What method do you use to meet/hook up with chicks in clubs and bars?

[iHulk]

Everytime I go into a bar I walk out in utter disgust. Problem is I go into the places with the intention of having a good time and possibly meeting someone at the very least. I always start to pyche myself up before I go in and tell myself if I don't meet any chicks its not the end of the world. This method always fails miserably everytime. After about three hours of standing in the same fuckin place it gets to old. So I'm not really what you would call shy but I sure as shit am not going to approach women that don't give me a glance for obvious reasons {there with boyfriend, friends, lesbians}. Now heres the real kicker, I notice the fat ugly motherfuckers with some of the hottest women in the place. This bewilders me everytime. I'm not the next Brad Pitt but I'm sure as hell not ugly either. This is what gets me. So I just console myself in the knowledge that this is just a bad night and reinforces why I detest the opposite sex so much . But problem is, it happens every fucking night. Any advice?

I cannot believe what I am reading for responses!

Bro, its all attitude. Doesn't matter what you look like. Although I'm sure your physique is way better than average if your on this site to begin with...

How you carry yourself is the only thing that will matter. Not saying that if you are a fat slob and dress like a clown that you'll pull chicks (although you never know in this fucked up world) but if you are proud to be who who are, it will give off an aura of confidence and chicks will be on your dick like flies on shit. Smile and act like you are on excasty and that you don't give a rat's ass bout any chick .. but SMILE at every single one of them (all of them!) and its gonna be a world of "T" and "A" for you.

 

[habitualhealth]

lines don't work, don't comment on a girls ass, her tits.. say she has a nice smile or eyes.. maybe then she will talk 2 u. i always make a point not to give guys in clubs time of day.. most only want one thing.. and they ain't gettin it.

sometimes girls are stuck up bitches because they have been bothered way too much

ditto ditto ditto...

...of course, just walking up and saying "you'll do" makes quite the impression.

 

[AristotleBC]

Ewww... no way I would date a fat guy, even if he has alot of money. If you are 1. cute, 2. dress nice, 3. take care of yourself and 4. can dance really good... and 5. you have to be really sweet, you MIGHT get my number at a club.

"might"

i bet you're a lot of fun

acting stuck up like a super-desired female might act doesn't actually make you a super-desired female.


women thinkers

 

[showtime2004]

you would be surprised how well a "hi, how are you" and a smile works.

It sounds simple but just being friendly works wonders. I've had good luck with it. However, the endless supply of coke hasn't hurt either.

 

[skookum]

Go ask the one of the girls "if she would like to dance" & if she agrees, you're in. If she says "no thank you " use the retort, "you must have misunderstood me, I said you look fat in those pants." Works like a charm...

 

[airborne83]

damn that was funny lol

 

[Tomek.. The HULK]

Everytime I go into a bar I walk out in utter disgust. Problem is I go into the places with the intention of having a good time and possibly meeting someone at the very least. I always start to pyche myself up before I go in and tell myself if I don't meet any chicks its not the end of the world. This method always fails miserably everytime. After about three hours of standing in the same fuckin place it gets to old. So I'm not really what you would call shy but I sure as shit am not going to approach women that don't give me a glance for obvious reasons {there with boyfriend, friends, lesbians}. Now heres the real kicker, I notice the fat ugly motherfuckers with some of the hottest women in the place. This bewilders me everytime. I'm not the next Brad Pitt but I'm sure as hell not ugly either. This is what gets me. So I just console myself in the knowledge that this is just a bad night and reinforces why I detest the opposite sex so much . But problem is, it happens every fucking night. Any advice?

I think of it this way...
ME: 264p
her: 150p
ME: confident male
her: un-known female
Before i start take into fact that she will not hurt you only thing she could do is lower your self esteem, the key point is not to make anything obvious eg; relief after she acepts you to dance or rejection after she says no.

What you got to do is have self esteem, build it up and use it... Even if this self esteem is for a start brought up by XTC or alcohol do it.. once you get used to the fact of having such high a self esteem you will start talking to anyone you like. May be a bit diferent here but many a occasion i found my self with a chick on my lap and talking up her friend i think nothing off it, i work hard on weights and i work hard on my social status.
So what if you get knocked down a few times you always live to explore another club, you have to take in the fact that most of the time it is you who will have to introduce yourself and start a conversation and she's the one who is in control of how everything will be shaping out...

To be honest club girls ain't all that

Good luck with it bro..

 

[Tomek.. The HULK]

i dance and dance well......that usually get's the chicks lubed up.

Fuck Australians are good dancers

 

[cityhick]

Honestly I aint no fuckin stud. aint ripped to shreds. And I dont have much money. But if you buy a girl a drink and dont hang all over her and talk to her with respect. It usally goes pretty well. And if they dont give you the time of day....fuckin forget about her. Its all about game. Although havin a nice body doesnt hurt. And having lots of coke only helps you with the whores.... so I guess it depends on what you are looking for.

 

[SgtSlaughter]

I'm sick of meeting chicks in clubs and bars.

1: They usually go there 3-4 times a week, the "usuals"
2. I don't want a #1 because she'll be there with my friends while i'm at the gym.
3. Booze and best friends turn bad no matter how good of friends you are with "your boys."


If one was trying to meet chicks at a bar or club... walk in like you own the place; that type of confidence goes very far. But pretending to own it is quite different, and being cocky isn't a plus most of the time... it's a self confidence that comes with practice and true self love. And not in a bad way... it's hard to explain, once you've got it... it's easy to pick the crowd and find girls you want to talk to, ect. Done it many times in my undergrad college days.