Was i wrong

[theoak01]

I was talking to the mrs tonight,got a bit dirty,got on the topic of blow jobs and forplay, she said she dont like that and doesnt want to do it ever.

this is an issue for me so I called her on it,she got all pissy and defensive,but I said it keeps things interesting and exciting.

i forget what she said,and i think here is where I kinda fucked up.

I said " well just having sex feels like something i could get from a hooker i like to have the intimacy of forplay etc"

she got pissed and said"i dont want to talk about it"

was i wrong?

ladies? help

 

[Cutiebaby]

I can not imagine not giving my lovey a blow job. I find that to be about as intimate as possible.
And hell forplay is well needed.
Always pre heat the oven first! lol

 

[theoak01]

thats my thinking of it,makes it intimate not just some wham bam thank you mam, i mean fuck most girls would kill to have this kinda treatment,yet she dont want it at all

 

[KillahBee]

Not wrong, just stupid. lol. you gotta be careful with what you say when talking about such a "sensitive" topic for people - especially when it's to your GF!!

And WTF @ her not giving head? damn, that sucks....

And more of my awesome 2 cents - don't bother trying to talk her into it. especially using logic. try to use her emotions to your advantage. a lot of women say they won't do something sexually, but when you get them at the right time and place in the bedroom, they will do ANYTHING, especially if they feel comfortable and trust you

 

[PICK3]

Odd how some dudes & chicks don't like getting/giving oral.

 

[theoak01]

i like your sneaky ways, and yes i probably was stupid but im frustrated over it and tired of boring sex,not like im getting it now cuz im away anyways but still,bad sex makes me want to get better sex, and i dont want to cheat

 

[PBR]

women with sexual issues that are normal -in most relationships- should be a cautionary sign that something is amiss. its either "you" or they dont like or care for sexual experieinces other than missionary intercourse.
if they are seeing someone else, the acts of intimacy with their SO often go awry...

 

[EnderJE]

Dude, she doesn't like foreplay? Does she just strip down, oil up, and let you mount her when you do it? Thank god, you're not going to marry her. Might as well call it quits right now and find someone on the east coast.

 

[EnderJE]

BTW, didn't your last psycho ex give up the mouth and the ass?

 

[theoak01]

she just wants a bit of fingering and once shes wet wants me to hop on, its a new relationship so there really arent any problems but this,and she wants it many times a day so sex drive or wanting to fuck me isnt the issue,its just doing anything fun and kinky is a no go