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Why are men like this?!

I tell my wife what she wants to hear and go do what I want anyway. We have a spectacular marriage...
 
blueta2 said:
It seems like when men want a woman, they pull out all the stops, but once they "get her", they pull away!
Then when the woman pulls away, the guy is all over here again!

What is this about? How do you make it stop?!
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Just my personal opinion, there are guys who are into the hunt, other guys are more homebodies/relationship types. For a "hunter" the chase is almost as much fun (sometimes more) than the "kill" and the game stops being half as fun once the goal is achieved :rolleyes:

I'd suspect the one way to keep a "hunter" interested is to keep some mystery/surprise and consider incorporating role playing games (y'know, you dress different, wear a wig and meet at a bar, shit like that).

Frankly, I think it's easier to find a homebody type who likes routine :lmao:
 
musclemom said:
Just my personal opinion, there are guys who are into the hunt, other guys are more homebodies/relationship types. For a "hunter" the chase is almost as much fun (sometimes more) than the "kill" and the game stops being half as fun once the goal is achieved :rolleyes:

I'd suspect the one way to keep a "hunter" interested is to keep some mystery/surprise and consider incorporating role playing games (y'know, you dress different, wear a wig and meet at a bar, shit like that).

Frankly, I think it's easier to find a homebody type who likes routine :lmao:
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yeah and then women find those all of a sudden "something is missing".

most of them anyways
 
calveless wonder said:
yeah and then women find those all of a sudden "something is missing".

most of them anyways
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Hey, chicks can have the same "hunter" drive. If they're too stupid to realize they've got a good man and what they need to do to keep him happy then they don't deserve him anyway.

I'm a routine/homebody married to a routine/homebody. Asshole husband #1 was a "hunter." Expected me to dress up and seduce him, used to get wood if I dyed my hair a new color, superficial shit like that. It got old. It's too much like work if you're not into that shit yourself :whatever:
 
musclemom said:
Just my personal opinion, there are guys who are into the hunt, other guys are more homebodies/relationship types. For a "hunter" the chase is almost as much fun (sometimes more) than the "kill" and the game stops being half as fun once the goal is achieved :rolleyes:

I'd suspect the one way to keep a "hunter" interested is to keep some mystery/surprise and consider incorporating role playing games (y'know, you dress different, wear a wig and meet at a bar, shit like that).

Frankly, I think it's easier to find a homebody type who likes routine :lmao:
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one of the most spectacular vidios I've seen
a pack of female lions take down an elephant
the problem with mankind is blending technology
with the 600,000 years of gene structure
so many pills for the "fight or flight" chemical release
I could talk with you forever
 
Spartacus said:
one of the most spectacular vidios I've seen
a pack of female lions take down an elephant
the problem with mankind is blending technology
with the 600,000 years of gene structure
so many pills for the "fight or flight" chemical release
I could talk with you forever
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blueta2 said:
It seems like when men want a woman, they pull out all the stops, but once they "get her", they pull away!
Then when the woman pulls away, the guy is all over here again!

What is this about? How do you make it stop?!
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the chase is more fun than the catch....:rose:
 
musclemom said:
Hey, chicks can have the same "hunter" drive. If they're too stupid to realize they've got a good man and what they need to do to keep him happy then they don't deserve him anyway.

I'm a routine/homebody married to a routine/homebody. Asshole husband #1 was a "hunter." Expected me to dress up and seduce him, used to get wood if I dyed my hair a new color, superficial shit like that. It got old. It's too much like work if you're not into that shit yourself :whatever:
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this may make sense to you. more commentary to follow
 
Spartacus said:
well I have two sisters
one a year younger than me
and the other two years
so we 3 grew up together
one sister is a CPA
and the other is a highly compensated computer programmer for the US armed forces
what's my point?
much of this tripe is silly
such as a 45 year old women bragging on the net how horny she is
like dog do
you stepped right into it nancy
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caligirl I believe my sisters influenced me most is that I find females intellectually equal with males
yeah I beat them at startego most of the time
but my entire childhood with my sisters
it's you versus me
wouldn't matter if he was male
then you get out in the real world and all this conflict
I think lesbians kind of fuck the perspective up
gay men often have female friends
lesbians hate men. period.
 
captainahole said:
That purely is a comfort zone. All of us both men and women have insecurity issues. When you go back to him in the love you miss you. It makes him feel secure plain and simple. Its not really backing off just comfort at least that makes me feel better.
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nice comprehensive and thought through answer
always after my lucky charms
well done
 
blueta2 said:
hmmmm, you're right! I like this !
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I've made posts about my wife
trowing her over my back
and carting her to bed
we're done arguing
first time I had to work it a little
thereafter that pussy was saturated when it hit the bed
pavlov's pussy
yup
 
captainahole said:
That purely is a comfort zone. All of us both men and women have insecurity issues. When you go back to him in the love you miss you. It makes him feel secure plain and simple. Its not really backing off just comfort at least that makes me feel better.
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This seems pretty accurate!

I think it comes down to insecurities
 
zwhit said:
Is this a "why don't you talk to me anymore" or a "what's wrong with you" problem? I hate when my wife asks me questions like that.

Its probably not really a big deal. You're most likely making it more than it is. Men are simple. Or at least I am anyway.
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Oh no, I'm not that kind of woman. I never ask questions like that.

I may be making it more than it is, and I am not too concerned, but was just more curious why some people (I see it in men more) have this push/pull character.
 
SpyWizard said:
simple to fix, the man has to stop giving the woman everything she says she wants.. and thus she's the one always wanting..

and the man has to be willing to take back the power, sounds simple but we are a slave to the penis, the trick is to make the woman the slave to the penis and then the man will feel secure and thus all is good.
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I'm already a slave to the penis ;-)
It's not about power for me. Men don't give me what I want, I think we give each other a little of what we both want.
The transfer of power seems odd. I like to be equal, but maybe that's not realistic?
I was in an 11 yr relationship where there were no games.
It just was, it was easy, but we were kids (in our 20's) with no baggage. I think baggage brings these walls where power needs to be utilized!
 
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ortiz34 said:
In these cases blue,it's obvious the two were most likely not meant for one another IMO.
No need for chasing or games when two are on the same page
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Not sure they are games as much as insecurities. I don't play games and never chase or need to be chased!
Could be some are not meant to be, but who really can say
 
blueta2 said:
Not sure they are games as much as insecurities. I don't play games and never chase or need to be chased!
Could be some are not meant to be, but who really can say
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^^Exactly, people play entirely to many games when dating..
 
blueta2 said:
Not sure they are games as much as insecurities. I don't play games and never chase or need to be chased!
Could be some are not meant to be, but who really can say
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all I need to know is that usage of an exclamation point
 
so nonchalent blah blah I'm above this simpleton crap blal blah
but here listen up you tools!!!
 
musclemom said:
Just my personal opinion, there are guys who are into the hunt, other guys are more homebodies/relationship types. For a "hunter" the chase is almost as much fun (sometimes more) than the "kill" and the game stops being half as fun once the goal is achieved :rolleyes:

I'd suspect the one way to keep a "hunter" interested is to keep some mystery/surprise and consider incorporating role playing games (y'know, you dress different, wear a wig and meet at a bar, shit like that).

Frankly, I think it's easier to find a homebody type who likes routine :lmao:
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Oh man, my BF is a major homebody and loves routine! He is all about routine! He hates to date and loves to be comfy!
He doesn't give up easy on things. His last relationship, he was not happy and tried over and over to make it work.

He's so used to passive women so not sure he can handle me. He keeps saying "you need some guy who likes to sip tea, who doesn't eat gluten and who is a vegan who meditates in a Volkswagon beetle, I'm too rough a man for you"
Nowwwwwwwwwwwww, anyone who knows me, knows I love a spiritual guy who likes tea, but any man who drives a beetle, has the geigh!
He knows I love the muscled, tattooed bad boys who love metal music and works out at the gym and who can throw me around a little.
I think he is worried I'm going to leave him so he puts a wall up a little, hence the push/pull.

Who knows, but I see this often, even with my gf's and their men!
 
blueta2 said:
Oh man, my BF is a major homebody and loves routine! He is all about routine! He hates to date and loves to be comfy!
He doesn't give up easy on things. His last relationship, he was not happy and tried over and over to make it work.

He's so used to passive women so not sure he can handle me. He keeps saying "you need some guy who likes to sip tea, who doesn't eat gluten and who is a vegan who meditates in a Volkswagon beetle, I'm too rough a man for you"
Nowwwwwwwwwwwww, anyone who knows me, knows I love a spiritual guy who likes tea, but any man who drives a beetle, has the geigh!
He knows I love the muscled, tattooed bad boys who loves metal music and works out at the gym and who can throw me around a little.
I think he is worried I'm going to leave him so he puts a wall up a little, hence the push/pull.

Who knows, but I see this often, even with my gf's and their men!
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Volkswagen
 
musclemom said:
Hey, chicks can have the same "hunter" drive. If they're too stupid to realize they've got a good man and what they need to do to keep him happy then they don't deserve him anyway.

I'm a routine/homebody married to a routine/homebody. Asshole husband #1 was a "hunter." Expected me to dress up and seduce him, used to get wood if I dyed my hair a new color, superficial shit like that. It got old. It's too much like work if you're not into that shit yourself :whatever:
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Jamie loves me simple, no make-up, in my boy shorts and a tank top. He is not into the whole role playing, 3somes or anything nutty!
My ex was the asshole who stalked women in every AA meeting he attended! creepy!
 
3 exclamation points she's spirally out of control
a man named Jamie?
yo yo
 
jamie wtf
yeah I know you can't do much about your assigned name
jamie sounds like chuck
and get your friends to start calling you chuck and it'll stick
why do they call you chuck?
I've always been called chuck
 
blueta2 said:
LOL...haha!<--- look another one. I am a ! girl


He takes out my garbage (when he's here on garbage day)
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my garbaGE GOES OUT TWO DAYS A WEEK
sorry for the caps I'm fucked up
anyhow your neighborhood is trashy
once a week?
yo rodents
 
not a regular run of the mill rain storm made me look pretty average
might be fat too in the "flank" area
 
blueta2 said:
stop trying to charm me
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heh
like playing stratego with my sisters
are they going to surround their flag with bombs as a defense
or deploy the bombs mized up with thier "heavy hitters" to take me down?
or some kind of not well thought out combination
let's get some nachos I like you
 
and all the fuckin' exclamation points
can I take a break
my head hurts mrs einstein
yo
 
I'm certian you haven't been nailed good in a long time
all those exclamation points
hurt me hurt me
oh god I love your cock
 
HAHAH....Not sure why I use them so much, but it's not because I've not been "nailed" ;-)
I need to sleep...Night Nacho Man !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
It's evolution, men are dumb when it comes to the needs of women in the modern world, we don't understand women but that's the world we live in...We never had to understand them...we just had to provide for them.
 
javaguru said:
It's evolution, men are dumb when it comes to the needs of women in the modern world, we don't understand women but that's the world we live in...We never had to understand them...we just had to provide for them.
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I beg to differ
 
why is it nature it's typical for the males to "hang out"
get in the occasional fight
while the females does the work
I believe they are strong but nature sorts
hell this negroe professor on foxnews is spouting the latest excuse
blacks are extremely githed atheletically
yo yo
 
I believe that this is the best thread ever!
I'm all giddy reading it and wondering why i haven't started sooner.
I will say this.
@blue,
That is exactly how i am and i don't know why either. Me and the girl were just fighting about it an hour ago. Now that i know she's upset I'll be on point for the next week or so but eventually I'll start being neglectful and selfish again. Its just our nature and that is a hard thing to change.
It doesn't mean we don't care lolololololol
 
dear diary
todaY I awoke and your highness blueta was on my face
gruntin' and moving around I couldn't get any air
just when I was about to pass out queen blue flooded my face with warm musky pussy syrup
I almost choked
 
Spartacus said:
dear diary
todaY I awoke and your highness blueta was on my face
gruntin' and moving around I couldn't get any air
just when I was about to pass out queen blue flooded my face with warm musky pussy syrup
I almost choked
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did you put that musky pussy syrup on your pancakes
 
blueta2 said:
Oh man, my BF is a major homebody and loves routine! He is all about routine! He hates to date and loves to be comfy!
He doesn't give up easy on things. His last relationship, he was not happy and tried over and over to make it work.

He's so used to passive women so not sure he can handle me. He keeps saying "you need some guy who likes to sip tea, who doesn't eat gluten and who is a vegan who meditates in a Volkswagon beetle, I'm too rough a man for you"
Nowwwwwwwwwwwww, anyone who knows me, knows I love a spiritual guy who likes tea, but any man who drives a beetle, has the geigh!
He knows I love the muscled, tattooed bad boys who love metal music and works out at the gym and who can throw me around a little.
I think he is worried I'm going to leave him so he puts a wall up a little, hence the push/pull.

Who knows, but I see this often, even with my gf's and their men!
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Yo! My husband Looooovvvvvesss VW Beetles! He was the freaking manager of the used car repair dept. in a VW dealership like 100 years ago or something (he's 58, who the fuck counts after three decades ...) Dude fucking whimpers when he sees old Beetles for sale, wish I could afford one for him ... however, I totally admit we're both a pair of misplaced hippies :whatever:

Okay, back to you. You have a homebody/routine guy whose pushing you away when things get serious/close ... Survey Says: "INTIMACY ISSUES."

IOW, everything is getting too close/real and once upon a time his safety zone was violated (some bitch cheated on him or lied to him, shit like that). He has problems with complete trust. When he gets close he goes into freak mode.

Call him on it and have a serious talk, ain't nothing else you can do. He'll realize what he's doing or he'll deny-deny-deny and it'll be the death of you two, but if you don't fix it it'll be a permanent habit, seriously. I mean, look how bitter WooToom is, you wanna be with that for a couple of decades?

He might recognize/admit what's going on and want to fix it ... a couple sessions with a couples counselor could knock that shit out real fast if he's agreeable.
 
My opinion is notice it, take a mental note and watch for patterns. Notice the times it happens and try to avoid it by making him feel super comfortable when you can tell you're close to the peak of his "closeness" or whatever. Sometimes if you bring it up it just seems drama-ish..."why aren't you talking to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee" what's wrong questions, etc and above all else, I try not to take it personally. Like MM said, talking probably won't do anything anyway, most men can't express what's going on in their heads like that, I don't know how to explain it...not very aware of why they do what they do. Lol

Sometimes you can avoid it, sometimes you can't and you're stuck doing that dance for the entire relationship. I need more consistency and emotional depth with this stuff because I'm sensitive to it, too. I've got to have a guy that knows what he is thinking. Lol. I can't handle push/pull or hot/cold. If it starts to feel like a roller coaster, I'm out. Been there done that, stayed on the ride too long when I wanted off. Lol

I mean, hell. I've been through some stuff, and I don't act like that. I don't think.
 
musclemom said:
Yo! My husband Looooovvvvvesss VW Beetles! He was the freaking manager of the used car repair dept. in a VW dealership like 100 years ago or something (he's 58, who the fuck counts after three decades ...) Dude fucking whimpers when he sees old Beetles for sale, wish I could afford one for him ... however, I totally admit we're both a pair of misplaced hippies :whatever:

Okay, back to you. You have a homebody/routine guy whose pushing you away when things get serious/close ... Survey Says: "INTIMACY ISSUES."

IOW, everything is getting too close/real and once upon a time his safety zone was violated (some bitch cheated on him or lied to him, shit like that). He has problems with complete trust. When he gets close he goes into freak mode.

Call him on it and have a serious talk, ain't nothing else you can do. He'll realize what he's doing or he'll deny-deny-deny and it'll be the death of you two, but if you don't fix it it'll be a permanent habit, seriously. I mean, look how bitter WooToom is, you wanna be with that for a couple of decades?

He might recognize/admit what's going on and want to fix it ... a couple sessions with a couples counselor could knock that shit out real fast if he's agreeable.
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I gotta 1970 super beetle I will sell ya. :)
 
The reason we are the way we are is due to the fact women are confusing. So we are usually speechless cause we don't know what to say without getting in trouble, just sayin

oh and MM, funny stuff about woot still being bitter, hahaha

cindylou said:
My opinion is notice it, take a mental note and watch for patterns. Notice the times it happens and try to avoid it by making him feel super comfortable when you can tell you're close to the peak of his "closeness" or whatever. Sometimes if you bring it up it just seems drama-ish..."why aren't you talking to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee" what's wrong questions, etc and above all else, I try not to take it personally. Like MM said, talking probably won't do anything anyway, most men can't express what's going on in their heads like that, I don't know how to explain it...not very aware of why they do what they do. Lol

Sometimes you can avoid it, sometimes you can't and you're stuck doing that dance for the entire relationship. I need more consistency and emotional depth with this stuff because I'm sensitive to it, too. I've got to have a guy that knows what he is thinking. Lol. I can't handle push/pull or hot/cold. If it starts to feel like a roller coaster, I'm out. Been there done that, stayed on the ride too long when I wanted off. Lol

I mean, hell. I've been through some stuff, and I don't act like that. I don't think.
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It's not just men, it's human nature. People want what they can't have.

LEt me put it this way. I guarantee that if I told you there's no way you can get with this guy, he's too good for you, you'll kill yourself to get with him to prove to yourself and me that you can...because of your ego and because he's unreachable....woman are sosoo like that it's not even an argument.
 
the_alcatraz said:
It's not just men, it's human nature. People want what they can't have.

LEt me put it this way. I guarantee that if I told you there's no way you can get with this guy, he's too good for you, you'll kill yourself to get with him to prove to yourself and me that you can...because of your ego and because he's unreachable....woman are sosoo like that it's not even an argument.
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Not my ego! And no one is too good for me, maybe not compatible, but never not too good.
If some guy would not want me, I'm not interested in the chase.

I'm a grown up ass muthafucking woman ;-)
 
musclemom said:
Yo! My husband Looooovvvvvesss VW Beetles! He was the freaking manager of the used car repair dept. in a VW dealership like 100 years ago or something (he's 58, who the fuck counts after three decades ...) Dude fucking whimpers when he sees old Beetles for sale, wish I could afford one for him ... however, I totally admit we're both a pair of misplaced hippies :whatever:

Okay, back to you. You have a homebody/routine guy whose pushing you away when things get serious/close ... Survey Says: "INTIMACY ISSUES."

IOW, everything is getting too close/real and once upon a time his safety zone was violated (some bitch cheated on him or lied to him, shit like that). He has problems with complete trust. When he gets close he goes into freak mode.

Call him on it and have a serious talk, ain't nothing else you can do. He'll realize what he's doing or he'll deny-deny-deny and it'll be the death of you two, but if you don't fix it it'll be a permanent habit, seriously. I mean, look how bitter WooToom is, you wanna be with that for a couple of decades?

He might recognize/admit what's going on and want to fix it ... a couple sessions with a couples counselor could knock that shit out real fast if he's agreeable.
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I've called him on it. Told him a few times the push/pull is off the wall. He says he doesn't even realize he's doing it.

Woot....hahah!

Not been with him long enough for couples therapy and really not that deep into the relationship that I would even consider it.
I have to keep the majority of my focus on work.

But I think you nailed it;he has major trust issues
:rose:
 
blueta2 said:
It seems like when men want a woman, they pull out all the stops, but once they "get her", they pull away!
Then when the woman pulls away, the guy is all over here again!

What is this about? How do you make it stop?!
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Bc you put out now theres nothing tobe curious about.

Time to tap the next piece of ass!

Thought this was a no brainer!
 
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