Was i wrong

[hanselthecaretaker]

ding ding ding ding..............

I'll get it













wait wtf... bastard.

 

[HiDnGoD]

tHAT DOES SOUND A LITTLE STRANGE, oak, considering her age. My daughter said when she was in high school, some of her friends would think nothing of giving head. They didn't really consider it sex.
All I can say is try to make it fun for her. I've honestly never met a woman who didn't give head & swallow.

 

[digimon7068]

OK. . .so I'm a guy. . .but let me give you some advice. . .you ABSOLUTELY need to find these type of things out before you make some kind of commitment. If you're truly committed to someone and them to you, NO TOPIC OF DISCUSSION SHOULD BE OFF LIMITS. Just because you discuss something doesn't me you actually want or need to do it. . .you should be able to talk about anything or it ain't gonna work anyway. . .better to know now than 10 years from now.

Contrary to what most of society would tell you, I personally think that oral sex is much more intimate than straight-up sex. Don't get me wrong, I love them both but, I couldn't imagine living without either.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Not wrong, just stupid. lol. you gotta be careful with what you say when talking about such a "sensitive" topic for people - especially when it's to your GF!!

And WTF @ her not giving head? damn, that sucks....

And more of my awesome 2 cents - don't bother trying to talk her into it. especially using logic. try to use her emotions to your advantage. a lot of women say they won't do something sexually, but when you get them at the right time and place in the bedroom, they will do ANYTHING, especially if they feel comfortable and trust you

im backing killah up 100%

not only is his advice dead on, but its also the only test you can do to see if there are underlying issues - if she trusts you 100% and otherwise enjoys sex 100% but STILL doesnt like to do it, you can start drawing more meaningful conclusions as to why that is. as it stands, her rationale for not liking it could be anything from personal preference to resentment to trust issues to child abuse

make it fun, then see what comes out in the wash. using rationale and guilt to get her to do it will suck the fun out of your sex life like a jewish girl giving...um...fast. itll suck the fun out FAST

 

[jd_uk]

And more of my awesome 2 cents - don't bother trying to talk her into it. especially using logic. try to use her emotions to your advantage. a lot of women say they won't do something sexually, but when you get them at the right time and place in the bedroom, they will do ANYTHING, especially if they feel comfortable and trust you

KB knows his stuff. If you really want to stay with this girl then you've got to break down these barriers that she's put up...show her that sex isn't something to be disgusted by. You have to find a way to make her really want to do those things.

Oak, you're way too nice. I'm not saying you shouldn't be a nice guy but some of the things that you've posted over the years tell me that a woman could easily mainpulate you if she wanted.

 

[jd_uk]

tHAT DOES SOUND A LITTLE STRANGE, oak, considering her age. My daughter said when she was in high school, some of her friends would think nothing of giving head. They didn't really consider it sex.

You talk to your daughter about her friends giving head??

 

[theoak01]

KB knows his stuff. If you really want to stay with this girl then you've got to break down these barriers that she's put up...show her that sex isn't something to be disgusted by. You have to find a way to make her really want to do those things.

Oak, you're way too nice. I'm not saying you shouldn't be a nice guy but some of the things that you've posted over the years tell me that a woman could easily mainpulate you if she wanted.

your right dude a woman could pretty much chew me up and spit me out if she wanted,it sucks but im working on that.

now its just working on communication with certain topics with the gf,she has a way of changing the topic when i bring this type of stuff up,so she definately has some barriers put up sexually. however she has opened up alot since we started having the sexuals,now i can give her oral some of the time but she is more impatient and just wants to fuck.

i hope we can open up about this because its definately a big deal

 

[theoak01]

maybe it wouldnt hurt to mention she just had a baby 5 months ago and her hormones are all fucked up

 

[HiDnGoD]

You talk to your daughter about her friends giving head??

For many years my wife & I were her only friends. As she grew out of her shell, she talked to us about many things.
It's not unhealthy. I spoke with my parents the same way.

 

[Spanky11]

sounds like there are a few underlying issues here that need to be addressed.

I know for me personally I would have difficulty staying with a girl whom refused to give oral - I lived with 1 who refused that for 3 years...never again.

good luck, regardless