telling a woman she's getting fat

[Daisy_Girl]

But some people care about other's feelings.

I can't imagine walking up to anyone - male or female - and just saying "you're getting fat". Who am I to judge them? If I was concerned, I would have to "beat around the bush" too. Not just for females either, I would do the same for a male.

 

[DJ_UFO]

I'm sorry. I came angry from work last night...lol. I'm not like that with girls. I mean I hate fat women. But I don't tell them that in the face.

 

[wend]

"I hate fat women." That's frickin' lovely. I try not to hate anyone, but if I had to choose, it'd be stupid people who have no idea they're stupid.

Daisy, I'm with you. When Maj some time ago was pretty fat, I never said so...I hardly ever even thought so. When you actually love someone in a committed relationship, fluctuations in their physique become much less important. My major concern has always been his health and the health of our relationship. He came to the conclusion on his own that he wanted/needed to get fit, and now he's in incredible shape.

 

[cutiepie]

If she is as good looking as you say and has always kept herself up then she knows that she has gained some. Most of the time women are hiding or trying to cover some form of depression or fear. Just hope that she faces whatever it is that has caused her to hide behind food.Good luck to you! You could always encourage her to workout. {A NEW WORKOUT OUTFIT}.

 

[PBR]

cutie- you hit it right on the head...depression/stress...I dont see her very often...she lives very far from me...she has noticed lately, that her size 4 clothing is not fitting/ looking good....she just started taking "wellbutrin" and is a "new" person....her appetite is way down and she has no cravings for junk and re-newed energy...thought it might be thyroid problem, but depression has so many "faces"...I will sit back and watch....