damn didn't know the old lady was on top of me here...

 

[Grumpy Old Man]

I hope I am the right guy....
LOL

what is that big L on your forehead bro?

 

[Bikini Mod]

K now let's turn the tables... shall we?

It's no secret that I wouldn't date a man if he was financially succesfull so now then, if you were that guy (that wanted to date me in kind LOL) what would YOU DO if I told you that I would not accept a store-bought birthday present and NO, you could not put cash/check in an envelope for the gift either.

Ya'll would be shocked as to how many men flocked this little test up. The one guy who *got it*... well I married him.

 

[rudeboyja]

Re: Women, if a man did not pay the tab on the first date, would you go on a second d

K now let's turn the tables... shall we?

It's no secret that I wouldn't date a man if he was financially succesfull so now then, if you were that guy (that wanted to date me in kind LOL) what would YOU DO if I told you that I would not accept a store-bought birthday present and NO, you could not put cash/check in an envelope for the gift either.

Ya'll would be shocked as to how many men flocked this little test up. The one guy who *got it*... well I married him.

Best response I ever got from a girl was when I gave her a coupon for a lap dance from me anywhere/anytime.

 

[jd_uk]

i lol at such bullshit social 'rules'. Such women are dumb.