Ughh... I experienced the hook up and then the rejection.

[Waka]

I thought I would let this out here cause I'm not sure where else I can let this out.

I did... what probably 9 out of 10 girls my age have done. I hooked up with a guy I hardly knew. and saw him for a few weeks quite frequently... Kinda not so much now... its been three weeks and I only see him every once in awhile. He still tells me to call though after work, so I do. and I havent been with him for awhile now.... this must be the typical rejection you get from hooking up with a guy you don't know. The weird part is I'm not really into this guy, now that I'm starting to feel rejected, a lot of my attention has been on this...

He told me to call after work today and no one picked up. I called later... about 9 pm and he picks up.. he's with his buddies, and he said to call him tomarrow and I go "But i can never get ahold of you.." and I'm starting to get unhappy.. and then he says I'll talk to you tomarrow. Ok. So I'm going guess that this was him telling me he doesn't want to see me anymore. What do you guys think?

I'm an idiot. Whats sad, is on the other hand, the first thought I had after I got off the phone with him, was that now I'd have a lot more time to focus on the gym. Oh geeez...

 

[Huckster]

Aww,I'm sorry hon.It does sound like he's giving you the shine-on.He was probably just in it for fun with no commitment,and once he got his fill,moved on.Makes me sad to hear he's hurt your heart,but you'll find someone to treat you a thousand times better than that.Trust me.Hit that gym hard and before you know it you'll have guys at your beckon call.

 

[Waka]

Lol. Thank ya for your input Huckster. the last part kinda cheered me up..

 

[Huckster]

Lol. Thank ya for your input Huckster. the last part kinda cheered me up..

It's true!When you least EXPECT to be dating and are just doing your own thing and really working on being your best,that's when all of the sudden you start seeing everyone taking notice of you.Keep your chin up,and hit that gym hard girl.In no time this guy will be a distant(and easily forgotten)memory.

 

[StickFigure]

Listen to Huck! He knows what he's talking about, I couldn't agree more.

 

[myd]

Why, he can't take the effort and call you? If he won't call you, they you know. I rather not call but won't hang on anybody.

I can't stand these kind of guys, and the other one is the shy type.

 

[rnch]

what's goin' on here.............you give up your "pearl of great sacrifice" for a one night stand and now you want the guy to be at your beck and call?

get real and grow up gal.....you weren't THAT great!!!!

 

[eat big]

Happens to most people our age -- even some guys believe it or not. Keep hitting the gym and it will pay dividends. That's what I do.

I saw some people from High School that treated me like shit, they saw me now and were in awe.

 

[Gymgurl]

Move on he isn't worth you time and there are thousands of men to pick from out there

 

[jenscats5]

Move on he isn't worth you time and there are thousands of men to pick from out there

I agree....if he's going to treat you like that now then do you really want a relationship with him??