To do or not to do

[fyxgel2]

I love it how after 3 months of us telling him to ask girls out, and then finally saying maybe you should chill out for awhile, now he wants to know if it's OK if he can ask a girl out
it's just so great

fine so it was a stupid question to ask.

you still havent answered my question about the "having stuff in common" requirement.

 

[-SD-]

LOL

I've given you a shitload of advice and I wanted to be a nasty bitch I would remind you that some of your experiences *cough* would be advice as what NOT TO DO, but I like you so I won't go there.

You can't successfully give advice to someone that doesn't want it because they are not ready to take it or they will continue to ask for advice until they get the advice they want to hear.

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[fyxgel2]

Alright guys, I've decided have all the answers that I am looking for, within my own head.

I need to stop bugging people for answers and advice, and need to think on my own more. I got my stuff figured out for now...


I have a few goals right now, during this year, which I know are possible for me to accomplish:
1) to find a group of friends here.
2) to find a woman (whether it be on campus or someplace aside)

I know that it is possible for me to accomplish these goals, provided I put in the time and effort to do so.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

You can't successfully give advice to someone that doesn't want it because they are not ready to take it or they will continue to ask for advice until they get the advice they want to hear.

 

[crew9]

^^^^^

 

[RADAR]

Alright guys, I've decided have all the answers that I am looking for, within my own head.
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Um! Better load that to your hard drive or you'll be asking these same questions tomorrow.

RADAR

 

[velvett]

so velvett, a couple questions.

Although I shouldnt be obsessed about girls and thinking about them all the time, is it still okay to ask a few out?

Secondly, is it required that you have to have something in common with the girl, in order for the relationship to work out? (i know a relationship is a long ways down the road for me, but I'm still curious)

The more you ask them out the less you will obsess - but if you don't actually ask them out not just think about it. If you're not gonna jump right into it 100% don't bother.

It is helpful to have some common interest - ANYTHING - something that you could say (other than, "yo, wanna fuck?") that will help create the start of conversation with each other. Some people might not agree but in my personal observations and experience couples need something that they share interest in, even if it's just a similiar lifestyle.