What do you think about threesomes

[feisty11975]

I say to each his own!!! I don't think I could do it but if its what someone wants and all parties are ok with it then have fun!!!

 

[Devastation]

i like em but it can break a relationship

 

[HiDnGoD]

I say to each his own!!! I don't think I could do it but if its what someone wants and all parties are ok with it then have fun!!!

I have a friend, she & her Hubby were married over 15 yrs. They have threesomes, both ways. They never thought they would do it either, but they stumbled into one. Now they've been at it for 5 years & here's what he said:
1. Always make sure your spouse is the focus.
2. Always leave with spouse.
3. Never say 'I love you' to the other person.
4. NEVER meet third person alone, unless it's the 2 ladies, or 2 guys.
5. If things start to get too hinky, end it. Your marriage comes first.

Actually I think they were hitting on us, but we're not ready for that right now. It is kind of tittilating(sp) to hear their stories though.

 

[rudeboyja]

have had a few & usually they have been a bit of a letdown because the lack of chemistry between the 2 ladies. & No it's not "slutty" for a wife or girlfriend to fulfill her fantasies of being with other women. 2 men & 1 woman is another story. Never done it & never will.

 

[Agathe]

2 men is where the tricks comes in for the women who think they have same rights as men

so if a man can be with 2 girls its cool but if a woman wants 2 cocks its wrong?

I definetly think its wrong thats why im sayin fuck threesoms all together.

 

[spongebob]

how did it get out of hand and complicated?

how is your relationship with your wife now? how about her and her friend?

well, in one way it was great to do her best friend because we knew she was clean and we were all comfortable. but being friends can lead to complications. the problem is, is that we didnt stop at one time. it slowly progressed into almost an everyweekend thing, or at least when we hung out.

it actually got to the point that she was really our girlfriend by all standards. i know now and people will tell me it shouldnt have come to that but when your in something like that you tend to take on all the characteristics of a real relationship. we were buying things for her, she wouldnt see anyone else, it just got real involved.

as much as the wife was going along with it you still cant erase all the emotions from it. like jealousy. even the girl was jealous of me and the wife if she thought we would see someone else. basically it developed into e relationship and all that comes with one.

me and my wife are fine, weve been married for 12yrs and weve both known this girl for even longer. we are all still best friends but it took work. we just spent the weekend with her and partied but no sex although i probably could have. we saw her for almost a year and had a blowout over something and took a long break from it. remained friends but it was uneasy. then we started seeing her more lately and have slept with her a couple of times.(including the time my wife, our friend and her cousin gave me a blow job) but thats another story.

right now we talked about getting back together or seeing her sexually but i dont think anything will come of it. there a hesitate to do that again. who knows though.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

I love em.. with another man or woman.. huge turn on and lots of fun. Im probably a lot more open minded than most people when it comes to sex though... so I would never expect many to be okay with it.

Swinging definitely isnt for everyone.. but once you get into it.. and maintain your boundries.. oh the fun you can have.

A lot of times we go to clubs and dont even hook up.. but the people are so easy going and the women are never catty to each other... thats HUGE.

My wife has really big, really nice tits.. and she gets a lot of dirty looks from women.. but in the lifestyle.. other woman are so non judgemental towards her and always so complimentary..

We love the lifestyle.. not just for the sex.. more for the people and how comfortable it is.

 

[aandd]

Before we were married, my husband bounced back between me and one other chick for a few years. He was always cheating on one of us. Recently, when he found out that I had participated in a bi experience a time or two, he casually mentioned a threesome. I told him that he used up all his chances way back then.

Honestly though... I wouldn't mind a threesome, just not until my kids are grown and out of the house. It's not worth risking their home life in case something went wrong and we couldn't pull our shit back together. We;ve fought too hard to make this relationship survive for our kids to just risk it on a wild night.

 

[SoKlueles]

dang sponge you went wild
i dont think i could handle watching my SO screw someone else

 

[Muscle Mafia]

too much relationship stress.