This ever happen to anybody here?

[Swole_2112]

Has anybody here ever found that their love for their significant other is still strong but their sexual attraction towards them is not what it used to be? I've found that to be true, somewhat, lately. Anybody else?

 

[Dirk Howat]

For men it is true because men get tired of a single women sexually generally. Men like variety, something new, different size titties, feel of her pussy, etc.....

Girls, IMO, are into taking shit. They feed off of your plate (food, money, life) and take your shit, spiritual or physical. So they are looking for the best provider (of sex, money and fun) which men differ qualitatively in their ability to provide. Women do these little test to find out how much you will provide them and even if you have bank, etc......but you will not give it to them, they look for a different provider.


Men give. They are like Dicks
Women take. They are like Vaginas

Men like variety in women and get bored with one girl.
Women want security and they get this through one man.


Hope that helps Bro.

 

[Marauder79]

So So True, Well put.

I Love my Gf of 6 years to death. Id say she marriage material most definently.

Except im now looking at other girls and dying to take them home. Maybe im bored and i need to get something out of me. Weve been together since highschool so thats probably it.

When i do hit those other girls up, i actually find myself unnattracted after ive been with them. Kinda funny how that happens. Now that you got it , kinda dont want it anymore.

 

[PBR]

you pretty much said it all...if youve been with her since high school- you are wanting to experience life in different ways with different women....IMO it is nearly impossible to grow and learn in a healthy way about yourself and your SO when you are in this situation....when you know and understand why it is you feel the way you do about her alone- then you will know....IMO staying with someone (one on one) from childhood is usually not successful for a multitude of reasons.....

 

[*MissFit*]

I have always been pretty good about changing my look.. whether it be with my body, hair style of dress.

Best way to keep someone interested is by constantly suprising them.

 

[Growth&Courage]

Has anybody here ever found that their love for their significant other is still strong but their sexual attraction towards them is not what it used to be? I've found that to be true, somewhat, lately. Anybody else?

Bro, that is precisely the nature of relationship.

No matter how hot your SO may appeared to be initially, through time those initial sexual attraction would decline and will take shape in the form of loving rather seeing her as an object of lust.

I sensed that you're easily vulnerable to getting seduced by other hot chics.
Stay in tact and keep your senses alert or all will be lost!

 

[buffer1]

yeah i had one like that once

 

[Dekaxx]

So So True, Well put.

I Love my Gf of 6 years to death. Id say she marriage material most definently.

Except im now looking at other girls and dying to take them home. Maybe im bored and i need to get something out of me. Weve been together since highschool so thats probably it.

When i do hit those other girls up, i actually find myself unnattracted after ive been with them. Kinda funny how that happens. Now that you got it , kinda dont want it anymore.

Either realize you have everything you want right there and work on the passion between you two, communication is the key...

Break-up with her and sow your wild oats and MAYBE when you have realized she is what you wanted all along and she HASN"T decided your not what she wanted and found someone better then maybe you can get back with her...

Marry her thinking the grass is greener on the other side, have an affair and then go through a nasty divorce possibly with a kiddo or 2 and end up with distraught children and paying child support for 16+ years while some other guy raises your children for you....

Think of some things to liven up your sex life i bet she would respon, and you never know she may be getting board as well....

Just my thoughts on what you said guess thats what they mean by relationships sometimes take a little work to keep things going smooth.

 

[mrplunkey]

I have always been pretty good about changing my look.. whether it be with my body, hair style of dress.

Best way to keep someone interested is by constantly suprising them.

CC is onto something here. I think the key for a women is to keep changing (and expanding her horizons sexually as well). We men like variety, but a remarkably small change can have a profound impact. Even experimenting with positions or low-end "kinkyness" can things going.

What surprises me is how quickly women can become "accustomed" to a lifestyle. Once you do the kids thing and have more than enough financially, we often get relegated to the bottom of the attention list.

What can make things go terribly wrong is a whipsaw effect -- men become used to a particular women and her sex style and begin lookign for more while women become accustomed to their lifestyle and start offering-up less.

 

[*MissFit*]

NO way

Expect.. the unexpected

CC is onto something here. I think the key for a women is to keep changing (and expanding her horizons sexually as well). We men like variety, but a remarkably small change can have a profound impact. Even experimenting with positions or low-end "kinkyness" can things going.

What surprises me is how quickly women can become "accustomed" to a lifestyle. Once you do the kids thing and have more than enough financially, we often get relegated to the bottom of the attention list.

What can make things go terribly wrong is a whipsaw effect -- men become used to a particular women and her sex style and begin lookign for more while women become accustomed to their lifestyle and start offering-up less.