Was i wrong

[velvett]

a women that doesn't enjoy foreplay...

there's something terribly wrong with that...

Giving or Receiving?
Both?

 

[EnderJE]

she just wants a bit of fingering and once shes wet wants me to hop on, its a new relationship so there really arent any problems but this,and she wants it many times a day so sex drive or wanting to fuck me isnt the issue,its just doing anything fun and kinky is a no go

lmao...that's too funny...I just got this picture in my mind of what it must be like...

Got a pic?

 

[Forge]

Odd how some dudes & chicks don't like getting/giving oral.

For some people, foreplay (oral, fingering, etc.) is more personal and intimate than intercourse, and it's that level of intimacy that scares them and makes them uncomfortable.


I had a gf back in college that was like this. Fucking she was comfortable with, anything else and she became terrified. Oral just made her feel too self conscious, when my face was down there she had this horrible feeling that I was "examing" her. She had a host of issues that I found out later...


Oak, good luck bor.

 

[needtogetaas]

women with sexual issues that are normal -in most relationships- should be a cautionary sign that something is amiss. its either "you" or they dont like or care for sexual experieinces other than missionary intercourse.
if they are seeing someone else, the acts of intimacy with their SO often go awry...

ding ding ding ding..............

 

[Sub-Zero]

does she like u fingering her or giving her oral?

dont pretend that ur doing it for her.

be like "i want u to pelase me this way"

Its something u do for me.

i wont finger u or eat u out, unless u do this for me.

or make it a game...put it in ur mouth or i wont put it in ur vag

 

[theoak01]

she lets me do it to her,but then i tried to use that as ammunition and shes all like,well I didnt tell you to do it.

bah its frustrating

 

[slat1]

I was talking to the mrs tonight,got a bit dirty,got on the topic of blow jobs and forplay, she said she dont like that and doesnt want to do it ever.

this is an issue for me so I called her on it,she got all pissy and defensive,but I said it keeps things interesting and exciting.

i forget what she said,and i think here is where I kinda fucked up.

I said " well just having sex feels like something i could get from a hooker i like to have the intimacy of forplay etc"

she got pissed and said"i dont want to talk about it"

was i wrong?

ladies? help

Be careful. For all you know her dad made her blow him all the time when she was a kid. Crazy shit has happened to people.

 

[mrplunkey]

she lets me do it to her,but then i tried to use that as ammunition and shes all like,well I didnt tell you to do it.

bah its frustrating

HUUUUGE red flag.

Danger Will Robinson, Danger! Danger! (I wonder how many will get that reference).

Seriously dude, if she's got "issues" fresh into a relationship, just wait till you hit the one or two year mark. And for God's sake, wait till marriage. That's when she sits you down and explains all the things you guys used to do that she never really liked...

 

[theoak01]

Be careful. For all you know her dad made her blow him all the time when she was a kid. Crazy shit has happened to people.

ya i tried to be sensitive but she blew it off so i took a more aggressive approach,we will see where it gets me

 

[Bikini Mod]

Back in the day the only man I gave head to was my exhusband and he got it PLENTY - but odd thing, I wouldnt do it until we were engaged. Matter of fact, this was how I would initiate sex. I have a strong drive and what man is going to say NO to sex when you are sucking his cock?! hehehee

I was raised with the notion that giving a man head was very dirty and totally disrespectfull to the woman.


I got over that REAL quick after being introduced to a man who can lick kitty properly. LOL

To this day - there is NO WAY I will give head to a man that I dont genuinely care for. It is very very intimate - more intimate than intercourse.