women...can't live with em and can't live w/o em...

[johnnylax]

why can't some women just speak up and tell the truth. i traveled 1000 miles to meet a girl i met online. she seemed so cool, so sweet, with a little naughty streak, which i loved. once i got there however, different ballgame. i have absolutely no regrets traveling to meet her, but i'm here now and feel like a complete stranger in her house. if she felt uncomfortable with the way i looked when we first met and didn't want me to stay my entire trip, i'd have happily gone home.

now i'm not sure how to handle things. just wait the last day out, get thru it and head home. get out, get a hotel so i don't feel like i'm in her way so we can both enjoy our days. man. one other aspect....one of the reasons i traveled to meet up with her.....she was 'lonely' in the physical sense and told me she wanted to 'make love', have oral sex performed, etc. well, i blew into town the first night and think i did an ok job but since then.....nada. anyone have any suggestions as to how i should handle this last day here? (ps....i'm new here and don't have a pic yet...sorry)

 

[rnch]

in all fairness, it's not just gals that lie thru their front teeth online....

 

[johnnylax]

yeah true...but she didn't actually lie. just think she wasn't sure what she'd gottn herself into and i'm not her type and she could't just say, hey, this isn't working. i woulda flown home two days ago and mowed my lawn.

 

[raze]

Mate i would say what your going through is normal. In reality you are a stranger to her, she was probably horny as which took the weirdness out of the air because she wanted something from you. Now she is probably not feeling the need and she is left with a stranger in her house. Nice job on the hookup, say goodbye, keep talking to her online for hopefully some more wild weekends well thats what i would do.

 

[Hellawulf]

why can't some women just speak up and tell the truth. i traveled 1000 miles to meet a girl i met online. she seemed so cool, so sweet, with a little naughty streak, which i loved. once i got there however, different ballgame. i have absolutely no regrets traveling to meet her, but i'm here now and feel like a complete stranger in her house. if she felt uncomfortable with the way i looked when we first met and didn't want me to stay my entire trip, i'd have happily gone home.

now i'm not sure how to handle things. just wait the last day out, get thru it and head home. get out, get a hotel so i don't feel like i'm in her way so we can both enjoy our days. man. one other aspect....one of the reasons i traveled to meet up with her.....she was 'lonely' in the physical sense and told me she wanted to 'make love', have oral sex performed, etc. well, i blew into town the first night and think i did an ok job but since then.....nada. anyone have any suggestions as to how i should handle this last day here? (ps....i'm new here and don't have a pic yet...sorry)

Why would you fly a 1000 miles to meet some chick? Are you like a millionare, and if so, again why are you flying a 1000 miles to meet chicks? How is this worth it at all, don't let online dating overtake physical dating at all, it should only be supplemental, you flying out to her is kinda lame on your part, and this isn't a direct attack on you or anything, because for some people its in their nature and they just don't know any better. Also some chicks don't have the sexual limbido that you probably have, some do, find one that does, or you won't be happy. Also when you go into a new town, especially far away, you are put at a huge subconscious and quite possibly conscious disadvantage, try to stick to girls within a 30 minute drive (unless you live in Alaska, in which case try to stay within 2 hours). Good luck bro.

 

[needtogetaas]

Cawkdeisel is that you bro????

 

[Cutiebaby]

Cawkdeisel is that you bro????

Holy shits, lololololol...


I was thinking the same thing, except this guy said he actually hit that shit.