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satchboogie
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"i dont want you to grow anymore.. i like you just the way you are.. anything bigger wouldnt be attractive anymore"
wtf is that all about???
wtf is that all about???
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Citruscide
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many women don't prefer guys who are extremely large.
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dinoallbino
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Shit don't sweat it Bro.
Every time I run a cycle I hear that shit. Then I say
"Really? Well if its so unattractive why do you still gawke at any fuckstick with arms bigger than mine?"
Thats just a girl being a girl Bro. I saw your picks you posted, you look good, not abnormal. And even if there was a little truth to it, who cares if she'd prefer you to be a little smaller, aren't you trying to grow to make yourself happy anyway. If she's a good enough girl to stay with she should be happy with what makes you happy. Thats like her wanting to drop 5 pounds and you saying not to because she'll look too skinny.
Every time I run a cycle I hear that shit. Then I say
"Really? Well if its so unattractive why do you still gawke at any fuckstick with arms bigger than mine?"
Thats just a girl being a girl Bro. I saw your picks you posted, you look good, not abnormal. And even if there was a little truth to it, who cares if she'd prefer you to be a little smaller, aren't you trying to grow to make yourself happy anyway. If she's a good enough girl to stay with she should be happy with what makes you happy. Thats like her wanting to drop 5 pounds and you saying not to because she'll look too skinny.
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satchboogie
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thats the whole point..
she thinks i'm just fine the way i am.
doesnt want me to add any mass.
the funny thing is that she actually likes the extra fat.
i showed her a pic at 7% bf and she liked me better now.. weird!
she thinks i'm just fine the way i am.
doesnt want me to add any mass.
the funny thing is that she actually likes the extra fat.
i showed her a pic at 7% bf and she liked me better now.. weird!
dinoallbino
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Well Bro, how bad do you wanna grow I guess.
If you can be as happy with your current size as she is then just stay natural. OR, you could do it without her knowing. WHen I put on a few pounds from my cutter in the spring, I'm just gonna tell my girl that I only look bigger because I'm more defined.
Guess it all depends on how cool you or her one is with compromise. Still though Bro, I say do what makes you happy, she should be able to respect that, knowing you would do the same for her.
If you can be as happy with your current size as she is then just stay natural. OR, you could do it without her knowing. WHen I put on a few pounds from my cutter in the spring, I'm just gonna tell my girl that I only look bigger because I'm more defined.
Guess it all depends on how cool you or her one is with compromise. Still though Bro, I say do what makes you happy, she should be able to respect that, knowing you would do the same for her.
Simple
Simple, cut her from the team!
My significant other says Arnold in his bb'ing prime, "looks gross". No accounting for taste.
I only dream I that could ever look as good as Arnold or Zane.
Simple, cut her from the team!
My significant other says Arnold in his bb'ing prime, "looks gross". No accounting for taste.
I only dream I that could ever look as good as Arnold or Zane.
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satchboogie
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yeah radar..
and keep in mind that she's totally into 'natural' ways.
that means no anything artificial period!
damnit.. where's my needle. lol.
and keep in mind that she's totally into 'natural' ways.
that means no anything artificial period!
damnit.. where's my needle. lol.
Dr. M
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satchboogie said:
Tell her that's fine... you won't allow your penis to get any bigger. But you're still going to add muscle mass and use the gear!
Seriously though, my girl gives me that all the time, especially a couple months ago... then, a month later (i.e. 3 weeks ago) when I go on a bulker, she tells me how good I'm looking and can't get enough good lovin.
Go figure bro...
Don't worry about it - she'll still find you attractive. You've got a good bod, and she'll see how size can come together for a bro and really make him look top-notch.
-M
sh4dowf4lcon
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Word on what BigAndy69 just said...too much muscle gets too many girls...
Nighthawkk
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BigAndy69 said:
True dat
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satchboogie
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BIGANDY for president!
check your mail bro.
check your mail bro.
Re: Re: when the girlfriend says....
Or you could take her in your arms, tell her you love her and that you are trying to look and feel your best for her, and only her. "I love you baby, I'm doing this for you, your approval and love means a lot to me (hold chin with two fingers, plant slow kiss). Now go make me a sandwich. That's right, no mayo, you're a star baby!"
liftshard said:
Or you could take her in your arms, tell her you love her and that you are trying to look and feel your best for her, and only her. "I love you baby, I'm doing this for you, your approval and love means a lot to me (hold chin with two fingers, plant slow kiss). Now go make me a sandwich. That's right, no mayo, you're a star baby!"
bowling ball nutz
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yup big andy hit the nail on the head, they want you fat and underfined, because when u get bigger and you cut up, ohh the attention you will attract
had the same problem with my ex, she didnt want me bigger, doesnt make since, she had fake titties, lol I had to be bigger anyway to keep guys from gawking at her, lol
had the same problem with my ex, she didnt want me bigger, doesnt make since, she had fake titties, lol I had to be bigger anyway to keep guys from gawking at her, lol
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satchboogie
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BIGANDY IS A PLAYBOY!
GOT MAD MACKKING SKILLS YO..
GOT MAD MACKKING SKILLS YO..
Toozee
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I feel like one lucky bastard.
Me and my wife were watching the Mr. O the other night.
She asks, "Do you not want to get that big, or does it just take a long time?"
She already knows about the training and the mass food intake and all that. I told her it takes years of training and I also told her about the gear. Also that I'm not doing gear....yet.
She says, " You would look good that big.....that would be cool."
I fell in love all over again....lol.
Me and my wife were watching the Mr. O the other night.
She asks, "Do you not want to get that big, or does it just take a long time?"
She already knows about the training and the mass food intake and all that. I told her it takes years of training and I also told her about the gear. Also that I'm not doing gear....yet.
She says, " You would look good that big.....that would be cool."
I fell in love all over again....lol.
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Goldprospector
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My wife tells me not to get any bigger...but she says it would be ok to "tone up" I guess she means cut....I don't give a Fuck...Next Mass cycle starts late Dec or early Jan..hehhehe Gotta get bigger!!!!!!!!!!!!!
silver_shadow
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hey BA69, i bet u tell that to every hot babe!
j/k
but women- who can understand them- my previous girl bugged me abt being skinny till i started training. then i was 5'10 133. she used to give me the line abt vin diesel being what a man should be. then when i reached 180 abt 14-15mths later she said that i was too huge!
j/k
but women- who can understand them- my previous girl bugged me abt being skinny till i started training. then i was 5'10 133. she used to give me the line abt vin diesel being what a man should be. then when i reached 180 abt 14-15mths later she said that i was too huge!
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lartinos
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Yeah, my GF says the same shit and I'm not that big at all. She just isn't into fit guys really. I think it is partially from her own laziness. She feels the pressure to look good. I love my GF, but having a GF who is a work-out freak like me would be awesome.
supertech69
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My fiance says the same thing but, the funny thing is as I keep getting bigger she keeps saying, I like you just the way you are, even at 40lbs heavier than when I met her.
houseofpain
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According to a recent study that was circulating through several major news sources a few months ago, Men and Women have different perceptions of the perfectly sculpted male body.
The men interviewed thought they looked good (on average) at 20 to 30 pounds heavier than what the average female found attractive.
And while most men liked to have big biceps and or chests, they found that most women weren't attracted to those aspects of a man's physique as much as they were to buns and abs.
Not to say I haven't heard the "...you're getting too big" thing either. But it's just something to think about when you're letting your abs slide so that you can get concentrate on getting another plate on your maximum bench.
The men interviewed thought they looked good (on average) at 20 to 30 pounds heavier than what the average female found attractive.
And while most men liked to have big biceps and or chests, they found that most women weren't attracted to those aspects of a man's physique as much as they were to buns and abs.
Not to say I haven't heard the "...you're getting too big" thing either. But it's just something to think about when you're letting your abs slide so that you can get concentrate on getting another plate on your maximum bench.
bicepts101
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BigAndy69 said:
Andy hit it right on the money here
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DelCastillo
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Sorry, bro. That should read, "Most of the times chicks love you "just the way THEY THINK you are"...
You believe anything else, you're dreaming!
You believe anything else, you're dreaming!
majutsu
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My wife says every month, "You're big enough now. I love you just the way you are." So I get bigger, and two months later she "loves me just the way [I am]". So I told her, "You know I'm going to be a freak, but the way it's sneaking up on you, you'll think it's normal." Big Andy has some great points on the way
Heahy Minister
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Different strokes for different folks.
I know a girl who likes her men to have a little bit of a gut to them. Some girls prefer more "manly men", and when you are all ripped and shredded that makes you look a bit more "pretty". Some women dig the big, burly, rough hands type.
I have a lady friend who commented on how soft my hands were (I lotion them up and take great care of them all the time). I told her holding weights make my hands too rough and then the skin peels and I get calluses etc, then she says she likes it nice and rough and likes the rough skin to scratch her. lol
I know a girl who likes her men to have a little bit of a gut to them. Some girls prefer more "manly men", and when you are all ripped and shredded that makes you look a bit more "pretty". Some women dig the big, burly, rough hands type.
I have a lady friend who commented on how soft my hands were (I lotion them up and take great care of them all the time). I told her holding weights make my hands too rough and then the skin peels and I get calluses etc, then she says she likes it nice and rough and likes the rough skin to scratch her. lol
MassiveG300
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BigAndy69 said:
Btw guys, once you figure out women, life is much easier
Anyone male that ever does the above will be a trillionare.....the great mystery of the universe...WOMEN.
Back to the topic at hand...
She doesn't want you to get anymore attention than you already do...
satchboogie said:
Dude, psych 101..... she doesn't want you to look to good as there might be competition for her. I love big tits but don't want my wife to have them since the guys would look. I tell her I like them med to small. Yeah right..... Why do you actually think she wants you to be a little fatter? Easy to figure that one out despite what she says. We all lie to woman to benefit ourselves. Do what makes you feel right she will continue to like/love you she just doesn't want you to look too good. I get the same thing. Women stare at me when I wear tee-shirts, my wife hates it.
bodytemple75
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Girls don't know what they want... You have to "tell them!"
They are all nuts.
I would never let a girl dictate to me how I was "supposed" to look.'
I love my gf, she gets on my nerves at times,....but when I hear anything about stay the same size in a conversation, by anyone close to me,... That's when I really put in the extra effort to try to get even bigger! But,...gf/she is pretty cool with it. I think she likes the big look. It's when they all get together, you always have that one "bitch" friend who fucks all their heads up, (with what is supposedly in "style-look")and turns them all damn nuts.
I told my gf,...I want to get hyugge. She is cool tho. She knows, even if she was not,...I would do it anyway.
Funny thing tho..... male strippers. A lot of these bros are pretty huge (ones I know) and women pay to gawk at them. Weird huh?... Women are just insecure,...at least a big majority that really push this issue till' exaustion. IMO.
They are all nuts.
I would never let a girl dictate to me how I was "supposed" to look.'
I love my gf, she gets on my nerves at times,....but when I hear anything about stay the same size in a conversation, by anyone close to me,... That's when I really put in the extra effort to try to get even bigger! But,...gf/she is pretty cool with it. I think she likes the big look. It's when they all get together, you always have that one "bitch" friend who fucks all their heads up, (with what is supposedly in "style-look")and turns them all damn nuts.
I told my gf,...I want to get hyugge. She is cool tho. She knows, even if she was not,...I would do it anyway.
Funny thing tho..... male strippers. A lot of these bros are pretty huge (ones I know) and women pay to gawk at them. Weird huh?... Women are just insecure,...at least a big majority that really push this issue till' exaustion. IMO.
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magman1
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it mighta been said, i didnt read all the way through, but the bigger/sexier you are...more likely you are to stray! fuck her! keep goin!satchboogie said:"i dont want you to grow anymore.. i like you just the way you are.. anything bigger wouldnt be attractive anymore"
wtf is that all about???
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