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What do you think about threesomes

Agathe

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I mean really think about it from both sides, male and female.
Do you think it's slutty if your girlfriend boyfriend wants to do it?

In my opinion, I could never share my girl that I care about with another guy and she thinks the same way if she had to share me.

However, what if you barely know the people and it's just for fun. I still think its slutty and I wouldnt enjoy it all that much.

What if your girl thinks that would be cool, would you label her a slut?





I'm bored and tried to look at it from both sides and kinda analyze it. I'm not gay I swear.
 
oh and can you please not move this yet... just want as much opinions on it cause Im kinda confused right now
 
tough to say. me and my wife slept with her best friend for over a year. the sex was awesome if you like having your way with two hotties. man talk about shit straight out the porn movies. a little x and some viagra and its on.

kind of got out of hand though and it can get too complicated and mess things up. beware.
 
spongebob said:
tough to say. me and my wife slept with her best friend for over a year. the sex was awesome if you like having your way with two hotties. man talk about shit straight out the porn movies. a little x and some viagra and its on.

kind of got out of hand though and it can get too complicated and mess things up. beware.

how did it get out of hand and complicated?

how is your relationship with your wife now? how about her and her friend?
 
I say to each his own!!! I don't think I could do it but if its what someone wants and all parties are ok with it then have fun!!!
 
FEISTY11975 said:
I say to each his own!!! I don't think I could do it but if its what someone wants and all parties are ok with it then have fun!!!

I have a friend, she & her Hubby were married over 15 yrs. They have threesomes, both ways. They never thought they would do it either, but they stumbled into one. Now they've been at it for 5 years & here's what he said:
1. Always make sure your spouse is the focus.
2. Always leave with spouse.
3. Never say 'I love you' to the other person.
4. NEVER meet third person alone, unless it's the 2 ladies, or 2 guys.
5. If things start to get too hinky, end it. Your marriage comes first.

Actually I think they were hitting on us, but we're not ready for that right now. It is kind of tittilating(sp) to hear their stories though.
 
have had a few & usually they have been a bit of a letdown because the lack of chemistry between the 2 ladies. & No it's not "slutty" for a wife or girlfriend to fulfill her fantasies of being with other women. 2 men & 1 woman is another story. Never done it & never will.
 
2 men is where the tricks comes in for the women who think they have same rights as men

so if a man can be with 2 girls its cool but if a woman wants 2 cocks its wrong?

I definetly think its wrong thats why im sayin fuck threesoms all together.
 
evansteve said:
how did it get out of hand and complicated?

how is your relationship with your wife now? how about her and her friend?

well, in one way it was great to do her best friend because we knew she was clean and we were all comfortable. but being friends can lead to complications. the problem is, is that we didnt stop at one time. it slowly progressed into almost an everyweekend thing, or at least when we hung out.

it actually got to the point that she was really our girlfriend by all standards. i know now and people will tell me it shouldnt have come to that but when your in something like that you tend to take on all the characteristics of a real relationship. we were buying things for her, she wouldnt see anyone else, it just got real involved.

as much as the wife was going along with it you still cant erase all the emotions from it. like jealousy. even the girl was jealous of me and the wife if she thought we would see someone else. basically it developed into e relationship and all that comes with one.

me and my wife are fine, weve been married for 12yrs and weve both known this girl for even longer. we are all still best friends but it took work. we just spent the weekend with her and partied but no sex although i probably could have. we saw her for almost a year and had a blowout over something and took a long break from it. remained friends but it was uneasy. then we started seeing her more lately and have slept with her a couple of times.(including the time my wife, our friend and her cousin gave me a blow job) but thats another story.

right now we talked about getting back together or seeing her sexually but i dont think anything will come of it. there a hesitate to do that again. who knows though.
 
I love em.. with another man or woman.. huge turn on and lots of fun. Im probably a lot more open minded than most people when it comes to sex though... so I would never expect many to be okay with it.

Swinging definitely isnt for everyone.. but once you get into it.. and maintain your boundries.. oh the fun you can have.

A lot of times we go to clubs and dont even hook up.. but the people are so easy going and the women are never catty to each other... thats HUGE.

My wife has really big, really nice tits.. and she gets a lot of dirty looks from women.. but in the lifestyle.. other woman are so non judgemental towards her and always so complimentary..

We love the lifestyle.. not just for the sex.. more for the people and how comfortable it is.
 
Before we were married, my husband bounced back between me and one other chick for a few years. He was always cheating on one of us. Recently, when he found out that I had participated in a bi experience a time or two, he casually mentioned a threesome. I told him that he used up all his chances way back then. :)

Honestly though... I wouldn't mind a threesome, just not until my kids are grown and out of the house. It's not worth risking their home life in case something went wrong and we couldn't pull our shit back together. We;ve fought too hard to make this relationship survive for our kids to just risk it on a wild night.
 
dang sponge you went wild
i dont think i could handle watching my SO screw someone else
 
aandd said:
Before we were married, my husband bounced back between me and one other chick for a few years. He was always cheating on one of us. Recently, when he found out that I had participated in a bi experience a time or two, he casually mentioned a threesome. I told him that he used up all his chances way back then. :)

Honestly though... I wouldn't mind a threesome, just not until my kids are grown and out of the house. It's not worth risking their home life in case something went wrong and we couldn't pull our shit back together. We;ve fought too hard to make this relationship survive for our kids to just risk it on a wild night.

Just send the kids to grandparents, or get a hotel. :qt:
 
SoKlueles said:
dang sponge you went wild
i dont think i could handle watching my SO screw someone else

If mine did it, both of them would be sooooooo, like, dead pretty quick.
 
I had this conversation with someone yesterday....I could do it with another guy..but I don't think I woud want to see him with someone else
 
AAP said:
If mine did it, both of them would be sooooooo, like, dead pretty quick.
yeah im thinkin no matter what i say, it wouldnt be ok
cuz once i saw it going on, i would probably stab them both
 
threesomes are ok to some people but i know personally that my hubby is mine...i am all set having him be with another broad...i think sex involves emotions and in my opinion it is meant for 1 man and 1 woman too share
 
A threesome is always great to look at (regardless of composition), but If I'm taking place (only did once), it has to be a FFM deal... not sword fighting here...
 
pintoca said:
A threesome is always great to look at (regardless of composition), but If I'm taking place (only did once), it has to be a FFM deal... not sword fighting here...
typical male
double standards :rolleyes:
 
Gymgurl said:
I had this conversation with someone yesterday....I could do it with another guy..but I don't think I woud want to see him with someone else

Wouldn't you like 2 men at your disposal? OMG think of what you could get them to do. All that dusting, vacuuming, cleaning bathrooms, shrub trimming. Oh, and lawn mowing. :qt:
 
hidngod said:
Wouldn't you like 2 men at your disposal? OMG think of what you could get them to do. All that dusting, vacuuming, cleaning bathrooms, shrub trimming. Oh, and lawn mowing. :qt:
:p
 
Darlings,

Uncle Freddie believes in what is in 100% in agreement by the couple. Personally, I would not have one with my partner that I care so much about - I think it kills the romance and transforms the relationship into a very much sex-based-only one. Now, if both parties agree, they should do it and have fun. But they should also be very certain of their feelings for each other and that no jealousy issues will come up.

As for anonymous or almost anonymous threesomes - they are OK in Freddie's book.
 
FEISTY11975 said:
Ever heard of that saying "To Each His Own"

I tell you what, if that's what you like then go for it!! Personally I only do 1 on 1...but that's my preference.

Oh so you weren't serious? :confused:

















lol J/k
 
I personally think threesomes are fine, if your relationship can handle it. Some, actually most, can't handle it. Most people are very jealous and when they actually see their SO with another person they can't handle it. If you are in a relationship where you both are really into it, it can be great. I have no problems sharing my woman with another woman, but have yet to share with a guy and don't think I could. I am not attracted to guys and would not have sexual relations with one but see nothing wrong with tag teaming a girl if it just sex. If that girl was my own, I don't think I could do that. After all I would be sharing mine and getting nothing in return. We have a married couple we are good friends with that my wife slept with his wife in front of us and I was comfortable with that. Now we are talking of swapping wifes, could be fun or could go terribley wrong. With a FFM, that would be great because my wife likes women anyway so she is benifiting the same as I am.
 
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