The people in the apartment above me...

[SinisterUproar]

I've been thinking about it cause it is a deal breaker.

I care about him a lot and it makes it worse I think.

Why don't u bring it up too him? If its that big of a problem don't you think you should talk about it instead of just dumping him? If you tell him it's a big enough problem that your thinking of leaving him and then he doesn't fix it then you have your answer

 

[miplank]

fuck this guy...dump his ass

 

[bigbassturd]

Bet big t would fuck you senseless

 

[Aplopez8]

He's cheating on u

 

[bigbassturd]

Wtf? ^^ Why hasn't that already been covered??

 

[ceo]

At first it was good, then it turned into this I have to satisfy myself while he kicks back type of thing, and lately I don't even bother finishing.

Is more than once a week is too much to ask?

Thing is, I feel like I have to schedule a fucking appointment. And I'm tired of being the one to initiate. I get turned down a couple of times a week.

In every other area, he is perfect, but I've never thought there was enough sex. Now that I let myself love him this crap is getting really hurtful.

It's called the "Coolidge Effect," Google it.

This is a good article: What If She Were Always in the Mood? | Psychology Today

 

[Aplopez8]

I honestly believe in the Coolidge effect .. I'm going through the Coolidge effect right now actually /:

 

[wootoom]

Why don't u bring it up too him? If its that big of a problem don't you think you should talk about it instead of just dumping him? If you tell him it's a big enough problem that your thinking of leaving him and then he doesn't fix it then you have your answer

*to*

 

[redsamurai]

there's no such thing as too much. wtf are you talking about? I wouldn't ever expect it to stay at the peak but there's never a such thing as too much. the trick is keeping it going after being together for so long

well you can stay at the peak if you let it build. That's the trick. When you're married it "has" to be about quality not quantity. When you're single and ur just gettin your nut off, yeah who cares. But when it's with your wife, you have to knock the back out "every" time. She has to call off work the next day or cancel the saturday shopping trip with her friends. And you have to tell her that she is "obliged" to tell her friends exactly why she has trouble walking right that day and has to cancel. <---- this is most important.

 

[redsamurai]

Is more than once a week is too much to ask?

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absolutely not, once a week he should be killing you. There's a problem here.