I'm a little horrified at the 17 kids and plans for more but I'm not going to comment.
But do want to say that I was in the post office the other day and there was a mom (late 20's I'd guess maybe early 30's) with 3 girls, two about 4 and 5 and and another saddled on her I don't know 14-18 mos (I'm really bad with baby ages). I was in absolute awe as to how normal yet well behaved these kids were playing with their little mini hand bags and lip gloss and with each other and how adoring, loving and yet stern the mom was when keeping them in line - it was so refreshing to see. I fell in love with all of them right there as did everyone else in that post office (very crowded). She had a lot of packages to tend with and while she was in total control of everything there was not one person there including myself that wanted to help her.
It's a rare occasion that I'm really touch by "family" but that was one of those times.