Honestly, I do not want to be doomed to this kind of future. I am going to make it a goal, a mission, to get a girlfriend soon, just so that I can show that I can overcome my fears, my inhibitions.
I am going to spend many hours a week, either asking women out, learning how to ask them out, going out with them on dates and getting to know them better, etc. you get the idea. More time and energy needs to be vested forth in 'doing'. And I need to start taking baby steps to approaching women more easily. And I need to stop giving a shit about my reputation or what women think of me, that doesnt matter in this game. All that matters is that you respect that lady, if she dont like you back for who you are, then who cares.
If I fail to do this, we'll just say that I lack the discipline. Then I might have to agree with you that theres a chance that I wont get a girl.