telling a woman she's getting fat

[PBR]

ok...damn it...how do you tell a really good looking/sexy woman, she is getting fat????

 

[lucidblue]

I'm not sure how you do it... however, I believe it's better to tell her than to lie and say she's not fat. Has she said "do I look fat" at all? If so, be honest. I'd much rather hear the truth. I hate when guys say "no you look great." If I ask, I'm looking for an honest answer.

Maybe you should just try to get her interested in the gym.

 

[bluepeter]

I'm not sure how you do it... however, I believe it's better to tell her than to lie and say she's not fat. Has she said "do I look fat" at all? If so, be honest. I'd much rather hear the truth. I hate when guys say "no you look great." If I ask, I'm looking for an honest answer.

Maybe you should just try to get her interested in the gym.

If you are being honest then I am at a loss for words. I have never met a woman in my life that would react positively to any sentence that included the word 'fat'.

 

[thatasianchick]

Hearing it is the hardest part but someone's gotta do it. My sister has gained alot of weight and my neice is the one who does the dirty work for me...lol...so now my sister works out a lot more then she used to.

 

[wilson6]

I just tell them and take it from there.

W6

 

[FitFossil]

ok...damn it...how do you tell a really good looking/sexy woman, she is getting fat????

You you could suggest a shopping trip for a new bathing suit, and let the mirror do the talking.

 

[PinkPanther]

I agree with lucidblue...I would rather hear the truth. I think just hearing someone tell me that would make me hit the gym even harder. I would be pissed that I was getting noticeably fat, so I would want to do something about it.

 

[boscoe wilson]

If you are being honest then I am at a loss for words. I have never met a woman in my life that would react positively to any sentence that included the word 'fat'.

I would mention something about how you usually gain a little extra fat in the winter...ask her if she has the same problem. Don't call her fat or you will either create an enemy or an eating disorder!

 

[Ceebs]

If she's good looking to begin with, she probably took enough pride in her appearance to get that way, and chances are she knows.

If you want to take the blunt approach, I suggest wearing a cup.

 

[velvett]

If she's good looking to begin with, she probably took enough pride in her appearance to get that way, and chances are she knows.

If you want to take the blunt approach, I suggest wearing a cup.

I couldn't agree more.

It's true she already knows - just look for signs of her trying to change that and be supportive.