Virginity -religion aside

[healother]

As most EF peeps know, I'm a virgin (for religious reasons). And I've been strongly encouraged by many on here to loser my virginity, and been told that religious laws dont apply to sex anymore.

Anyway, I wanted to have a discussion about virginity without religion being involved, so here it goes:

Obvious many people do indeed care about the number of people their partner has banged. Whores tend to be less preferred in general. Ive also heard virgins sometimes are less preferred. But some also say that a person who keeps their virginity by choice is cool, and has something special to give to the first person they have sex with.

Lets get real now, I'm 22. I've kept my virginity for this long, if I gave it up now, wouldnt I be a loser, since all my years of remaining a virgin at youth would have gone to waste? I mean I might as well save it so that I can marry another virgin chick, and we can be special for each other right?

I tend to believe in extremes. Either soak up all the sex you can and be completely saturated with hotties in your pants, or be a virgin, like a pure diamond, and the desire of every woman who wants to take your v-card.

If I just pick the middle of the road, and have sex now with a couple chicks, what do I have to gain? I'll have missed out on both the good extremes.

 

[hotzie]

dude go get some pussy. look at all the priest that dont .....they rape little boys. religous law ...fuck that.

 

[OMEGA]

I strongly believe in the less partners you have the Better........

never bought into the "living it up life style"

freind first then kissing and stuff like that, date, meet the family then evolve together

thats my true opinion


its like Swans they mate for life

http://www.sygnetswans.com/Sygswjo_Heart-Swans.JPG

 

[rocky_road]

As most EF peeps know, I'm a virgin (for religious reasons). And I've been strongly encouraged by many on here to loser my virginity, and been told that religious laws dont apply to sex anymore.

Anyway, I wanted to have a discussion about virginity without religion being involved, so here it goes:

Obvious many people do indeed care about the number of people their partner has banged. Whores tend to be less preferred in general. Ive also heard virgins sometimes are less preferred. But some also say that a person who keeps their virginity by choice is cool, and has something special to give to the first person they have sex with.

Lets get real now, I'm 22. I've kept my virginity for this long, if I gave it up now, wouldnt I be a loser, since all my years of remaining a virgin at youth would have gone to waste? I mean I might as well save it so that I can marry another virgin chick, and we can be special for each other right?

I tend to believe in extremes. Either soak up all the sex you can and be completely saturated with hotties in your pants, or be a virgin, like a pure diamond, and the desire of every woman who wants to take your v-card.

If I just pick the middle of the road, and have sex now with a couple chicks, what do I have to gain? I'll have missed out on both the good extremes.

You're "unique", don't give that up so quickly. We don't meet very many male virgins these days. However I think that if the reason you marry someone is strongly influenced by you both being virgins, then you've put too much weight into that element.

 

[healother]

I strongly believe in the less partners you have the Better........

never bought into the "living it up life style"

freind first then kissing and stuff like that, date, meet the family then evolve together

thats my true opinion


its like Swans they mate for life

http://www.sygnetswans.com/Sygswjo_Heart-Swans.JPG

yeah, i really think the whole gradual physical relationship is the way to go. I mean i dont understand the guys that are sexing women they havent even kissed yet.
Good to see someone who thinks the same way.

So are swans the one of the only animals that mate for life? I'm pretty sure others do too, right?

You're "unique", don't give that up so quickly. We don't meet very many male virgins these days. However I think that if the reason you marry someone is strongly influenced by you both being virgins, then you've put too much weight into that element.

I dont know yet if I'll make virginity a requirement in the female partner that I marry. I'd prefer to meet someone with a similar number of sexual experiences as me. And I know there are some women out there that are virgins and want male virgins too. I'm only 22 yrs old though, when i'm older finding virgins will be harder.

 

[PWTurbofan]

dude go get some pussy. look at all the priest that dont .....they rape little boys. religous law ...fuck that.

 

[paradox]

As most EF peeps know, I'm a virgin (for religious reasons). And I've been strongly encouraged by many on here to loser my virginity, and been told that religious laws dont apply to sex anymore.

Anyway, I wanted to have a discussion about virginity without religion being involved, so here it goes:

Obvious many people do indeed care about the number of people their partner has banged. Whores tend to be less preferred in general. Ive also heard virgins sometimes are less preferred. But some also say that a person who keeps their virginity by choice is cool, and has something special to give to the first person they have sex with.

Lets get real now, I'm 22. I've kept my virginity for this long, if I gave it up now, wouldnt I be a loser, since all my years of remaining a virgin at youth would have gone to waste? I mean I might as well save it so that I can marry another virgin chick, and we can be special for each other right?

I tend to believe in extremes. Either soak up all the sex you can and be completely saturated with hotties in your pants, or be a virgin, like a pure diamond, and the desire of every woman who wants to take your v-card.

If I just pick the middle of the road, and have sex now with a couple chicks, what do I have to gain? I'll have missed out on both the good extremes.

Are you sure your keeping your virginity by choice? If you have the will power to turn down hot ass then more power to ya brother.

 

[bigmann245]

As most EF peeps know, I'm a virgin (for religious reasons). And I've been strongly encouraged by many on here to loser my virginity, and been told that religious laws dont apply to sex anymore.

Anyway, I wanted to have a discussion about virginity without religion being involved, so here it goes:

Obvious many people do indeed care about the number of people their partner has banged. Whores tend to be less preferred in general. Ive also heard virgins sometimes are less preferred. But some also say that a person who keeps their virginity by choice is cool, and has something special to give to the first person they have sex with.

Lets get real now, I'm 22. I've kept my virginity for this long, if I gave it up now, wouldnt I be a loser, since all my years of remaining a virgin at youth would have gone to waste? I mean I might as well save it so that I can marry another virgin chick, and we can be special for each other right?

I tend to believe in extremes. Either soak up all the sex you can and be completely saturated with hotties in your pants, or be a virgin, like a pure diamond, and the desire of every woman who wants to take your v-card.

If I just pick the middle of the road, and have sex now with a couple chicks, what do I have to gain? I'll have missed out on both the good extremes.

bro do what YOU FEEL AND NOBODY ELSE cause thats whats going to matter. most guys on here are going to tell you to get laid, get pussy your a fag, etc etc.... dont listen to them just do what you feel you should. if you find someone speacial and you feel you should then go for it. if you want to save it and give it to "the one" then do that just dont be pressured into doing something you will regret cause you didnt make the decision and did it because everyone else told you to.

your the one that will have to live with the decision not them.

 

[redsamurai]

get into a relationship with a woman you care about and for gods sake.....HAVE SEX WITH HER!! If it doesnt' work out.....at least you come away BETTER than if you hadn't been with her at all. This is called an ADULT relationship. Unfortunately too many of us have forgotten that because of MTV inspired dating habits. I don't have sex with alot of women........every now and then when the opportunity presents itself and the urge is there, I'll go ahead and have sex with someone I might not have the day before. But it's always' unfullfilling. Bro.....I understand you're waiting for your soulmate......but if you don't get into relationships you'll not recognize her when she shows up. Relationships, as painful as they can be.....are stepping stones. After each relationship you sit back and analyze why you got in the relationship in the first place.....why it went wrong, and what should you look for in the future. You can't know what you want out of a woman if you wait. Here's what's going to happen to you bro.....you're going to fall for the first virgin you meat.....you'll get married on the precept of both of you being virgins.....yeah!! we're pure in the eyes of GOD!!! 5 years later the two of you will have grown so far apart that you can't stand the site of her. Everyone keeps growing in life......if you meet someone at the bottom of the mountain, there's too long a way to go to the top......and the two of you will most likely not take the same path and "grow together". If you meet at the top.....both of you are pretty much set in your ways and then life will be that much sweeter. Look at it this way......every relationship is another whittle off the carving......after a while.....you have the whole sculpture and you know precisely that what you are looking for. Only life experience can guide you on this. And that's what religion is trying to take away from you......your own life path......the life experiences that shape who and what we are. Life is about your own spiritual journey......not what someone else tells you.....and certainly not some book written 2006 years ago.

 

[Nobledude]

As most EF peeps know, I'm a virgin (for religious reasons). And I've been strongly encouraged by many on here to loser my virginity, and been told that religious laws dont apply to sex anymore.

Anyway, I wanted to have a discussion about virginity without religion being involved, so here it goes:

Obvious many people do indeed care about the number of people their partner has banged. Whores tend to be less preferred in general. Ive also heard virgins sometimes are less preferred. But some also say that a person who keeps their virginity by choice is cool, and has something special to give to the first person they have sex with.

Lets get real now, I'm 22. I've kept my virginity for this long, if I gave it up now, wouldnt I be a loser, since all my years of remaining a virgin at youth would have gone to waste? I mean I might as well save it so that I can marry another virgin chick, and we can be special for each other right?

I tend to believe in extremes. Either soak up all the sex you can and be completely saturated with hotties in your pants, or be a virgin, like a pure diamond, and the desire of every woman who wants to take your v-card.

If I just pick the middle of the road, and have sex now with a couple chicks, what do I have to gain? I'll have missed out on both the good extremes.

WTF? for real...?did u ever spank the monkey? I gave you so many reasons..see boob threads and such..