Weddings!

[velvett]

I've found the man I love and want to marry. We've had ups and downs and are now giving a serious commitment another try. Right now, I'm taking it day by day.

 

[velvett]

I can't see/feel myself ever being married and while I say that there are times that I see my friends that get engaged, married, etc - I think, gee I wish I could they things that they do - then I get over that feeling.

Sometimes I just think it's a norm that you want to fit in and never being married and over thirty people stare to wonder about you.

Ah well.

 

[Daisy_Girl]

I'm getting married this year - November 4. We've been together for 4 years now, and I certainly didn't think we'd ever end up together. We were both just hanging out, looking for a good time then BAM we got hit in the face with love. We've had very serious ups and downs too. But we're going to do this now - we are going to Mexico to stay at a spa resort for 8 days. We get married on the 4th day of the trip in a gazebo over looking the ocean. Should be very nice. I just have to make sure I don't get burnt before the ceremony, I'd hate to be red and pealing in my pictures!!!

Where?

(I'm looking for ideas)

 

[Daisy_Girl]

There is a beautiful resort down the street from me and I always see people getting married on the beach. It is gorgeous.

Where? (again, looking for ideas)

 

[Daisy_Girl]

BF and I have been together for about 3 years or so....I forget. Been living together for over 2 years, after we spent 6 months on separate coasts. While long-distance, we spoke EVERYDAY. Even now, we don't go a day without talking if one of us is out of town. I can't imagine going to bed without hearing him say good night to me.

We've been through a lot of tough times, things were majorly stacked against us for awhile. Looking back, I find it quite amazing we made it through and are so strong together. We are 2 different people in many ways, but we fit perfectly together. I honestly can't imagine there is anyone else out there for me. As silly as it sounds,we are totally meant for each other.

Bought a house, moving in later this year (if they ever break ground!). Talking marriage, have picked out engagemetn ring...now I am just waiting for it! UGH! lol We both want SMALL wedding, like just us and our parents. Probably a destination wedding where we can also honeymoon....living in Vegas we could run off tonight and get married...hahaha.

I know we'll marry soon, but I am really hoping by the end of the year...seeing how we are also talking children. We have talked about trying for a baby early next spring - I have major baby fever. Which is why I am doing my last SERIOUS attempt at cutting this summer.

 

[lamamacita]

Getting married January 2005.

We've been "together" for 3 years next week. "Together" is in quotes because he has been gone a lot as he is in the Marine Corps...currently serving in Iraq.

We are going to try out living together in August...which is exciting and scary to me. Don't know what I would do with out him...even though he isn't always here physically he is such an inspiration to me.

 

[jenscats5]

I can't see/feel myself ever being married and while I say that there are times that I see my friends that get engaged, married, etc - I think, gee I wish I could they things that they do - then I get over that feeling.

Sometimes I just think it's a norm that you want to fit in and never being married and over thirty people stare to wonder about you.

Ah well.

I know how you feel to a certain extent, V.....but mine is with kids....don't want kids, no desire to have kids, etc & a lot of people think I'm weird or a freak or will argue with me about it......

Eh, as long as you're happy, that's what's important!!

 

[FitFossil]

.....but mine is with kids....don't want kids, no desire to have kids, etc & a lot of people think I'm weird or a freak or will argue with me about it......

Boy can I relate to that! Even when I was a kid, I just always knew I wouldn't have kids. The way I look at it, not wanting to be a parent is really no different that not wanting to be a doctor, a fireman, or whatever. Besides, I've probably put more thought into my decision NOT to have kids than many people do TO have kids.

I just can't understand why some people have a problem with (or want an explanation for) someone else's very personal choice. Besides, my not having kids means more resources from my tax $$ for their kids.

 

[velvett]

I know how you feel to a certain extent, V.....but mine is with kids....don't want kids, no desire to have kids, etc & a lot of people think I'm weird or a freak or will argue with me about it......

Eh, as long as you're happy, that's what's important!!

True true - I feel the very same actually.

Happiness is what one should always strive for first.

 

[jenscats5]

Boy can I relate to that! Even when I was a kid, I just always knew I wouldn't have kids. The way I look at it, not wanting to be a parent is really no different that not wanting to be a doctor, a fireman, or whatever. Besides, I've probably put more thought into my decision NOT to have kids than many people do TO have kids.

I just can't understand why some people have a problem with (or want an explanation for) someone else's very personal choice. Besides, my not having kids means more resources from my tax $$ for their kids.

Exactly! There are some people who shouldn't have kids IMO....but I love how people want to argue with me about it.....mind your bidness!!