Why are men like this?!

[princesa]

Yup. That's the old brain making us want to hit it.

What most women don't understand is that our old brain isn't that smart. Even stupid things like outfits, wigs and really poor role play can trick it. There are obvious exceptions, but there's no reason an average girl can't keep the average guy interested in her physically forever.

Sex isn't the issue here. If he wasn't sexually satisfied he wouldn't come back after she pulls away. This is what we are trying to make sense of.

 

[EarthRider]

read some books on relationships

this is natural

at times we will be really close to you, others we just pull away and want to be left alone. It's just a cycle that doesn't mean anything. If you notice he is pulling away for a little bit, he will come back and be crazy again.

wait, oh, he's cheating on you!!!

 

[PICK3]

read some books on relationships

this is natural

at times we will be really close to you, others we just pull away and want to be left alone. It's just a cycle that doesn't mean anything. If you notice he is pulling away for a little bit, he will come back and be crazy again.

wait, oh, he's cheating on you!!!

Thank you, Dr. Phil!

 

[PICK3]

properly executed mind fucks make me want to smoke a cig afterwards too!

^^^
feel free to use this as your sig material

 

[EarthRider]

Thank you, Dr. Phil!

I did add he's cheating on her, that's knot Dr. Phil like right?

 

[AFeedz]

No, that's not it.
We care about one another, but we've both been through some major shitty relationships and have these walls.

My point wasn't that one of you cares less, I was just commenting that it's not always the man who's confusingly hot and cold.

 

[blueta2]

well i dont really date anymore if you read my other tread youd see but men usually act like that because.he realizes shes not interested no more and that in his mind make him go into chase mood ..its kinda like a push pull thing

like a kid once he gets a lets say game he plays it and beats it right? then he doesn't play it again,that doesn't mean he doesn't like or does not want that game that just means that some how along the way he lost something that motivated him to play that game,but if we take that game away he will do whatever it is to get it back to replay it,and it becomes like hes playing it for the first time..

you like this guy?you want him?

these are some hints ok

if yall go back out on a date or whatever first dress really sexy

be playfull every time he goes to kiss you or something like that dont let him do a playful umm whats the word?do a playful not yet type of thing ex.He goes to kiss you turn your head and say something like slow down tiger ,we have to finish dinner first or some other bullshit..would be called a neg but lets not get into all that

the whole idea is to get him to chase you


and when he goes to do something not let him,then youll reward him by something..complement.anything that makes you show interest then you push him back,then show interest and basically repeat





thats just one way you can use psychology to your advantage,,,if you disagree then disrgard what i said

I agree on certain aspect. I've been with this guy on and off for 10 months but serious for 3 months. So we don't "date".


And Spart, he's 43....only 3 yrs younger than me, but aren't most men mentally teenagers anyway ;-)

 

[PICK3]

I did add he's cheating on her, that's knot Dr. Phil like right?

from you I'd say Mo like

going to Walmart to get "essentials"



fml!

 

[blueta2]

I'd love to believe your theory lol but in reality someone Always has the upper hand.

True!

 

[PICK3]

I agree on certain aspect. I've been with this guy on and off for 10 months but serious for 3 months. So we don't "date".


And Spart, he's 43....only 3 yrs younger than me, but aren't most men mentally teenagers anyway ;-)

men's chronological age means dick