What would you do if you walked in on your wife with another man?

[rocky_road]

Im glad I found out. I had a bad feeling one night so i went over to her house late to talk to her. I figured Id suprise her( I DID!!!)
we were buying a house together(in fact im living in it by myself right now..

LOL AWESOME!!

Now you have space AND independence, which I looove personally!

 

[sublime35]

Im glad I found out. I had a bad feeling one night so i went over to her house late to talk to her. I figured Id suprise her( I DID!!!)
we were buying a house together(in fact im living in it by myself right now..

I would be too. Better than being "happily" married for 5-10 years and come home early one day to find out. I think i would be destroyed. It's happened twice and tis why I'm gun shy about getting involved with someone.

 

[Aerojaxx]

It is a senerario I pray I never visit...I have no idea WHAT I would do. I like to believe I would be smart enough to know there was something going on and that the element of surprise would not be part of the equation...

 

[Recruit]

You will know if it ever happens because it will be all over the news!!!

 

[Wulfgar]

LOL AWESOME!!

Now you have space AND independence, which I looove personally!

Agreed...its really nice...Im so happy I did not give up the house

It was also nice to move about 100 miles away from everything attached to her..lol


but i agree about the gunshy thing...taught me alot....im still trusting but ive learned to listen to my instincts much more

 

[WarriorPL]

I'd ask the guy to leave... if he refused... i'd beat the living HELL out of him. After he left... or got his ass kicked... i'd tell the bitch it's over. I don't give second chances.

 

[Wulfgar]

It comes into your mind when you think about "beating the guy up"....what are you fighting for? To get her back? pride? trust me guys both arnt very good reasons

if anyone finds themself in that spot please be the bigger person and just walk away. Trust me on this because NOTHING you do will fix what happened, it will just degrade yourself and tear you down emotionally and ethically. there is more to being a man then "beating people up" for revenge.


just my .02

 

[Saintinistic]

I was with my mate when he (and I too) walked in on his wife and this other guy. I had my camera on me and took photos of the beating. it meant that even though things got nasty in court, no mention of that beating came out, as my mate would post them up on his ex-wifes school wall (she is a teacher at a catholic school). the picks showed wine bottles, nudity, blood and one beat up dude.

 

[TC2]

Depends, on the situation, I'm old school and if say it was at a motel room, I'd do nothing but go home pack her shit and she'd be dead to me.

If I walked in on them in my house,in my bed.....I'd chop up both of them and make sure they were never found.

 

[pdaddy]

It comes into your mind when you think about "beating the guy up"....what are you fighting for? To get her back? pride? trust me guys both arnt very good reasons

if anyone finds themself in that spot please be the bigger person and just walk away. Trust me on this because NOTHING you do will fix what happened, it will just degrade yourself and tear you down emotionally and ethically. there is more to being a man then "beating people up" for revenge.


just my .02

I agree with this 100%, beating the guy up just wouldn't be worth it.