To do or not to do

[fyxgel2]

Here is the plan people. I am going to focus on women... just not to the extreme,

but before I go around and get all lovey dovey over a woman, I am going to make sure that I a) like her personality and b) that we have something in common first.

This means I will find a hobby before I begin pursuing women. That way I am actually worth something.

Secondly, I am not going to be too too forward with girls. I will ask them out, yes, but I will not do so in a way that startles them or freaks them out. I am going to attempt to be an extrovert.
Thirdly, I am not going to be desperate and long for having just a woman in general. I am going to make sure that I have nice and specific standards (but not too high), so that the women I am going after don't just think that they are tools to satisfy my selfish desires, but that instead they rather feel special.

And before I am going to go ask any girls out, I am going to develop a hobby that i know that some girls will dig as well, and that way I'll have something to relate with them by.

I dont know, do you guys think I should make it a requirement that I have a hobby or something in common with a girl, before I really start hanging out with her too much? Isnt it basically a requirement that you have something in common with a girl in order for you two to be in a successful relationship?

And remember folks, I could care less about getting play. (i know BBF u probably dont understand me) Really right now all I want is a fun woman to hang around with, that I can refer to as my girlfriend.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Here is the plan people. I am going to focus on women... just not to the extreme,

but before I go around and get all lovey dovey over a woman, I am going to make sure that I a) like her personality and b) that we have something in common first.

This means I will find a hobby before I begin pursuing women. That way I am actually worth something.

Secondly, I am not going to be too too forward with girls. I will ask them out, yes, but I will not do so in a way that startles them or freaks them out. I am going to attempt to be an extrovert.
Thirdly, I am not going to be desperate and long for having just a woman in general. I am going to make sure that I have nice and specific standards (but not too high), so that the women I am going after don't just think that they are tools to satisfy my selfish desires, but that instead they rather feel special.

And before I am going to go ask any girls out, I am going to develop a hobby that i know that some girls will dig as well, and that way I'll have something to relate with them by.

I dont know, do you guys think I should make it a requirement that I have a hobby or something in common with a girl, before I really start hanging out with her too much? Isnt it basically a requirement that you have something in common with a girl in order for you two to be in a successful relationship?

And remember folks, I could care less about getting play. (i know BBF u probably dont understand me) Really right now all I want is a fun woman to hang around with, that I can refer to as my girlfriend.

Oh I understand you and it sounds like a good plan...IF YOU FUCKING DO IT. However if you have not had sex with a girl, she is NOT your girlfriend IMO. A girlfriend is an exclusive sexual relationship.

 

[-SD-]

Here is the plan people. I am going to focus on women... just not to the extreme,

but before I go around and get all lovey dovey over a woman, I am going to make sure that I a) like her personality and b) that we have something in common first.

This means I will find a hobby before I begin pursuing women. That way I am actually worth something.

Secondly, I am not going to be too too forward with girls. I will ask them out, yes, but I will not do so in a way that startles them or freaks them out. I am going to attempt to be an extrovert.
Thirdly, I am not going to be desperate and long for having just a woman in general. I am going to make sure that I have nice and specific standards (but not too high), so that the women I am going after don't just think that they are tools to satisfy my selfish desires, but that instead they rather feel special.

And before I am going to go ask any girls out, I am going to develop a hobby that i know that some girls will dig as well, and that way I'll have something to relate with them by.

I dont know, do you guys think I should make it a requirement that I have a hobby or something in common with a girl, before I really start hanging out with her too much? Isnt it basically a requirement that you have something in common with a girl in order for you two to be in a successful relationship?

And remember folks, I could care less about getting play. (i know BBF u probably dont understand me) Really right now all I want is a fun woman to hang around with, that I can refer to as my girlfriend.

Ive been giving you the benefit of the doubt for a long time. But at this point you just need to forget about women for about 3 years and focus on yourself.

 

[fyxgel2]

Ive been giving you the benefit of the doubt for a long time. But at this point you just need to forget about women for about 3 years and focus on yourself.

no dates for three years? I know I'm not supposed to focus on women, but dont you think this is a little absurd?

 

[velvett]

If you want advice about women, dont ask a fucking woman because rarely do they know what they want. Ask a man who has a lot of experience with women and is succesful with them..

LOL

I've given you a shitload of advice and I wanted to be a nasty bitch I would remind you that some of your experiences *cough* would be advice as what NOT TO DO, but I like you so I won't go there.

You can't successfully give advice to someone that doesn't want it because they are not ready to take it or they will continue to ask for advice until they get the advice they want to hear.

 

[fyxgel2]

LOL

I've given you a shitload of advice and I wanted to be a nasty bitch I would remind you that some of your experiences *cough* would be advice as what NOT TO DO, but I like you so I won't go there.

You can't successfully give advice to someone that doesn't want it because they are not ready to take it or they will continue to ask for advice until they get the advice they want to hear.

so velvett, a couple questions.

Although I shouldnt be obsessed about girls and thinking about them all the time, is it still okay to ask a few out?

Secondly, is it required that you have to have something in common with the girl, in order for the relationship to work out? (i know a relationship is a long ways down the road for me, but I'm still curious)

 

[jackangel]

as others have suggested, you definitely need to smoke weed. it will give you something to do with some of your time. it will most likely make at least a few things enjoyable enough so that you don't obssess over girls, etc. as much. and since you're already a bum with little motivation, it won't ruin your plans of world domination. of course, it probably won't help you get much done, either.

but at least it's fun. and you don't have to talk to it. and it won't ever reject you. and so on...

 

[RADAR]

When!Oh When ,will it all end!



RADAR

 

[fyxgel2]

When!Oh When ,will it all end!

RADAR

Not until velvett or someone else answers these 2 questions:

1. Although I shouldnt be obsessed about girls and thinking about them all the time, is it still okay to ask a few out?

2. Secondly, is it required that you have to have something in common with the girl, in order for the relationship to work out? (i know a relationship is a long ways down the road for me, but I'm still curious)


PS: and that is only when this 'thread' will end. if you want the wining of fyxgel2 to stop, this probably wont happen completely until he gets a girlfriend.
So you guys better start praying...

 

[bran987]

I love it how after 3 months of us telling him to ask girls out, and then finally saying maybe you should chill out for awhile, now he wants to know if it's OK if he can ask a girl out
it's just so great