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Why do I dis-like this type of music?

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Ever since I was born, I've been surrounded around "dance" music. My parents "back in the day" used to have A LOT of friends that owned dance clubs. So, since my parents were kind of broke. And couldn't afford a babysitter (and didn't trust them), I always went every weekend with them to the clubs. Yes! Even at 3 years old I was in the clubs. Since they're friends owned the clubs, I would just sit behind the bar for hours until my parents decided to go home.

"I'm latin by the way" so Salsa/Dance music was ALWAYS around me.

This weekend "clubbing" shit went on for many years thereafter. I think it all came to an end when I was 10 or 11 years old.

You would think that me being "LATIN" and being surrounded by "dance" music all my life I would like it. And know how to dance it. But! I don't like it all! I can't dance it because I don't want to dance it. And hell! I don't care for it!

I hate being with my friends and they all say..."lets go to a club". ARgh! I hate that.

I went not too long ago to a club with my ex-wife and I was bored out of my goddamn mind. Not to mention I was also feeling a bit sick that night. Don't know what happened. Could've been the starbucks I had before going? And the cigarette smoke in the air? Who knows. lol

To me...when I listen to "club" music (whether it be american or latin dance music), I think to myself..."What guy would like this shit? This to me sounds like girly music". To me (and this is just MY opinion....but "dance" music is for WOMEN. The music sounds toooooo fucking weak and pussy for me.

I even had this type of mentality when I was a little boy! Imagine that!

Why do I think like this? Why do other "men" think this music is cool? Yet I think it's fucking fag as shit! Crap...I remember being 7 years old behind a bar at a club. And a woman grabbed me to teach me how to dance. She asked me..."why the long face"? I clearly remember saying at 7 years old...."this music is for girls". ROFLMAO!!!!

By the way...MY music is old school (late 90's-early 2000's) Hip-Hop and Hard Rock/Metal.

I've loved this type of music since I was 5. Yet...no one I know both friends and family like the music I like. They all like that fag ass weak bitch dance music.

Corny as hell! And the lyrics for dance music SUUUUCK!

The question stands...

Why do I dis-like this music so much? Ever since I was 3 years old!

Is this because of HIGH testosterone levels? I didn't have HIGH testosterone levels at 3! So.....wtf?
 
it's probably because you shouldn't have been exposed to it so long as a kid while your parents are having fun, you should have been with a sitter, so you are conditioned to picture yourself alone or bored behind a bar while your parents are having fun and not paying attention to you... you got over exposed to it as well...

Maybe...
 
It's not the music, it is the scene. There are many sides to electronic music, something I learn the deeper I get into the industry.
 
So I'm psychologically scarred?

Then why like hard hip-hop (not this new clubby hip-hop) and hard rock/metal? As a form of rebellion? As a way of distinguishing my own self and not joining the conformist ways of others?
 
What is it about the scene I don't really care for??? I'm still baffled why I don't give a flying shit for this type of music/fun. Yet...8/10 people prefer and like this. Yet...I don't.
 
It's because it's what is popular now , if you've noticed, all the tools on the radio , all they have is dance music in the background lol, now if u want manly techno "DUBStEP" is where it's at lol.. But I'm with u man I like early hip hop where they had lyrical skill and not just a techno beat with some autotune to turn people on ...
 
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