What do you do when a girl can't really have an orgasm?

[BileStew]

bro translate

What Carson would do after a good joke or the end of his monolgue. Followed up by Mcmahon's "Heeyyyyyyyyyoooooo".

 

[Raina]

Impossible for 99.9% of men. It's a scientific fact.

You don't know what you're talking about. You know that all of the guys here have 9-12" penises and get their super model gf's off a million times a day (except when they're out getting bj's from their lingerie model chicks on the side). Of course they can just keep having sex endlessly.

 

[Raina]

Also-- antidepressants or hormonal bc can also make it more difficult for her to orgasm.

 

[UA_Iron]

You don't know what you're talking about. You know that all of the guys here have 9-12" penises and get their super model gf's off a million times a day (except when they're out getting bj's from their lingerie model chicks on the side). Of course they can just keep having sex endlessly.

you better believe it Raina.

When I was 18 I could do it.

not anymore, I'd probably pass out.

 

[redguru]

bro translate

Nothing but net

The punchline rimshot on drums

 

[EnderJE]

I mean she says that she has never had one before from a another person. I fingered her and she had a little one. When we were humping I was hitting it from the back, and she said it was the closest/best she has had, but still no cigar. What gives guys? Oh, and size doesn't matter for her because she once had moby dick and she once had a little shrimp. I'm in between the too, but I just really know what to do.

Find a girl who doesn't lie?

 

[stilleto]

ok, i'm going to answer and then move this to BTS.
here's the thing, a lot of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. if your roughly using your fingers, or fumbling around, you're not going to hit the right spot with the right touch, for long enough.
this will take time.
lay her down and kneel between her legs. use your fingers on her, fucking her with them. use more than one.
with your other hand, lick your thumb, since a dry thumb against a dry clit might hurt. take your thumb an gently rub her clit in circles (or as close to circles as you can while moving your other hand in and out). make sure she is relaxed and feeling good and not drunk- alcohol numbs you and it will take longer.
let her know you want her to cum for you. eventually, she will.

 

[slat1]

Well it'll be harder for her to get there if she is thinking too much about needing to get there. A lot of women don't orgasm from sex. That's not abnormal. The best thing you can do is ask her what she likes when she's by herself and have her teach you how to please her.

But you can't just take it personally. There's not a one way always works with that sort of thing. Just because a girl doesn't orgasm doesn't mean she's not loving the sex. If fingering her gets her off I don't see the problem. Go for some oral too. Just ask her to help you out.

I agree with this.
Have her show you the way!
I read a study that 17 minutes of oral is generally what is needed to get the proper blood flow everyplace.
Give it a try.

 

[Sub-Zero]

lmfao @ sublime giving sex advice

just cause i havnt gone all the way doesnt mean im not very knowledgable.

 

[HiDnGoD]

ok, i'm going to answer and then move this to BTS.
here's the thing, a lot of women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. if your roughly using your fingers, or fumbling around, you're not going to hit the right spot with the right touch, for long enough.
this will take time.
lay her down and kneel between her legs. use your fingers on her, fucking her with them. use more than one.
with your other hand, lick your thumb, since a dry thumb against a dry clit might hurt. take your thumb an gently rub her clit in circles (or as close to circles as you can while moving your other hand in and out). make sure she is relaxed and feeling good and not drunk- alcohol numbs you and it will take longer.
let her know you want her to cum for you. eventually, she will.

Very true.
Wifey didn't have a true orgasm 'til her late 20's. It takes a lot of experimentation, patience, & those stupid articals in Men's Health & Maxim.
Women also need to be in the zone so to speak. If there is anything else going on with her like kids, parents, job, or something, then she may have a lot of funm but still not be able to come.
Just make love with her & don't worry about the orgasms.
Oh, & find out what aural stimulation she likes, talk dirty to her.