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Spank your child for punishment?

my parent's spanked my bare ass with a paddle as hard as they could when I was a kid. hurt so damn bad, but taught me a lesson. the problem with people today is there not punishing their kids. if you don’t, I do not respect you at all, and you’re the one contributing to all the BS violence, disrespect etc that goes on in society. It’s your fault, not your children’s
 
No spanking here, I put my kid in "Time out" Yes time out. bastards. I said it. She hates it. Now when she does something wrong I ask her if she wants to stop or go into time out? She stops. .. mostly. lol

She`s 2 years old so her time out is me holding her from running around.
 
Spank um when they are young 1-4 years old,
You won't have to spank them when they are older 6-18
..and you shouldn't...

When they are young, spanking is about respect and attention.

When they get older, spanking turns to mean violence, punishment, fear..

When they get older you have to work harder and use mind games on them..
 
BTW-My dad and all his siblings got their asses lacerated with a razor strap by my grandpa,so in comparisons the belt I got whipped with wasn't shit.Every last one of them never got in trouble in school or with the law in their entire lives,that ought to tell you something,lol.
 
Turd Ferguson said:
I think I will be more the type to threaten spanking but almost never do it.

There is nothing worse than doing this. Why on earth would you threaten a punishment but then "almost never follow through". This is more confusing than anything else. The child will not understand the concept of discipline.

The key to proper discipline is not necessarily the type of punishment use, rather consistency.

I do agree with some of the points you made, especially the part about it becoming too easy and perhaps the punishment not always fitting the crime.

Discipline is about consistency and guidance. Sometimes a negative reinforcement is necessary. IMHO

Spanking should always be performed in a calm and controlled and private fashion. Send the child to his/her room so that you can have a chance to cool down. Enter the room, have a talk so that the child understands exactly what it is that they have done to warrant the spanking. One shot across the behind with a belt should be more than enough to get the point across.

One should always try other means of negative reinforcement first ie - the revocation of a privilige. Warn the child, "If you do this, then that will certainly occur" then always, always, always follow through. Another good reason to send a child to their room: so you can calm down and think about an acceptable punishment as it is difficult to think clearly when you are upset.

There is an expression in my language:

"It is better that you should cry now, than I should cry later."

Call me old fashioned, but this idea just seems to make sense to me.

However, as the child becomes older and can reason more and more a parent can no longer rely on spanking. Then one must clearly think a lot in order to even make 1/2 an attempt at proper parenting. Lots of mistakes to be made along the way... After all, it is the child that makes the parent - not the other way around.

And no, you don't have to have children in order to figure this stuff out.
 
exactly, when there older you just put their butts to work. GO CLEAN THE GARAGE!!!! LOL

Y_Lifter said:
Spank um when they are young 1-4 years old,
You won't have to spank them when they are older 6-18
..and you shouldn't...

When they are young, spanking is about respect and attention.

When they get older, spanking turns to mean violence, punishment, fear..

When they get older you have to work harder and use mind games on them..
 
Punishment for stealing is easy: make the child return whatever it was they stole to the person/place they stole it from and apologize then ask for punishment.

I can guarantee you that child will never so much as think to steal again.
 
You don't want to be in the situation where you are 60, they are 28, and it's payback time.

Think about it.
 
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