oh. In my particular case (not that you asked, but for contrast purposes), it's not that he was misrepresenting himself in any way. I was just too blinded by stupidity and cluelessness and immaturity to realize that, hey, this probably isnt someone you should involve yourself with on any more than a one-night-stand basis. Also, low self-esteem perpetuates decisions like this. "oh, someone likes me. someone wants me. amazing. since I am not worthy of anyone of any real character, i'll just settle for this useless piece of crap since Im a useless piece of crap too"