Who thinks cheating is the shit?

[redsamurai]

mind if I ask about the extramarital affair website in your sig?

How THE HELL did this thread get bumped back to the top?

I dont condone cheating for the record. I have never cheated on anyone but I have been cheated on, yet I do not have trust issues. I dont believe that ALL MEN are scum, only those two that I knew of were.

I do understand how it is that life can become complicated and how good people can make bad decisions and I advise peeps I know against it. However, if someone WANTS to cheat there is not a damned thing their partner can do about it.

 

[mobro]

i did it, have for years, but i am not proud of it. i am going through a divorce right now bwcause of it. i am married to a very sweet woman but we don't connect. i went out and happen to run into someone that i do connect with, been with her 3 years now. i think i beat myself up over my marriage everyday. i don't regret meeting my girl but i do regret hurting my current wife, man do i regret it. as far as karma, i got it bros, nobody had to give it to me either. i do it to myself by trying to live with it everyday not to mention the family issues it has caused. i have been cussed by just about everybody at this point, i hope. it is not worth it. no idea what all it could cause. i bet some guys, and woman, on here know what i mean.

 

[Jimsbbc]

Fuck that. Seriously, my wife is going to have to suffer for years before she gets an excuse to pull the ejection handle. I would take the get out of jail free card though. I can understand those who do it out of bitter resentment for being refused sexually for years on end. I'm not saying it's right, but I do understand.

 

[seaking420]

i did it, have for years, but i am not proud of it. i am going through a divorce right now bwcause of it. i am married to a very sweet woman but we don't connect. i went out and happen to run into someone that i do connect with, been with her 3 years now. i think i beat myself up over my marriage everyday. i don't regret meeting my girl but i do regret hurting my current wife, man do i regret it. as far as karma, i got it bros, nobody had to give it to me either. i do it to myself by trying to live with it everyday not to mention the family issues it has caused. i have been cussed by just about everybody at this point, i hope. it is not worth it. no idea what all it could cause. i bet some guys, and woman, on here know what i mean.

Maybe In the end it is best for you. What I mean is that you probably really didnt want to be with your wife, but you feel terrible to hurt her like that. You might be happier once all of this settles down

 

[mobro]

i hope you are right. i think my wife is a great person. \i just don't think that I am in love with her, if ever. I hope i am happier. it has to get better than this. i hope i don't always beat myself up over hurting her like i have. and i hope she don't always hate me for it. thanks man

 

[seaking420]

i hope you are right. i think my wife is a great person. \i just don't think that I am in love with her, if ever. I hope i am happier. it has to get better than this. i hope i don't always beat myself up over hurting her like i have. and i hope she don't always hate me for it. thanks man

A friend of mine is in a similar situation as yourself. His thoughts were that he loves his wife, but is not "in-love" with her, so it makes it that much more difficult. Plus he has a child with her too.

 

[mobro]

dang man, do i know you? if not i feel for the guy. i know exactly where he is coming from.

 

[Faizakafez]

you cant cheat if you dont have gf

 

[glover]

It's just sex. A physical act. Most people cheat. The stats prove it so why get so upset. Stay with your partner and cheat together.

 

[Mickey36]

Cheating shows no loyalty.