What method do you use to meet/hook up with chicks in clubs and bars?

[PlateheadJim]

I cannot believe what I am reading for responses!

Bro, its all attitude. Doesn't matter what you look like. Although I'm sure your physique is way better than average if your on this site to begin with...

How you carry yourself is the only thing that will matter. Not saying that if you are a fat slob and dress like a clown that you'll pull chicks (although you never know in this fucked up world) but if you are proud to be who who are, it will give off an aura of confidence and chicks will be on your dick like flies on shit. Smile and act like you are on excasty and that you don't give a rat's ass bout any chick .. but SMILE at every single one of them (all of them!) and its gonna be a world of "T" and "A" for you.

Amen - it's always the attitude. I don't give a shit about being liked or not and it's a non-stop buffet for me.... When I actually give a shit about getting a particular chick then I'm usually toast.

 

[Dr. K]

Just go and have a good time. Try dancing. Your probably not half as bad as you think you are. If you are... dance next to somebody who is worse.

The ladies are interested in someone who is having a good time and enjoying himself. On the other hand If your looking for a crackwhore... by all means go with the other advice...

Solid advice here dude!!!

 

[jumpshot]

I'm not readin this whole thing, but you're the type of guy I love to compete with in bars. Me and a wingman (a good one) always slay it. It's not hard, you just gotta pick the right spot, and run shit. Know the bartender, get beers tossed to you without asking. Laugh, amile, have fun, talk to your friends. That kind of energy is magnetic. Groups of bitches just kinda ease over when you're the center of the fun people.

If you don't have that and you're a wallflower just sipping a beer looking at people with your back in a corner, probably going to be a rough night.

 

[advanced-stealth]

Very true.

if you shine in three departments you can have any chick:
1. physically
2. emotionally (confindence initally)
3. finacially

 

[Hybridtheory2o]

I feel your pain bro and I actually went backwards. Growing up I didnt care what women thought of me. Me and my bro would go anywhere and just talk to women and say w/e we wanted. Sometimes we would double team a girl and both dance on her then her friends would come grab one of us or we would just dance with any girl we wanted.

I then actually started to care about the club girls and I used to try and go to a club lookin for a housewife. Not saying all club girls are ho's but most like to just go there in almost no clothing and dance and show off what they got which is ok and fun just dont necessarily try to make one of them your next gf you will bring home to ma.

Im still working on this because somehow i lost all my confidence lol might have been a few girls i dated that told me your not as good lookin as this guy or just stupid shit like that that beat me down over time.

What I try to do now is this..how would you pick up an ugly girl or a girl that you would never date and shes not that attractive or maybe she is decent lookin but you are just friends.

Then all of a sudden one of them usually ends up liking you right? Well I think about it like this..they start to like you and want to be around you more because you have confidence and you care but you dont seem desperate. You just go with the flow and have a good time and let things fall into place.

Like i said im still working on this but a few times recently ive noticed that if i act the same way around an attractive girl that i would around girls less attractive it works!

I swear girls can smell confidence and they love it when you have it but arent cocky but they are very turned off when you are cocky. Try looking at it like that man I have been and im starting to get back to where I was

We are young and clubs are there for us to meet women and have a good time. Get her number so you can meet up with her next time you go out with your boys but dont make the same mistake I did and go to clubs/bars thinking you are gunna find your next gf. Although it is possible its not very likely because they are there just like you to have fun.