Women are selfish lovers

[Grizzly]

Well, I was just reading and replying to Bikinimom's thread and I became incensed about something that has always bothered me. Women are always saying that men are all wham bam thank you ma'am, but that's a lie. Maybe I'm different than most dudes, but the way I see it, every woman I've been with owes me. For instance, they're always happy to receive oral sex, but they never give back. How many times have you guys ever messed around with a girl(no sex just foreplay) who barely even bothers to touch your cock even after you've finger fucked her to death? I mean, it doesn't even seem like most women care if we men get off. I've outlasted several girls in bed and they're jsut like "oh, I'm tired. Let's stop." What the hell is that? How about finishing with some head or soemthing. Seems pretty selfish to me. Her 5 orgasms to my none. At the time this stuff doesn't bother me because I love to get women off, but when i think about it later it pisses me off to no end.
Anyway, have you guys found this to be the case or do I just happen to find the worst women possible?

 

[tripleV]

You must be too good at it! When women spend most of their time pleasing guys it's usually cause they sck at it so take it as a compliment. Who cares, why dont you just wack off and ask her to watch ya.

 

[fiatconspiracy]

I kind of agree, i think women can be selfish lovers..... but you just got to find the woman who like to give a little something extra,

 

[Mtime1]

Griz....I've experienced women like those before. It's been a while because now before I try to get them in bed, I find out what they like and don't like about sex.

If she doesn't have the answers I want, then I move on.

 

[Bikini Mod]

What is the age range of the women you have been with if you don't mind my asking?

I can not comment on how "women are in bed" as I have never had sex with a woman. I can only offer my experience.

I have YET to be with a man who could outlast me (though, back in the day, there had been a few who claimed to be able to keep on going like the energizer bunny, but when it came time for their asses ....or penises as it were - to cash the checks that their mouths had previously written, they always fell short!).

I do not ask for oral as sadly, I have not had a partner who really did it very well, so I don't even bother with it. So if I don't ask, I admit that I do not really offer all that much. However, I feel that I MORE than make up for it when it comes to actual intercourse...ie I have YET to have a complaint. Actually, when all is said and done I am usually the one who wants to get off and they peter out (usually the 3/4 round). "You're killing me baby, I'm really sore...I will have to owe you one." Yea, I am still waiting!

I have been known on occasion (haven't done this in a while though, I admit) to just go down while the honey is driving...just out of the blue for shits and giggles.

Are these women selfish? Perhaps they are. But I think it is more a lack of experience. I mean, why on earth would a woman rob herself of pleasure by not trying to please her lover?......if he is HALF a man it would only serve to benefit HER!

...just my .02

 

[Imnotdutch]

I think that alot of this comes down to age and experience. I think that young girls tend to be more inhibited or just havent learnt all of the tricks. That can make it difficult for them.....and not good for you. I think it takes time and practice to become good at sex....something younger girls havent had much of.

I learnt quite early on that women in their thirties give alot more.....and they also know what they like and arent afraid to tell you. I dont care what some of the people here say about older women, I think they look way better than girls fresh outta school. They can also hold a decent conversation as well as being better in the sack.

Having said that, there are some women who think they are actually doing you a favour by being in the same bed as you. In those situations you end up giving far more than you receive.....mebbe you just got unlucky and got a few of these women.

Well, I was just reading and replying to Bikinimom's thread and I became incensed about something that has always bothered me. Women are always saying that men are all wham bam thank you ma'am, but that's a lie. Maybe I'm different than most dudes, but the way I see it, every woman I've been with owes me. For instance, they're always happy to receive oral sex, but they never give back. How many times have you guys ever messed around with a girl(no sex just foreplay) who barely even bothers to touch your cock even after you've finger fucked her to death? I mean, it doesn't even seem like most women care if we men get off. I've outlasted several girls in bed and they're jsut like "oh, I'm tired. Let's stop." What the hell is that? How about finishing with some head or soemthing. Seems pretty selfish to me. Her 5 orgasms to my none. At the time this stuff doesn't bother me because I love to get women off, but when i think about it later it pisses me off to no end.
Anyway, have you guys found this to be the case or do I just happen to find the worst women possible?

 

[Grizzly]

I don't know about the age thing. I've been with one lady who was about 32ish and another who was 38. I went down on both of them and neither bothered to return the favor and on the 38 y/o I was down there for half an hour. They were both like "well, that was fun. now fuck me." Don't these people understand the concept of foreplay?

As for registering a complaint with women about their performance, I do think that it happens. I straight told my ex that she was boring in bed. It was the greatest sex I've ever had(I think that has to do with the love thing) but it was so freaking normal and standard issue that it was boring.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Sounds to me like you just met two that werent into oral....which kinda sucks (or not!). Or you didnt make them want to return the favour.....

You really told your ex she was boring in bed?? lol. Please tell me you didnt tell her that whilst you were together.

I don't know about the age thing. I've been with one lady who was about 32ish and another who was 38. I went down on both of them and neither bothered to return the favor and on the 38 y/o I was down there for half an hour. They were both like "well, that was fun. now fuck me." Don't these people understand the concept of foreplay?

As for registering a complaint with women about their performance, I do think that it happens. I straight told my ex that she was boring in bed. It was the greatest sex I've ever had(I think that has to do with the love thing) but it was so freaking normal and standard issue that it was boring.

 

[Grizzly]

Sounds to me like you just met two that werent into oral....which kinda sucks (or not!). Or you didnt make them want to return the favour.....

You really told your ex she was boring in bed?? lol. Please tell me you didnt tell her that whilst you were together.

Obviously, I didn't make them want to return the favor. Can't see why not because they got off and all. The one was grabbing my ears and pulling me in as she gyrated all over my face. She didn't seem to dislike it, that's for sure.

Of course I told my ex while I was with her. It's not like she talks to me now...bitch! Oops, I'm just a little bitter. I had to tell her that because we were fighting about her lack of giving oral pleasure. I had to point out that maybe she should start so that I didn't start looking elsewhere because the sex sure wasn't doing an adequate job.

 

[Mtime1]

Grizzly....what else could you do except tell her ? You did the right thing. The only thing.