Why are men like this?!

[blueta2]

simple to fix, the man has to stop giving the woman everything she says she wants.. and thus she's the one always wanting..

and the man has to be willing to take back the power, sounds simple but we are a slave to the penis, the trick is to make the woman the slave to the penis and then the man will feel secure and thus all is good.

I'm already a slave to the penis ;-)
It's not about power for me. Men don't give me what I want, I think we give each other a little of what we both want.
The transfer of power seems odd. I like to be equal, but maybe that's not realistic?
I was in an 11 yr relationship where there were no games.
It just was, it was easy, but we were kids (in our 20's) with no baggage. I think baggage brings these walls where power needs to be utilized!

 

[Spartacus]

no the slug is fucked.

what do I make out the check for?

 

[blueta2]

In these cases blue,it's obvious the two were most likely not meant for one another IMO.
No need for chasing or games when two are on the same page

Not sure they are games as much as insecurities. I don't play games and never chase or need to be chased!
Could be some are not meant to be, but who really can say

 

[Arabian]

Not sure they are games as much as insecurities. I don't play games and never chase or need to be chased!
Could be some are not meant to be, but who really can say

^^Exactly, people play entirely to many games when dating..

 

[Spartacus]

Not sure they are games as much as insecurities. I don't play games and never chase or need to be chased!
Could be some are not meant to be, but who really can say

all I need to know is that usage of an exclamation point

 

[Spartacus]

so nonchalent blah blah I'm above this simpleton crap blal blah
but here listen up you tools!!!

 

[Spartacus]

pdaddyii put her over in category C

 

[blueta2]

Just my personal opinion, there are guys who are into the hunt, other guys are more homebodies/relationship types. For a "hunter" the chase is almost as much fun (sometimes more) than the "kill" and the game stops being half as fun once the goal is achieved

I'd suspect the one way to keep a "hunter" interested is to keep some mystery/surprise and consider incorporating role playing games (y'know, you dress different, wear a wig and meet at a bar, shit like that).

Frankly, I think it's easier to find a homebody type who likes routine

Oh man, my BF is a major homebody and loves routine! He is all about routine! He hates to date and loves to be comfy!
He doesn't give up easy on things. His last relationship, he was not happy and tried over and over to make it work.

He's so used to passive women so not sure he can handle me. He keeps saying "you need some guy who likes to sip tea, who doesn't eat gluten and who is a vegan who meditates in a Volkswagon beetle, I'm too rough a man for you"
Nowwwwwwwwwwwww, anyone who knows me, knows I love a spiritual guy who likes tea, but any man who drives a beetle, has the geigh!
He knows I love the muscled, tattooed bad boys who love metal music and works out at the gym and who can throw me around a little.
I think he is worried I'm going to leave him so he puts a wall up a little, hence the push/pull.

Who knows, but I see this often, even with my gf's and their men!

 

[Spartacus]

category C is full spart

what's category D look like?
fuck we always have to deal with category C

 

[TableFun]

Oh man, my BF is a major homebody and loves routine! He is all about routine! He hates to date and loves to be comfy!
He doesn't give up easy on things. His last relationship, he was not happy and tried over and over to make it work.

He's so used to passive women so not sure he can handle me. He keeps saying "you need some guy who likes to sip tea, who doesn't eat gluten and who is a vegan who meditates in a Volkswagon beetle, I'm too rough a man for you"
Nowwwwwwwwwwwww, anyone who knows me, knows I love a spiritual guy who likes tea, but any man who drives a beetle, has the geigh!
He knows I love the muscled, tattooed bad boys who loves metal music and works out at the gym and who can throw me around a little.
I think he is worried I'm going to leave him so he puts a wall up a little, hence the push/pull.

Who knows, but I see this often, even with my gf's and their men!

Volkswagen