Personally, I think a chick shouldn't have more one night stands then relationships w/sex. But that's just my opinion. I like to aim for chicks who've been with less then five. but really, I'd rather just not know how many guys a chicks been with. A guy who likes/loves a girl and asks her how many guys she's been with is like ordering a nice juicy steak, well prepared and just right, and right before jumping in, asks the waiter to give him details of how the cow was slaughtered. it's just stupid.